The Negative Thread

[lippy]

So you got some thirsty motherfuckers tryin' to get at your ass, so what? It really shouldn't gas up your head. It's the nature of this forum. Look at the personals section. Brothers outnumber WW 10-to-1. Just 'cause some brothers in the States will holler at a menopausal white woman because they don't have many options doesn't mean that all of us are falling over ourselves to get at WW who are old enough to be our mothers.

lippy is sorry you are not having any luck with the personals...i'm not over there so i have no idea what you are talking about...i will tell you that if lippy judged all black men by you and the dark knight i would go back to white men so fast it would make your head spin...now go to your room with out supper and i'm turning off the wifi so no you can't play video games tonight...lmfao

 

[wtarshi]

So you got some thirsty motherfuckers tryin' to get at your ass, so what? It really shouldn't gas up your head. It's the nature of this forum. Look at the personals section. Brothers outnumber WW 10-to-1. Just 'cause some brothers in the States will holler at a menopausal white woman because they don't have many options doesn't mean that all of us are falling over ourselves to get at WW who are old enough to be our mothers.

Fred, don't know why you're here. All I see from you is negativity. Seeing you're so young and hot, why don't you go out there and get yourself a ww that's your equivalent and leave us alone. Obviously it will be extremely easy for you to do

 

[lippy]

Shit I wouldn't take English notes from fg let alone relationship ones

these are the top 10 reasons why the dark knight should listen up or let FG be his wing woman

10. she is a woman
9. she is very fit/gorgeous and he likes that about women
8. she is educated...scientist...very logical
7. she has actually had relationships with black men
6. she has dated someone from the east coast
5. she is well traveled
4. she attracts other women to her like bees to honey and could intoduce him to other women
3. she offers advice for free and is willing to help him
2. he needs all the help he can get
1. she is from sweden and lives in the usa so she can give him both perspectives

for every problem there is a solution

 

[FG]

No one once said it was the primary focal point just an important one and you and several others tried to assert that it wasn't important at all. Kunoichi highlighted and underlined all the text where you guys said that. You're trying to make me sound like I paint women as frothing at the mouth over a dude's wallet when all I said is money Lisa attractive quality about a man. Not the only one or the most important just a very important one.
Like I said we will agree to disagree.

For fucks sake. First off, YOU pow WAS that the money is what women go for and that you must have that in order to date. That is what women here has tried to tell you that the majority of women don't look at that as a main factor in determining dateability.

I understand what Kuno was trying to say, but taking a few comments out of context isn't really proving what these individual womens stand was on money being a deal breaker in date-ability - which was YOUR original point.
You said that women look for money and status and all we are trying to relay to you is that is not the first and foremost which you insisted - then YOU, not me have started swaying on what you meant. Im too lazy to go look for your posts but shit they are in so many threads.

You have to look at all their posts in this to see what their stand on that was. I am not going to talk for them but reading many of their posts, I think that is what they meant.

And dude, lay off the free interpretation, I never made you sound like you describe women as frothing at the mouth over dudes wallets. What IS it with you and all these extremes

 

[Ol'Skool Classic]

Kids today would rather watch reality tv and facebook or twitter than do anything meaningful.

So grown ass college educated black males fighting tooth & nail to be right in an "honest" debate on an internet forum is obviously considered as doing something meaningful..........

 

[FG]

these are the top 10 reasons why the dark knight should listen up or let FG be his wing woman

10. she is a woman
9. she is very fit/gorgeous and he likes that about women
8. she is educated...scientist...very logical
7. she has actually had relationships with black men
6. she has dated someone from the east coast
5. she is well traveled
4. she attracts other women to her like bees to honey and could intoduce him to other women
3. she offers advice for free and is willing to help him
2. he needs all the help he can get
1. she is fom sweden and lives in the usa so she can give him both perspectives

for every problem there is a solution

Aw man!! Now my head is swelling! Im gonna go all Kardashian xD
Thank you!! I wish I could rep ya again.

 

[Bliss]

I can't speak for all couples who argue over money, but I believe when couples argue over finances, it has to do with racking up credit card debt, child care expenses, vacations, basically over extending themselves. Most people (before the recession hit) were NOT living within their means. Houses were getting bigger, people who had no business getting mortgages for these houses were getting mortgages, they couldn't afford to furnish all of the rooms, so half of the rooms are empty of furnishings: this is all a recipe for financial disaster.

I think people are learning what it means to live within your means now. If you live within your means, you don't have to argue about money.

That makes a lot of sense...couples did over extend themselves, I thoroughly agree with that, though I personally think people are being forced to live within their means now, rather than learning what it means to....As soon as they come into some extra money, I think they'll steadily work their way back to overspending.
Another contributer - many couples begin relationships with different attitudes towards money, and since it may not be discussed during the courtship, there are rude awakenings. In fact, it's even been noted that couples with similar views will polarize each other over time over finances.

Truth be told, money and its power has always maintained an important position in relationships, no matter how much one tries to downplay it.

 

[LA]

I've actually seen it firsthand that a good-looking guy will get all kinds of women regardless of how much he makes. Granted, he doesn't dress like a slop or not take care of his hygiene but that isn't hard to achieve anyways. It's not like he's wearing all these fancy high-end clothes either.

My brother's friend, the guy lives on a house boat in a pretty nice beach community, drives a beat up Chevy S-10 and has a Harley. The guy is pulling very pretty girls every other week and it's never been a problem for him to get a woman's attention. Sometimes, he doesn't even have to say anything. They'll come to him. Just to put it out there, he is a WM. Anyways, the guy is doesn't have a status career. He's a bartender at the Roosevelt Hotel in Hollywood, and makes a decent living. I mean, he's not perfect by any means, just capable with what he has.

I guess it's his better than average looks, charm and that's about it. The rest is cake for him.

Just my .02 cents.

 

[Frederick]

lippy is sorry you are not having any luck with the personals...

The personals are a reflection of who's drawn to the site as a whole. Don't pretend otherwise. There are far more men registered on the forum too. And given that there are almost no WW from the U.S. who are active posters, it's not surprising that there are some brothers who are trying to get at the few who are regardless of their ages.

i'm not over there so i have no idea what you are talking about...i will tell you that if lippy judged all black men by you and the dark knight i would go back to white men so fast it would make your head spin...

I've read a few of your screeds since I've been here. Hasn't Lippy claimed that she previously made a concerted effort to stop seeing black men, and doesn't she have a white man's child in spite of consistently expressing her "love" for BM and claiming that she's been down with them her entire life?

If you could register on another site and have a bunch of younger, thirsty white boys tryin' to get at you, I seriously doubt that you'd be giving any consideration to black men AT ALL.

now go to your room with out supper and i'm turning off the wifi so no you can't play video games tonight...lmfao

LOL Freddy is currently relaxing in a suite in a four star hotel.

 

[Bliss]

Hey, you both talk in the 3rd person... ^^^

Just sayin....:smt057

 

[Frederick]

I've actually seen it firsthand that a good-looking guy will get all kinds of women regardless of how much he makes. Granted, he doesn't dress like a slop or not take care of his hygiene but that isn't hard to achieve anyways. It's not like he's wearing all these fancy high-end clothes either.

My brother's friend, the guy lives on a house boat in a pretty nice beach community, drives a beat up Chevy S-10 and has a Harley. The guy is pulling very pretty girls every other week and it's never been a problem for him to get a woman's attention. Sometimes, he doesn't even have to say anything. They'll come to him. Just to put it out there, he is a WM. Anyways, the guy is doesn't have a status career. He's a bartender at the Roosevelt Hotel in Hollywood, and makes a decent living. I mean, he's not perfect by any means, just capable with what he has.

I guess it's his better than average looks, charm and that's about it. The rest is cake for him.

Just my .02 cents.

The fact that he's a WM plays a huge part. A young, good lookin' brother who's broke will pull, but not nearly as well and not with the same caliber of women.


Go ahead haters, tell me that I'm self-loathing and secretly yearn to be white for pointing out what everybody knows to be true.

 

[LA]

The fact that he's a WM plays a huge part. A young, good lookin' brother who's broke will pull, but not nearly as well and not with the same caliber of women.

Maybe. In regards to this forum, the guy pretty much only dates WW so that could play a big part.

He's not really dating IR like the brothers here are seeking.

 

[Frederick]

Maybe. In regards to this forum, the guy pretty much only dates WW so that could play a big part.

He'd have better luck with any kind of women than a BM of equal stature no matter how you want to slice it and make the comparison, be it dating with in the same race or interracially.

 

[xoxo]

I've read a few of your screeds since I've been here. Hasn't Lippy claimed that she previously made a concerted effort to stop seeing black men, and doesn't she have a white man's child in spite of consistently expressing her "love" for BM and claiming that she's been down with them her entire life?

If you could register on another site and have a bunch of younger, thirsty white boys tryin' to get at you, I seriously doubt that you'd be giving any consideration to black men AT ALL.

LOL, you're getting it in on ole girl.

 

[LA]

you're getting it in on ole girl.

Freddy ain't playin'.

 

[pettyofficerj]

The fact that he's a WM plays a huge part. A young, good lookin' brother who's broke will pull, but not nearly as well and not with the same caliber of women.


Go ahead haters, tell me that I'm self-loathing and secretly yearn to be white for pointing out what everybody knows to be true.

why LA used a WM for this equation is beyond me

 

[lippy]

The personals are a reflection of who's drawn to the site as a whole. Don't pretend otherwise. There are far more men registered on the forum too. And given that there are almost no WW from the U.S. who are active posters, it's not surprising that there are some brothers who are trying to get at the few who are regardless of their ages.

the forum is not a reflection of the personals...try again


I've read a few of your screeds since I've been here. Hasn't Lippy claimed that she previously made a concerted effort to stop seeing black men, and doesn't she have a white man's child in spite of consistently expressing her "love" for BM and claiming that she's been down with them her entire life?

my son is 16 and he is white...i dated bm before and after my son...currently only talking with bm...your point?

If you could register on another site and have a bunch of younger, thirsty white boys tryin' to get at you, I seriously doubt that you'd be giving any consideration to black men AT ALL.

actually the last hotel i stayed at the guy at the desk was handsome...young...well built...great conversation...offered to come up to my room and help me pop my popcorn in the microwave...did i mention that he was white...i turned him down




LOL Freddy is currently relaxing in a suite in a four star hotel.

lippy prefers 5 star hotels...touche'

 

[FG]

That makes a lot of sense...couples did over extend themselves, I thoroughly agree with that, though I personally think people are being forced to live within their means now, rather than learning what it means to....As soon as they come into some extra money, I think they'll steadily work their way back to overspending.
Another contributer - many couples begin relationships with different attitudes towards money, and since it may not be discussed during the courtship, there are rude awakenings. In fact, it's even been noted that couples with similar views will polarize each other over time over finances.

Truth be told, money and its power has always maintained an important position in relationships, no matter how much one tries to downplay it.

Of course money is important, you have to have a roof over ones head and eat. That is not the same thing as needing a lot of it. Two different discussions. I think everybody agrees that money is important, but that does not equal that the man needs to make more than average amt of money to date.

That is what we originally was discussing. I think where the miss- communication here lays in is that Drae was talking about making more than just average money and that is what women are looking for, money and a career in the man.
I don't give a shit what he now say that is not what he said - it WAS. That is what this whole argument really is about.

There is a difference between talking about the importance of money and if men has to make lots of it and that its a determining factor in dateability.

I think that is proven wrong by just looking at the average marriage, they are mostly regular income people (just by default, that is the majority of the country) and most people have relatively modest requirements in regards to money.
Women, for the most part date and marry average income men. That there are plenty of women that exclusively go for the men with lots of money, career, status, we all know. Plenty of them, still not the general woman.

The point we were making w Drae is that is not an accurate general view of women. Most women just go w regular dudes with regular jobs and regular paychecks.

Will more money increase your dating pool? Is money important Of course, but the point still stands.

 

[lippy]

Just sayin....:smt057

lippy thinks freddy has a crush on her:smt005

 

[pettyofficerj]

lippy prefers 5 star hotels...touche'

that's next on my list of things to do before I die

Of course money is important, you have to have a roof over ones head and eat. That is not the same thing as needing a lot of it. Two different discussions. I think everybody agrees that money is important, but that does not equal that the man needs to make more than average amt of money to date.

That is what we originally was discussing. I think where the miss- communication here lays in is that Drae was talking about making more than just average money and that is what women are looking for, money and a career in the man.
I don't give a shit what he now say that is not what he said - it WAS. That is what this whole argument really is about.

There is a difference between talking about the importance of money and if men has to make lots of it and that its a determining factor in dateability.

I think that is proven wrong by just looking at the average marriage, they are mostly regular income people (just by default, that is the majority of the country) and most people have relatively modest requirements in regards to money.
Women, for the most part date and marry average income men. That there are plenty of women that exclusively go for the men with lots of money, career, status, we all know. Plenty of them, still not the general woman.

The point we were making w Drae is that is not an accurate general view of women. Most women just go w regular dudes with regular jobs and regular paychecks.

Will more money increase your dating pool? Is money important Of course, but the point still stands.

give it up already..:smt078

you're too smart and good lookin to be here playing forum jiu-jitsu with this mothafucka:rock: