@Playboy: Damn, you and YMRA ought to get a room or something. They should make a thread to let other people know when other people are talking about them or addressing them in other ones. Anyway, playboy W(ho)TF are you? Tell me why your opinion should matter to me. Ah hell, I'll humor you. I got time. Anyway, what makes him worthy is the person he is. That doesn't go away when someone gets fucked over and ends up in prison. Not to me anyway. And he's not incarcerated for any of the things you mentioned, not that it's any of your business. He's in for a BS burglary charge, 10 yrs do 5, but he could be out before that because besides being a BS charge he's knowledgable in legal matters and crap like that and would have been out years sooner if he didn't have to beat an inmate's ass to save his own. Now you can believe what you want as it makes no difference to me, but after 12 years I have a much better grip of the person he is than you and anyone else and he's worth it without question and there's nothing loser about him. As for me, I haven't broken a law since I was 13 going through my rebellious streak as a teen and that was only once and I learned my lesson. I do joke about being ugly because there are some who think I am and I can be immature and mocking sometimes, heh. But I personally don't believe I'm ugly but I am smart enough to know I can't please or appeal to everyone. I'd post a pic and let you decide but I'm posting this from a phone and don't know how to do all that on a phone. Maybe tomorrow when I can get on a computer again if it's really that important. As far as trashy goes, I'm not even sure what that's supposed to mean. I'm not financially blessed or shallow and there are times I can forget my manners. I'm modest and not loud or obnoxious. I don't lack empathy for others or self-awareness. I'm not fancy but I take care of myself. Anyway, in my view there isn't a better man than him and he's all I want so whether anyone else wants me is irrevelant so that ought to answer those questions. He's not a thug and I don't think what happened to him makes him a criminal. He's not a terrible man AT ALL or anything less than a REAL man and nor is he ruining my life in fact he's only ever done the opposite of that. Women like me make you sick? Well, then we have something in common because people like you who assume they know things they don't and then proceed to judge others so negatively without knowing an iota about them or their situation make me sick and IMHO makes you the fool.
Thank you Andrae and thank you especially Zorry.
I wouldn't do what those mob wives are though, heh. But to each their own. Everybody is different.