The "Thank you" thread

TreePixie said:
Thank you, Tam, I'm so glad someone gets it!! Love you too!
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I've definitely been guilty at times of focusing on the negative instead of the positive & not appreciating my blessings...gotta love human nature. I have to remind myself to step back & look at the big picture & find the good that's buried in the bad, so I can learn & grow from it...even as painful as it is sometimes.
 
Tamstrong said:
I've definitely been guilty at times of focusing on the negative instead of the positive & not appreciating my blessings...gotta love human nature. I have to remind myself to step back & look at the big picture & find the good that's buried in the bad, so I can learn & grow from it...even as painful as it is sometimes.
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If you don't, the negative just weighs you down like an anchor.

It's not like I've never had to step back - I've been fighting the negative a lot the last couple of weeks in my own life. But if I spend all my time thinking about what I can't have, or can't do, or can't be, in the end I'm contemplating my navel instead of moving forward.
 
thank u to my friend who comes from another country at the right time when am in the greatest depression
 
Thank you for the rep, Nyx. :D

TreePixie said:
If you don't, the negative just weighs you down like an anchor.

It's not like I've never had to step back - I've been fighting the negative a lot the last couple of weeks in my own life. But if I spend all my time thinking about what I can't have, or can't do, or can't be, in the end I'm contemplating my navel instead of moving forward.
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That's very true.

I grew up in an extremely negative environment, & although I recognize the cycle & have been determined to break it, that thinking tries to take over sometimes. I've been through a lot in my life, & it's easy to get bogged down with all of the pain & strain that comes with bad experiences. I finally figured out that no matter how bad it gets, there is always something good to be gained from it. Even though I still struggle with it occasionally, that's where I try to keep my focus & it makes a huge difference.
 
Tamstrong said:
Thank you for the rep, Nyx. :D



That's very true.

I grew up in an extremely negative environment, & although I recognize the cycle & have been determined to break it, that thinking tries to take over sometimes. I've been through a lot in my life, & it's easy to get bogged down with all of the pain & strain that comes with bad experiences. I finally figured out that no matter how bad it gets, there is always something good to be gained from it. Even though I still struggle with it occasionally, that's where I try to keep my focus & it makes a huge difference.
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I'm not big on the "everything happens for a reason" thing, but I'm big on "hey, this is reality, deal with it the best you can or wallow, your choice" thing. :-)
 
TreePixie said:
I'm not big on the "everything happens for a reason" thing, but I'm big on "hey, this is reality, deal with it the best you can or wallow, your choice" thing. :-)
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I think there are a lot of things that happen for a reason, but I wouldn't say everything. Sometimes shit just happens & like you said, it's reality, & we either have to choose to deal it or let it have its way with us.
 
Tamstrong said:
I think there are a lot of things that happen for a reason, but I wouldn't say everything. Sometimes shit just happens & like you said, it's reality, & we either have to choose to deal it or let it have its way with us.
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Some things you can change, some things you can't. That's been a hard lesson for me. I spent my life going around, over or under every obstacle in my path. I cannot out think MS. It's the one obstacle I'll never be able to just ignore or go around, and it's part of my life every minute. A friend of mine says that I never gave myself a chance to just slow down for a minute, so my body and brain conspired to MAKE me do that. I still suck at it, and think I'm *wasting* so much time that I could be productive. I was always a multi tasker, and doing less than 3 things at a time seemed like a colossal waste of productivity to me. But I do understand her point, and I'm trying
 
cloneable tony...just a mouth swab will do it...!!! thank you for being you
ms j...no, you're the sweetheart & back at ya sister ;) xxxx
karmsy...trashi hearts you...!!! thank you
ms anon repper...i think it's tastyacidmilk. i have no idea why all these threads are being made & if they have to question how, they should ask the question why
gl...lol...i read what i wrote & it wasn't that funny...!!! think you misrepped me, but i'll take it ;)
bbw...how could i not use the spoofed up, big titted bunny as an avi...??? thank you for the drawing
curley...thank you. it makes me laugh that we both repped each other at the same time and said nearly the same things about each other xxxx
wifey....:smt049:smt049:smt049
cha-cha...i am twisted...!!! i loves ya my food & beauty twin xx
ib...i'm glad i could give you some much needed laughs, you vixen you xx

ME...FOR BEING SO FICKIN AWESOME
 
Tarshi said:
cloneable tony...just a mouth swab will do it...!!! thank you for being you
ms j...no, you're the sweetheart & back at ya sister ;) xxxx
karmsy...trashi hearts you...!!! thank you
ms anon repper...i think it's tastyacidmilk. i have no idea why all these threads are being made & if they have to question how, they should ask the question why
gl...lol...i read what i wrote & it wasn't that funny...!!! think you misrepped me, but i'll take it ;)
bbw...how could i not use the spoofed up, big titted bunny as an avi...??? thank you for the drawing
curley...thank you. it makes me laugh that we both repped each other at the same time and said nearly the same things about each other xxxx
wifey....:smt049:smt049:smt049
cha-cha...i am twisted...!!! i loves ya my food & beauty twin xx
ib...i'm glad i could give you some much needed laughs, you vixen you xx

ME...FOR BEING SO FICKIN AWESOME
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Damn tarshi, there's a reason you're the undisputed rep queen!
 
Soulthinker i can not give you a rep... so just wanted to Thank you... for all the time you took to reply and say something nice on the fashion thread ..
have posted too many photos there sure i got everyone thinking not another lol

anyways better not say more am not good with this
 
Thank you for the last reps! You know who you are. I especially like the one that said "well done Sir".
 
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