Elin now dating a white guy

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goodlove said:
typical woman. you just wanted more money to get your hair and nails done. Always screaming about the kids when in essence you are looking at them as pawns of war and a meal ticket.
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If you think so little of women, why do you want to be in a relationship with one?
 
You're better than this Esp let the baby have his bottle. We get it you were screwed ok now what. Let's just all get back to worshiping black cock and white ass lol.
Espy said:
Clearly someone's reading comprehension skills are lacking here, I don't dispute that. So I'll say this and then I'm putting you on ignore. You have aired your dirty laundry, so to speak, all over the forum. It would be nearly impossible for anyone to not be familiar with your personal situation goodlove. So any comments you make that tie into your personal situation are likely to be considered in light of that situation. Expecting people to forget about that, when you've been so blatant at sharing it at every opportunity, or expecting them to not see that all your comments about women wanting child support and denying visitation are directly related to, and prompted by your situation, is illogical.

You appear to get fixated easily, on situations and people you don't like, and you literally just run it in the ground. Things like creating multiple aliases and leaving negative rep with other people's names are indicative of your ability to not let go and to resort to whatever means possible when you don't agree with someone. It's childish, goodlove, ridiculously so. After a point, it just becomes impossible to take someone seriously, or to respect anything they say, regardless of whether it has merit of not.

I think that's enough thread-jacking for me, again my apologies to the OP. :cool:
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A number of the women got fuckin schooled in this thread(especially DB). Some of you ladies need to take an Econ 101 class or something. Get caught up on the idea of supply & demand then get back to us.
 
MrFantastic said:
Apparently her personality is Oprah status or her pussy is like sunshine. I can't hate.
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hell like I stated earlier TW fucked it up. lets get it clear.....TW went to her. she didnt hound him. she was a nanny to some family friend of a fellow golfer to tiger. Tiger asked the fellow golfer to introduce him to her. she played her cards rite and married the dude.

he fucked her over and she got the cash and married another. who ever made the thread made it a racial issue.

what ? she is to stay on the black side ? hell get it where you can. fuck it
 
Iggy said:
A number of the women got fuckin schooled in this thread(especially DB). Some of you ladies need to take an Econ 101 class or something. Get caught up on the idea of supply & demand then get back to us.
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Don't refer to me. You know nothing about me. The economics argument is a bullshit cover up so you all can be sexist and think it's validated.

I'm sickened by the whole thing.
 
Dreaming_Blue said:
Don't refer to me. You know nothing about me. The economics argument is a bullshit cover up so you all can be sexist and think it's validated.

I'm sickened by the whole thing.
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Buts not it a bs cover up. Its fuckin logic. And I'd say you lack logical thinking if you cant understand why Tiger is worth so much.

I'd say the same in regards to female celebs that are in high demand. They deserve their money (example Maria Sharapova)
 
Iggy said:
Buts not it a bs cover up. Its fuckin logic. And I'd say you lack logical thinking if you cant understand why Tiger is worth so much.

I'd say the same in regards to female celebs that are in high demand. They deserve their money (example Maria Sharapova)
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Damn brotha just let it go. We should all just agree to disagree. Minds never change they just get angry and more attached to their way of thinking.
 
Ymra said:
I couldn't disagree more.

If I could have afforded for my wife to stay how while my children are young, and it was her choice...I would do it...........no second thoughts. Who wouldn't choose to have their children raised by its own mother rather than daycare?
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I can totally understand how people can differ on this issue. I just felt that it was important to prevent a "you take care of me" dynamic within our relationship. In my opinion, unequal power distribution is one of the biggest seeds I have seen for contention in a couple. At some point, the working parent/partner becomes the 'parental' unit, 'allowing' the other to have spending money, relieving the 'primary caregiver' so they can have 'a break', and the like. I didn't want an atmosphere in the relationship where she was viewed as 'responsible' for the care of the child, with no public life, while I was the primary public actor, with a life beyond the family confines. It just makes me feel too... Taliban-ish. LOL. I know I'm generally an outlier on gender and relationship issues amongst most of my friends, so I know this may sound flaky to some.

I feel that even though you may use a daycare provider, parents are the child's primary bonding and interaction based on the first few months and I don't think that daycare breaks that. My son was there from 3 (or was it 6?) months and is very attached to his parents (at least from what I've seen - lol). Plus, my ex was very interested in resuming her career, which is one of the primary reasons she came to the States in the first place. I didn't want to stand in the way of that. But you did say that it was dependent on your ex wanting that, so fair enough.
 
Kunoichi said:
"Florida child support guidelines are based on the Income Shares Model for calculating child support.
The monthly support amount determined by applying the guidelines is divided proportionally according to each parent's income."
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JordanC said:
Most states work off a formula where the amount each parent makes is input then the formula takes into account how many days a month the kid is with each parent. It is very fair. A lot of men don't take their kids for the majority time. The ones who do are more rare. Also men get remarried quicker ususally within the first year. Don't know if they are related.

I had a male friend moaning about his child support amount. I said uhhh......how many days a month are the kids with you?? He said a number, like 4 days I think. I said well right there's your problem. She is housing and feeding them more days. You either pay with your time or you pay with your wallet. He grumbled that he didn't want them anymore because he liked weekends to do single guy stuff. Nothing more to say.
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States use that proportional support model in general these days. So I understand if a millionaire has to pay a whole lot in child support even if it exceeds the actual cost of his children's care. What I don't get is alimony for maintaining an ex-spouse in "a lifestyle to which she's become accustomed". And that goes for men getting alimony as well. I don't think anyone should get a dime beyond the compensation they merit based on time away from the workforce for child-rearing.
 
MrFantastic said:
Damn brotha just let it go. We should all just agree to disagree. Minds never change they just get angry and more attached to their way of thinking.
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True but I just cant stand some of the lack of basic logic and ignorance in this thread

but you are right, I'll just agree to disagree with her.;)
 
orejon4 said:
States use that proportional support model in general these days. So I understand if a millionaire has to pay a whole lot in child support even if it exceeds the actual cost of his children's care. What I don't get is alimony for maintaining an ex-spouse in "a lifestyle to which she's become accustomed". And that goes for men getting alimony as well. I don't think anyone should get a dime beyond the compensation they merit based on time away from the workforce for child-rearing.
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the only thing about that is how long should you support them. I dont believe in alimony because if she is working then why should she get alimony. alimony is a bunch of bullshit. especially if they divorce because they couldnt get along.
 
goodlove said:
alimony is a bunch of bullshit.
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http://www.divorceinfo.com/alimony.htm

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Alimony is also sometimes called spousal support. It's designed to provide the lower-income spouse with money for living expenses over and above the money provided by child support. Alimony is different from child support. Where child support is a simple mathematical calculation using guidelines published by your state, alimony is very much in the discretion of the judge.
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orejon4 said:
I can totally understand how people can differ on this issue. I just felt that it was important to prevent a "you take care of me" dynamic within our relationship. In my opinion, unequal power distribution is one of the biggest seeds I have seen for contention in a couple. At some point, the working parent/partner becomes the 'parental' unit, 'allowing' the other to have spending money, relieving the 'primary caregiver' so they can have 'a break', and the like. I didn't want an atmosphere in the relationship where she was viewed as 'responsible' for the care of the child, with no public life, while I was the primary public actor, with a life beyond the family confines. It just makes me feel too... Taliban-ish. LOL. I know I'm generally an outlier on gender and relationship issues amongst most of my friends, so I know this may sound flaky to some.

I feel that even though you may use a daycare provider, parents are the child's primary bonding and interaction based on the first few months and I don't think that daycare breaks that. My son was there from 3 (or was it 6?) months and is very attached to his parents (at least from what I've seen - lol). Plus, my ex was very interested in resuming her career, which is one of the primary reasons she came to the States in the first place. I didn't want to stand in the way of that. But you did say that it was dependent on your ex wanting that, so fair enough.
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They won't let me rep you again until I spread it around. You're no outlier, and you are bang-on about what easily can happen to the dynamics when one person stays home and the other works. And then if the relationship dies? The one who was at home is in major trouble because s/he doesnt have current job skills and experience.
 
Iggy said:
A number of the women got fuckin schooled in this thread(especially DB). Some of you ladies need to take an Econ 101 class or something. Get caught up on the idea of supply & demand then get back to us.
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then would it be too much to ask that the men take a marketing class...supply and demand is a crossover to economics...i'm really surprised that you are not better informed on endorsements...a company expects to get a return on their investment...if the "person" selected to endorse has damaged their reputation then not all the earned or god given talent in the world helps with the value of a bad name...bad press...

many talented athletes get caught up in drugs...weapon possession...illegal dealing...can anyone say dog fighting...vick will not ever get another endorsement even if he wins a superbowl...it just won't happen...
 
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