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FG
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Jaisee is not saying that women in general is going for money etc. That is the difference. Stop redirecting.
Talking about dating advice from women vs men has no correlation to you saying that men know better than women what women want. I mean seriously. That's some crazy shit righ thurrrr.
If you want to find out about women, what they are looking for etc, ask them, lost of them, straight up.
From different walks of life - not just one cross section.
Dating advice.. I would actually ask both men and women
wtarshi
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You need to be supplying more than topless skyping then:mrgreen:
The Dark King
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FG tarshi(realtalk) I know you're coming from a good place on this which is why I never get rude with you but tell me how is what I said different from Jaisee? Or Iggy or Petty or Karma or GZ aka Doa aka Refugee aka whatever he decides this week? Why am I the misguided one. Just curious.
vanilla2chai
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You skype shirtless with women on Skype? What the hell? lol
wtarshi
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What I said earlier to you is making sense now huh, lol
Get out your credit cards ready
The Dark King
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Again there isn't an emoticon with an eye roll big enough lol. Essentially when you give advice on how to approach or get women you are assuming that you know what they want. Saying to ask men instead of women would indicate men are better equiped to tell you what women want over women.
Agreeing to disagree.
Agreeing to disagree.
blackbull1970
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Everyone Loves The Bull!
No negative comments about me in this thread. As many neg reps I get from these mofos, I figured this thread was about me.
I must not be pissin' enough people off....I need to step up my game.
LOL!
No negative comments about me in this thread. As many neg reps I get from these mofos, I figured this thread was about me.
I must not be pissin' enough people off....I need to step up my game.
LOL!
vanilla2chai
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The Dark King
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Rep me your skype name and we can" converse" anytime you want gorgeous. I would you too Tarsh but you front kid :-D
Bliss
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IDK, if money didn't mean anything to women in a relationship, why do so many couples argue over it?
I know it's not men arguing with themselves.
On a side-note, I noticed a leap being made that poor guy = nice guy, and rich guy = asshole. When courting/relationship scenerios were presented, somehow the man who had money was dismissed as being shallow, flash, not a real man, or a cold, silent, dinner partner shit guy who treats women crappy?? Since when did men with money become such villians?
(too much media stereotype maybe?) There are a lot of loving, sweet, devoted men who are also well off. I mean for real for real, there are broke-ass pricks in this world as much as there are rich ones.
Is it so bad that a woman finds a man who is financially stable an attractive quality? Personally, a man that makes enough money to alter his life is to be applauded...more often than not, there is as much blood sweat sacrifice and tears put into his work as perhaps a construction worker, janitor or burger-flipper that are getting all the love in this thread.
If you think about it, the qualities needed to financially succeed in life are very often what many women say they want - it just so happens that the rewards for the man are a better paycheck. Often times, he has gotten a degree, so he's intelligent; he may have worked his way from the bottom to the top, so he's how do you say it...a guy who sticks it out/ sticks around...is dedicated; he may be self made, so he's creative, has perserverence, is loyal, he's putting in his all all to see his baby get off the ground...those are great qualities!
Women say 'I want a hard-working man" when in reality, that actually is a man who works hard for his money.
On a side-note, I noticed a leap being made that poor guy = nice guy, and rich guy = asshole. When courting/relationship scenerios were presented, somehow the man who had money was dismissed as being shallow, flash, not a real man, or a cold, silent, dinner partner shit guy who treats women crappy?? Since when did men with money become such villians?
(too much media stereotype maybe?) There are a lot of loving, sweet, devoted men who are also well off. I mean for real for real, there are broke-ass pricks in this world as much as there are rich ones. Is it so bad that a woman finds a man who is financially stable an attractive quality? Personally, a man that makes enough money to alter his life is to be applauded...more often than not, there is as much blood sweat sacrifice and tears put into his work as perhaps a construction worker, janitor or burger-flipper that are getting all the love in this thread.
If you think about it, the qualities needed to financially succeed in life are very often what many women say they want - it just so happens that the rewards for the man are a better paycheck. Often times, he has gotten a degree, so he's intelligent; he may have worked his way from the bottom to the top, so he's how do you say it...a guy who sticks it out/ sticks around...is dedicated; he may be self made, so he's creative, has perserverence, is loyal, he's putting in his all all to see his baby get off the ground...those are great qualities!
Women say 'I want a hard-working man" when in reality, that actually is a man who works hard for his money.
FG
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Thank you for that hun, honestly.
I never respond when Iggy or Petty write stuff like that for different reasons. I don't care about Iggy, sometimes I thin he writes what he writes regarding women just to stirr the pot. Same w Petty I love that but, but he likes to stirr. No point in responding. Karma usually don't say stuff you do - he turns what women here say against them and many times he has a point, a little bitterness there but mostly he4 doesn't keep grating like you have a tendency to do.
Jaisee never said that men would know better what women want, he said take dating advice from a man. That is a huge difference.
Dating advice from a man: he can tell you from his direct experience what has worked for him (still limited) but he has direct experience w it.
A man can, and never will have a direct experience what a woman wants from a relationship. Never directly, he can have an opinion, he can have indirect knowledge by just being in relationships w women, he can listen to what women say they want but in the end - if you want a closer view of what women want from a relationship, clearly you have to ask a woman, not a man.
Direct experience....
Indirect experience...
I wanna be your wing man damn it!!!!
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wtarshi
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Lol....the love box is Sooo old with no built in camera or speaker and now it will not switch on. I guess when I'm next in the office I'll ask the boss to use my computer, I'll jump on hers and we can topless skype then. I'm sure she will be okay with that
jaisee
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LOL, don't get me in trouble!
To clarify; in that same post, I DID say make lots of female friends. That was actually for several reasons.
1) I didn't have a sister so I learn a ton about women from my female friends. Just this morning over breakfast, I learned that the size doesn't matter thing is truly bullshit and that uncircumcised penises have 'flavor pockets'.
2) Women make the best wingmen. Just this past Friday I was doing HH with a group and one of my friends noticed I was peeping this sistah hard.... so she gets up to go have a smoke and on the way out stops to talk to the girl. She talks to the girl for a few minutes, then goes outside for her smoke for a few minutes. When she returns, she says "Sorry Jai, she's in a serious relationship". I didn't even have to say anything about my interest in the girl.... she just noticed I was looking and decided to take matters into her own hands.
I just think that women are often (obviously generalizing) not very realistic when they encourage a guy to approach a gal. Male friends are usually a lot more blunt and honest.
FG
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IDK, if money didn't mean anything to women in a relationship, why do so many couples argue over it?I know it's not men arguing with themselves.
On a side-note, I noticed a leap being made that poor guy = nice guy, and rich guy = asshole. When courting/relationship scenerios were presented, somehow the man who had money was dismissed as being shallow, flash, not a real man, or a cold, silent, gourmet dinner shit guy who treats women crappy?? Since when did men with money become such villians?
Is it so bad that a woman finds a man who is financially stable an attractive quality? Personally, a man that makes enough money to alter his life is to be applauded...more often than not, there is as much blood sweat sacrifice and tears put into his work as perhaps a construction worker, janitor or burger-flipper that are getting all the love in this thread.
If you think about it, the qualities needed to financially succeed in life are very often what many women say they want - it just so happens that the rewards for the man are a better paycheck. Often times, he has gotten a degree, so he's intelligent; he may have worked his way from the bottom to the top, so he's how do you say it...a guy who sticks it out/ sticks around...is dedicated; he may be self made, so he's creative, has perserverence, is loyal, he's putting in his all all to see his baby get off the ground...those are great qualities!
Women say 'I want a hard-working man" when in reality, that actually is a man who works hard for his money.
Kuno, I love ya but nobody said money means nothing. The women here said that money is not the primary thing we are looking for in a man. That is a huge difference.
jaisee
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IDK, if money didn't mean anything to women in a relationship, why do so many couples argue over it?I know it's not men arguing with themselves.
On a side-note, I noticed a leap being made that poor guy = nice guy, and rich guy = asshole. When courting/relationship scenerios were presented, somehow the man who had money was dismissed as being shallow, flash, not a real man, or a cold, silent, dinner partner shit guy who treats women crappy?? Since when did men with money become such villians?
Is it so bad that a woman finds a man who is financially stable an attractive quality? Personally, a man that makes enough money to alter his life is to be applauded...more often than not, there is as much blood sweat sacrifice and tears put into his work as perhaps a construction worker, janitor or burger-flipper that are getting all the love in this thread.
If you think about it, the qualities needed to financially succeed in life are very often what many women say they want - it just so happens that the rewards for the man are a better paycheck. Often times, he has gotten a degree, so he's intelligent; he may have worked his way from the bottom to the top, so he's how do you say it...a guy who sticks it out/ sticks around...is dedicated; he may be self made, so he's creative, has perserverence, is loyal, he's putting in his all all to see his baby get off the ground...those are great qualities!
Women say 'I want a hard-working man" when in reality, that actually is a man who works hard for his money.
That's a really good observation and point, Kuno.
TreePixie
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Not if they're clean. ;-)
jaisee
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The scientific term for a womans mouth isn't 'dick washers' for nothing.
I'm playing! I'm playing!
pettyofficerj
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when u look as good as me or iggy, u can do what the fuck you want. You fly with the pity-party, ww don't like me crowd..that's why u get chumped
that's supposed to be sexy down on Flatbush
blackbull1970 said:
lol...I'm sure the heavier ladies don't mind the appreciation
even if I find some of ur girls nasty I won't neg rep
I'll tell u in ur thread
I must not be pissin' enough people off....I need to step up my game.
LOL![/QUOTE]
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