No one doubts you have an open mind Athena.
You had better believe though that unlike you there are people out there who don't have open minds, will lump everyone into convenient categories and have no problems about doing it.
Unlike being a white female, you can be the most presentable, respectable, well mannered black man out and about, but if you come across the wrong, bigoted individual none of that matters, all they will see is skin color and formulate their actions towards you based on that.
This is why I stated I have never had any issues with the cops, I have been stopped on the interstate coming down from college and searched by state troopers, but that was about the extent of it.
However while my case is limited to that, there are others who have had awful experiences.
How for example do you explain that cop on Staten Island throwing an innocent black man into a holding cell for 36 hours, after stopping him, to frisk him, then telling his friends he had fried another n*****
As we all know the real world is not a cut and dry place.