ShoFizzle I'm interested in learning about your experiences with people in Miami. I wanted to buy a condo in the brickell area but I've been reading a lot of negative things. I know there is large Russian population in Sunny Isles and that was another possible destination for me but I'm worried about mobsters and racism. What has your experience been like when it comes to women and making friends ??
I see black and white hookups all the time. My experience with black and latin hookups mirrors what Orejon says.
Well, It has been a year for me now, and I can tell you, don't come to Miami. I can see why it's called the superficial capital of the US. If you are not of a well-established background, most won't even bother with you. A lot of women here are looking for sugar daddies, which I find sad. There are also a lot of undercover gay men.....that are married. You can have a good time if you are here to spend money, but other than that, I see myself moving away soon.
Y'all complaining about Miami need a tutor. Meet up with me at the full moon party tonight or Wet Willies on Sunday or the Tarzans Cup next Saturday. 3 different environments w/ 3 different types of women. Women will even approach you here if you step out with some confidence about you. Sign up for some lock and key speed dating events if you gotta, most of the dudes there be creepy old corny dudes... if you can't rise to the top there you're not getting laid anywhere on this planet.
You'll learn as I have living a major city means you either step your game way up or move. The culture is too money and looks oriented to be happy any other way. So figure out your financial plan and hit that gym like it slapped yo momma and get what you want. Life doesn't give a fuck about the whiners and complainers.
Wow. Harsh. OR, Miami simply isn't the place for him and didn't know until he got there and has a certain issue that prevents him from moving right away. You don't know his story. And please...I have a certain level of irritation for people who say things like 'hit the gym, and up the zeros in your bank account'. Some people's priorities are not those, and don't want someone who is only fixated on how flat their stomach looks by the pool and what kind of car they drive- personally, those people are flat, vapid, and soulless to me 90% of the time. I wouldn't waste my time trying to attract someone like that...BUT...to some people that's extremely important, SO, I say, more power to them finding the person with those same values and beliefs. Don't sit there knocking ShoFIZZLE because they aren't his. Life is about what you're passionate about, and what you do that brings you fulfillment. I'd rather be poor and happy than rich and miserable, trying to hold onto an ideal that just isn't practical.
No Child Left Unfed charity event next Sunday from 11AM - 3PM.... if you're interested in socializing with people who care about more than just there self. You'd be surprised at the lack of 'black male' presence at these things. I don't know what y'all are doing (maybe you're already doing all of this shit), I just feel that are so many opportunities to meet people here it's ridiculous.
Well good for you but you belong to a minority so small it doesn't count for this discussion. The fact of the matter is the vast majority does care whether consciously or subconsciously. The better looking and more successful you are the more options you have period. He's talking about how difficult it is to find someone well it boils to this, if you carry yourself well and have nice stuff women will want you good ones and bad ones. It's biology pure and simple. You should read more :-D
This has nothing to do with looks. I am certain you are not a miami resident. mr. New Yorker! A completely different place where if you don't speak much Spanish you are going to miss out no matter how much in the gym you want to go to. Keep the new yorker rules in new york, bro.
lmao....ur preaching to those same old corny dudes who do you think roam the internet (not the dudes getting pussy obviously)
not really didnt you get the memo? bm are more interested in doing the sexual act that brings kids, but not actually taking care of them
HELL YEA ! Miami only caters to spanish speaking people ? I can see that ! Alot of really good looking spanish women I know tend to stick with their own culture. Rarely do I see BM and Spanish women. Can you tell me about Sunny Isles and the Russian women in that area ??
What the fuck are you guys talking about? I don't speak Spanish and I know very few people who do and we all do fine in Miami. Hell we frequently travel to Central America and do just as fine there without a lick of Spanish. You guys are just making excuses now. With regard to Sunny Isles, there are a ton of non-Spanish speaking Russians there and the Russian mob pretty much owns the place (as well as about 75% of the strip clubs in Florida). If you're looking to hook up in Miami, best thing you can do for yourself is not adapt this 'woe be upon me in Miami' victim attitude. It's not going to attract women of any nationality.
