Haynesworth Says...'I Don't Even Like Black Girls'!

[The Dark King]

You should take a look at the comments, especially this one.

If it wasn't that it would be something else kid. So what's the solution submit and date bw even if you don't want to? That's some dumb shit Mike

 

[goodlove]

If it wasn't that it would be something else kid. So what's the solution submit and date bw even if you don't want to? That's some dumb shit Mike

I dont think (I hope not) he was trying to do anything other than point out what they are saying. does it have any relevance to the topic ? maybe.

 

[Bliss]

...you do have to acknowledge that this article gives BW ammunition to claim that if you date a WW, you probably hate your skin.

I'm still going for WW anyway, they can't lump me into the self-hate group!

It's like a miserable brainwash attempt. How does it equate to 'hating your skin'?

If every Black man up and took an African or Island bride instead of an American Black bride, the steaming outrage WOULD NOT STOP. Its not about hating Black skin, it's about not wanting them. And by them, I mean the racist ignorant loud mouths who IF they were in love and had a man, wouldn't give half a shit.
How come the same outrage isn't directed towards white men who love Black women? Do they hate their skin? Their moms? Perish the thought. They are known only as white men who LOVE Black women. And there it stops.

I don't think there is a MAN on earth who in the end, lets society dictate what his dick likes. It will always find the hole it wants to be in, weather that happens in the dark or in the light. A man will always chase who he wants- end of story.

 

[LaydeezmanCris]

Albert Haynesworth is such a joke, it's not even funny anymore ironically. He's one of the highest paid players in league history, and he can't even show up to training in shape, let alone do what his coach tells him. I believe he is innocent here, but if that's his defense, that he has more money than brain cells.

 

[TERRASTAR18]

I'm focusing primarily on this part. I don't really care about the rest of what she said.

Soulthinker, you do have to acknowledge that this article gives BW ammunition to claim that if you date a WW, you probably hate your skin.

I'm still going for WW anyway, they can't lump me into the self-hate group!

your reaching homie.....that comment speaks the truth.

 

[Tony Soprano]

Albert Haynesworth is such a joke, it's not even funny anymore ironically. He's one of the highest paid players in league history, and he can't even show up to training in shape, let alone do what his coach tells him. I believe he is innocent here, but if that's his defense, that he has more money than brain cells.

 

[karmacoma.]

It's like a miserable brainwash attempt. How does it equate to 'hating your skin'?

If every Black man up and took an African or Island bride instead of an American Black bride, the steaming outrage WOULD NOT STOP. Its not about hating Black skin, it's about not wanting them. And by them, I mean the racist ignorant loud mouths who IF they were in love and had a man, wouldn't give half a shit.
How come the same outrage isn't directed towards white men who love Black women? Do they hate their skin? Their moms? Perish the thought. They are known only as white men who LOVE Black women. And there it stops.

I don't think there is a MAN on earth who in the end, lets society dictate what his dick likes. It will always find the hole it wants to be in, weather that happens in the dark or in the light. A man will always chase who he wants- end of story.

The Australian Jessica Rabbit, figure-8-looking banger gets it.

 

[11eleven11]

Yeah, Mikey makes a good point, but:

Aside from Haynesworth's ridiculous, "I don't even like Black girls" defense...

since when is "I don't even like black girls" some awful comment degrading black women? :/ It's a moronic response to assault charges and with his "She's just jealous because my gf is white" comments, he probably said it for the benefit of his extremely pissed off girlfriend rather than because he thinks it'll actually be taken as a serious defence. Not familiar with the gent in question, so if there's some backstory of him slating black women, then someone fill me in.

Also, lol. That's a pretty random thing to make up(swiping a credit card between her boobs), I think he did it and I imagine if he was single he'd own up and pay up.

 

[The Dark King]

Yeah, Mikey makes a good point, but:
since when is "I don't even like black girls" some awful comment degrading black women? :/ It's a moronic response to assault charges and with his "She's just jealous because my gf is white" comments, he probably said it for the benefit of his extremely pissed off girlfriend rather than because he thinks it'll actually be taken as a serious defence. Not familiar with the gent in question, so if there's some backstory of him slating black women, then someone fill me in.

Also, lol. That's a pretty random thing to make up(swiping a credit card between her boobs), I think he did it and I imagine if he was single he'd own up and pay up.

I think you're half right since what grown man even talks that way. That's shit I expect from a 16 yr old kid. I don't think he actually did that and unfortunately for her if it were true it's on her to provide some kind of proof since rich athletes get false accusations all the time.

 

[Tamstrong]

It's like a miserable brainwash attempt. How does it equate to 'hating your skin'?

If every Black man up and took an African or Island bride instead of an American Black bride, the steaming outrage WOULD NOT STOP. Its not about hating Black skin, it's about not wanting them. And by them, I mean the racist ignorant loud mouths who IF they were in love and had a man, wouldn't give half a shit.
How come the same outrage isn't directed towards white men who love Black women? Do they hate their skin? Their moms? Perish the thought. They are known only as white men who LOVE Black women. And there it stops.

I don't think there is a MAN on earth who in the end, lets society dictate what his dick likes. It will always find the hole it wants to be in, weather that happens in the dark or in the light. A man will always chase who he wants- end of story.

Great post, Kuno. :smt023

The Australian Jessica Rabbit, figure-8-looking banger gets it.

Yes she does.

 

[GQ Brotha]

It's like a miserable brainwash attempt. How does it equate to 'hating your skin'?

If every Black man up and took an African or Island bride instead of an American Black bride, the steaming outrage WOULD NOT STOP. Its not about hating Black skin, it's about not wanting them. And by them, I mean the racist ignorant loud mouths who IF they were in love and had a man, wouldn't give half a shit.
How come the same outrage isn't directed towards white men who love Black women? Do they hate their skin? Their moms? Perish the thought. They are known only as white men who LOVE Black women. And there it stops.

I don't think there is a MAN on earth who in the end, lets society dictate what his dick likes. It will always find the hole it wants to be in, weather that happens in the dark or in the light. A man will always chase who he wants- end of story.

Excellently stated Kunoichi. :smt023

 

[Mikey]

Are you all serious? I don't feel like writing a long essay to respond against several replies that were made here, so I'll make things simpler with quotes from others that are addressing this issue with Haynesworth and other blacks, in general.

If Mr Albert did what he did to the waitress it doesn't excuse him. It was very disrespectful whether or not he dates black women or not. At times I wonder why some blacks don't see that hate of self has gotten and kept us down.

He is entitled to tell his truth; alot of us black men have been turned off over time when dealing with black women; from section 8, to slavery black women have acted like they dont need the black man after we stood tall and strong for them- he was just man enough to ADMIT what many of us dating outside our race at one time or another thinks. All races lie- so what? Should we believe a women because she's black? Silently and aloud black women are disgusted when they see us with ANY other women of different races and cultures; so lets stop being naive- I've personally heard sista's say the same thing about men who date outside of their race just as they would a statement about gay men- which is: "What a waste of a good black man"- just because we are not attracted to the " what can you do for me?' type of black women... if we are to claim some black women are not jealous then we close this dialogue to being untruthful and not candid or frank. Alot of women from different cultures wont kick you out on the streets like black women- this fact shows lack of problem solving skills, even when black men are not cheating and doing everything responsibly. Black women have a history of lies too,namely (refusal to acknowledge male parentage)...What about refusal to include black men on birth certificates just to get welfare? (lies lies lies) you got to say u dont know the daddy,lie, you were raped, lie, or it was a one night stand, lie... lets be truthful-This man could have any women he wants - why a black women that he needs to fondle in public? Black men are not savages...and not all black women are liars; but an easy lawsuit for gold diggers either way.

Direct response to the above quote:

Wow...you act as though Black women just developed all these qualities out of thin air. It took some Black man to fail to create the Black woman in which you speak of. For every Black woman screwing up there is a Black man screwing up right with her. I'm afraid your attraction to "Ghetto Goddesses" have skewed your views regarding the average Black woman. You think the average Black woman don't want a man to be proud of? You think the average Black woman don't want a real father for her children?

I could go on a long tangent about how the Black man ain't s**t, but I know of too many good Black men to buy into some self-hating bait. Yes, it's self hating to only see the bad in YOUR race and not the good in YOUR race. As long as I'm a Black woman, I'll never condemn all Black men. I love my BLACK FATHER too much to ever betray his memory with such lunacy. Stating Black women ain't s**t, is the same as saying Black men ain't s**t. You can't separate the Black man from the Black woman...EVER. You can't compare Black women with any other race because NO other race share OUR experiences. Just to prove my point, I have NEVER came across NO other race of women being degraded and stereotyped, by men of their OUR RACE like you are doing.

In your entire post, you didn't say one GOOD thing about Black women. So you want to divorce Black women, go ahead. But don't you dare hide your color struck attitude behind the negative stereotypes of Black women. All this crap you say that Black women are guilty of, you can turn on Maury and Jerry Springer, and see ALL RACES OF WOMEN exhibiting this same behavior. But of course you're too color struck to see this. Why can't you just be honest like Albert Haynesworth a.k.a. the Double Slave? Just admit you DON'T want offspring that look like your mother. Just admit you DON'T like women that have the same skin color as your BLACK azz.

I pity any woman married to or dating you because you lack SELF ESTEEM and therefore void of the mental tenacity involved in maintaining a REAL relationship. I also pity you because your internal oppression is too strong. I also pity myself because I can't sell your dumb azz a pill for your condition.

By the way, please don't refer to Black women as sistahs, because it's obvious you don't consider us family.

 

[GQ Brotha]

Direct response to the above quote:

You can't compare Black women with any other race because NO other race share OUR experiences. Just to prove my point, I have NEVER came across NO other race of women being degraded and stereotyped, by men of their OUR RACE like you are doing.

All this crap you say that Black women are guilty of, you can turn on Maury and Jerry Springer, and see ALL RACES OF WOMEN exhibiting this same behavior. But of course you're too color struck to see this. Why can't you just be honest like Albert Haynesworth a.k.a. the Double Slave? Just admit you DON'T want offspring that look like your mother. Just admit you DON'T like women that have the same skin color as your BLACK azz.

Once again though she falls right into the bear trap and here is why.

She resorts to the all too familiar phrase of the just don't get it African American Woman of today by stating "All other women do it too"

A conversation that centers around black women and she invokes other women of a different background even though as she states herself their experiences are different. Contradictory, just a tad little.

Maybe Haynesworth just doesn't want a bull with a vagina. Always looking for drama, conflict and bringing stress to the game. Shit from the looks of his life he already has enough of that on his own accord.

Too many black women seem to think the word submissive and feminine is a shot across their bough.

The irony of that is the black women that usually get involved with white men have totally different personalities or check themselves of the "tude" at the door.

Only with some simp ass black thug niggas they can pull that independent woman, loud, attitude having persona. No wonder they love thugs so much. Black women can talk down to those oafs because they just want the pussy anyway, hit it and quit it jumpoff.

A real man isn't having that shit if he has an ounce of backbone and self respect about himself and strives for more in life.

Some of these black women ought to learn the phrase

It would start to explain why brothas are marrying other women. It's never a black woman's fault but always someone or something else. SMDH.

 

[Mikey]

It makes sense, what you're saying. But you have to remember that although myself and my family are black, we aren't really Americans, we're from a foreign country. That is what makes things a little more complicated for us. My family is not really AA, and yet they are at a little unease when I (and other blacks) mention that they prefer women of other ethnic groups, besides their own. As stated in the other thread (Adolescent's thread), it is impossible to derive (when you date interracially) if it is based on resentment for BW or a lot of love for WW, or perhaps both, simultaneously.

It also makes sense to say that some BW who like WM do it out of hatred for BM, because the same kinds of problems occur for them, we just don't focus on it as intensively as we focus on their problems, because of the nature of this site.

 

[GQ Brotha]

It makes sense, what you're saying. But you have to remember that although myself and my family are black, we aren't really Americans, we're from a foreign country. That is what makes things a little more complicated for us. My family is not really AA, and yet they are at a little unease when I (and other blacks) mention that they prefer women of other ethnic groups, besides their own. As stated in the other thread (Adolescent's thread), it is impossible to derive (when you date interracially) if it is based on resentment for BW or a lot of love for WW, or perhaps both, simultaneously.

It also makes sense to say that some BW who like WM do it out of hatred for BM, because the same kinds of problems occur for them, we just don't focus on it as intensively as we focus on their problems, because of the nature of this site.

Which is why I have always done what makes me happy and let others do what suits them.

I'm attracted to white women, yet I realize there are white women who don't like black guys, that doesn't affect me, same goes for black women who don't like black men, etc, its a wide, wide world out here.

I think its my strong individual streak that makes me look at things that way. I know what I like, what turns me on, attracts my interest and stimulates me emotionally.

 

[Tony Soprano]

Once again though she falls right into the bear trap and here is why.

She resorts to the all too familiar phrase of the just don't get it African American Woman of today by stating "All other women do it too"

A conversation that centers around black women and she invokes other women of a different background even though as she states herself their experiences are different. Contradictory, just a tad little.

Maybe Haynesworth just doesn't want a bull with a vagina. Always looking for drama, conflict and bringing stress to the game. Shit from the looks of his life he already has enough of that on his own accord.

Too many black women seem to think the word submissive and feminine is a shot across their bough.

The irony of that is the black women that usually get involved with white men have totally different personalities or check themselves of the "tude" at the door.

Only with some simp ass black thug niggas they can pull that independent woman, loud, attitude having persona. No wonder they love thugs so much. Black women can talk down to those oafs because they just want the pussy anyway, hit it and quit it jumpoff.

A real man isn't having that shit if he has an ounce of backbone and self respect about himself and strives for more in life.

Some of these black women ought to learn the phrase

It would start to explain why brothas are marrying other women. It's never a black woman's fault but always someone or something else. SMDH.

Repped.

 

[goodlove]

Yeah, Mikey makes a good point, but:
since when is "I don't even like black girls" some awful comment degrading black women? :/ It's a moronic response to assault charges and with his "She's just jealous because my gf is white" comments, he probably said it for the benefit of his extremely pissed off girlfriend rather than because he thinks it'll actually be taken as a serious defence. Not familiar with the gent in question, so if there's some backstory of him slating black women, then someone fill me in.

Also, lol. That's a pretty random thing to make up(swiping a credit card between her boobs), I think he did it and I imagine if he was single he'd own up and pay up.

nice statement

 

[GQ Brotha]

Repped.

LOL, TS. I just can't stand the whole "well all women have attitude" for example.

Its like some of these women have a problem being self critical or accepting criticism. My favorite is black men choose relationships with non-black women because they can't handle a strong black woman and they are gay.

Even in a couple of the responses they called Haynesworth gay, the same thing was said about Brian White after he called out some black women for talking smack about his marriage to his Latina wife. I think the DL paranoia has gotten to some of these women or are they so irresistibly hot that it's impossible for a man to not want to be with them.

I know all the negative stereotypes about black men and you don't see me going "well white men do that too." I strive for better as a black man, don't need to cover my self under the guise of who else does negative things as well.

I leave some of these crazy women to the thugs that will make them another statistic. Until their value system of what a "man" is changes they will continue to never learn the real deal.

 

[Tony Soprano]

LOL, TS. I just can't stand the whole "well all women have attitude" for example.

Its like some of these women have a problem being self critical or accepting criticism. My favorite is black men choose relationships with non-black women because they can't handle a strong black woman and they are gay.

Even in a couple of the responses they called Haynesworth gay, the same thing was said about Brian White after he called out some black women for talking smack about his marriage to his Latina wife. I think the DL paranoia has gotten to some of these women or are they so irresistibly hot that it's impossible for a man to not want to be with them.

I know all the negative stereotypes about black men and you don't see me going "well white men do that too." I strive for better as a black man, don't need to cover my self under the guise of who else does negative things as well.

I leave some of these crazy women to the thugs that will make them another statistic. Until their value system of what a "man" is changes they will continue to never learn the real deal.

I see what you mean by striving for better as a black man, great minds think alike. I for one refuse to apologize for being attracted to a certain type of woman.

However, some black men will choose a woman who has the power to turn a pawn into a king while other black men choose the kind of woman who will turn that same pawn into a queen so she can be the king.

 

[goodlove]

You should take a look at the comments, especially this one.

It's like a miserable brainwash attempt. How does it equate to 'hating your skin'?

If every Black man up and took an African or Island bride instead of an American Black bride, the steaming outrage WOULD NOT STOP. Its not about hating Black skin, it's about not wanting them. And by them, I mean the racist ignorant loud mouths who IF they were in love and had a man, wouldn't give half a shit.
How come the same outrage isn't directed towards white men who love Black women? Do they hate their skin? Their moms? Perish the thought. They are known only as white men who LOVE Black women. And there it stops.

I don't think there is a MAN on earth who in the end, lets society dictate what his dick likes. It will always find the hole it wants to be in, weather that happens in the dark or in the light. A man will always chase who he wants- end of story.

LOL, TS. I just can't stand the whole "well all women have attitude" for example.

Its like some of these women have a problem being self critical or accepting criticism. My favorite is black men choose relationships with non-black women because they can't handle a strong black woman and they are gay.

Even in a couple of the responses they called Haynesworth gay, the same thing was said about Brian White after he called out some black women for talking smack about his marriage to his Latina wife. I think the DL paranoia has gotten to some of these women or are they so irresistibly hot that it's impossible for a man to not want to be with them.

I know all the negative stereotypes about black men and you don't see me going "well white men do that too." I strive for better as a black man, don't need to cover my self under the guise of who else does negative things as well.

I leave some of these crazy women to the thugs that will make them another statistic. Until their value system of what a "man" is changes they will continue to never learn the real deal.

the thread and the article has nothing to do with each other but the angle is important to a point. the problem is it has been discussed over and over again. it is very clear people out there dont get it and as well in here also.

lets say this with clarity and there will be no equivocation or mincing about anything :

1) haynes worth is an idiot. so having to discuss anything he says or does is a waste of time.

2) in regards to his statement. it is stupid. no one in their right mind would be within the circumference of slight agreement of this fool.

3) in regards to BM/WW relationships and how you feel about BW and why is, stupid to address. lets say this as I stated before dating a white woman should be done without having to degrade a BW. better stated....Im dating her not because she white for me but because she is right for me.
- to say BW always date thugs is no different than WW saying I like bad boys. WM complain about that all the time. Women (White) only date Bad boys. yada yada yada.

- to say BW are golddiggers...show me a race of women that have none. I will show you a race that is extinct.

4) lastly, for goodness sakes can we pleeze no longer have people post these damn thesis like statements in these threads. Im tired of reading fucking books.