never dated a black man, but am considering

SonnyShao said:
Why are you considering dating a black man. If you like him, date him. The color of his skin shouldn't mean anything. Unless he's Asian. LOL. I kid. I kid.
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goodlove said:
Yes. Some people thru lack of knowledge would ask. Some people are rebuffed at the unknown...meaning would they accept me....would there be cultural differences. If it wasnt then there wouldnt be any writings in psychology and educational books about cultural differences and teaching people on cultural sensitivity.

its said that BM are very forward in their approach to women. this may turn off other people in other cultures. In china (i think or some asian country or better stated eastern world) it is disrespectful for a child to look an adult in the eye. where in america its disrespectful not to do so.
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goodlove said:
another situation is where a story a friend told me was that a friend of hers was from korea (we all live in alabama). she stated that her friend was telling her that everyone in NY is so friendly. she didnt understand why people stated NY people were men. she went there on a visit. she goes on to say she rented a car and every one was driving by waving at her (while she was saying this show was demonstrating the wave. as you may guess you could figure out she was getting the finger). people had to explain to her that was not a friendly gester. its known here that she is a slow driver but its ok here in alabama because we are not in a rush.
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what we (chesy and I) were talking about
 
JordanC said:
Who told you that? Ask bookie. Not true. Karma liked to tease her but not true.

There are guys here who have never dated a woman white, black, Mexican or other. Why dint you run them off. A lot of women have been run off for not CURRENTLY dating a bm but have previously and probably eill again. Moskvicha...kuntrygirl..can find others. So knock it off. You just run good members off.:smt021
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JC go take a long walk off of a short pier. I did ask Bookie nosey and she told me she hasn't dated bm in awhile that's why I ask. I'm curious as I've asked GL and Smooth. Stop creating a bully that doesn't exist victim.
Who the fuck have I personally run off? Quit making me into a villain and be a big girl :cool:
 
The Dark Knight said:
JC go take a long walk off of a short pier. I did ask Bookie nosey and she told me she hasn't dated bm in awhile that's why I ask. I'm curious as I've asked GL and Smooth. Stop creating a bully that doesn't exist victim.Who the fuck have I personally run off? Quit making me into a villain and be a big girl :cool:
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what the hell are you talking about ? dont out my name and smooth's name in your mouth. we arent in this shit you have between JC and you.
 
goodlove said:
what the hell are you talking about ? dont out my name and smooth's name in your mouth. we arent in this shit you have between JC and you.
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I've asked you in the past why haven't you dated ww since you're so attracted to them when you were defending bw one time. Relax kid.
 
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The Dark Knight said:
JC go take a long walk off of a short pier. I did ask Bookie nosey and she told me she hasn't dated bm in awhile that's why I ask. I'm curious as I've asked GL and Smooth. Stop creating a bully that doesn't exist victim.
Who the fuck have I personally run off? Quit making me into a villain and be a big girl :cool:
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She has and is interested. End of story. Public forum. Don't run too people off asking. It is so unimportant.
 
The Dark Knight said:
I've asked you in the past why haven't you dated ww since you're so attracted to them when you were defending bw one time. Relax kid.
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because :

1) the opportunity never presented itself. I dont go around with a sign on my shirt saying "willing to date WW. give me a chance."

2) defending BW; dating a ww or willing to date a ww doesnt give you the green light to throw BW under the bus. I dont date ww because they are white . I would date HER because she is right.

3) to go all out and say stuff like people have done on the site and say "BW are nasty or they are beneath me and the like" or infer that says something about you as a man and as a human-being.

4) defending a BW is not just defending a BW it defends the following:

a) WW. yes. WW. If you cant properly love the skin you are in then how in the hell you can love someone outside your race properly. Love you nieghbor as you love yourself philosophy.

b) people as a whole. see number one

c) If you have a child with a ww and you have a girl then she will be considered a BW in the eyes of society and if you have see biracial kids they look black . whispering. so if you are essentially possibly defending your future daughter
 
JordanC said:
She has and is interested. End of story. Public forum. Don't run too people off asking. It is so unimportant.
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Why the fuck are you answering for her? Hit the bricks sister. You're creating something out of nothing and I don't have the ability to run anyone off they are more than free to be a grown up and put me on ignore.
I do it all the time.
 
goodlove said:
because :

1) the opportunity never presented itself. I dont go around with a sign on my shirt saying "willing to date WW. give me a chance."

2) defending BW; dating a ww or willing to date a ww doesnt give you the green light to throw BW under the bus. I dont date ww because they are white . I would date HER because she is right.

3) to go all out and say stuff like people have done on the site and say "BW are nasty or they are beneath me and the like" or infer that says something about you as a man and as a human-being.

4) defending a BW is not just defending a BW it defends the following:

a) WW. yes. WW. If you cant properly love the skin you are in then how in the hell you can love someone outside your race properly. Love you nieghbor as you love yourself philosophy.

b) people as a whole. see number one

c) If you have a child with a ww and you have a girl then she will be considered a BW in the eyes of society and if you have see biracial kids they look black . whispering. so if you are essentially possibly defending your future daughter
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Relax playboy you can get off your soapbox. I'm not insulting anyone just curious as to why you haven't dated ww before since you're attracted to them. Not an attack.
 
The Dark Knight said:
Why the fuck are you answering for her? Hit the bricks sister. You're creating something out of nothing and I don't have the ability to run anyone off they are more than free to be a grown up and put me on ignore.
I do it all the time.
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I've never kept the secret on this forum that I'm attracted to a wide range of guys.

I'm not going to go over my dating history with you.

But since it keeps coming up, I'll tell you this: I'm meeting a guy for coffee (though I don't drink it) on Saturday afternoon and he's originally from......











wait for it.....












wait for it......








Sierra Leone.

:p
 
Bookworm616 said:
I've never kept the secret on this forum that I'm attracted to a wide range of guys.

I'm not going to go over my dating history with you.

But since it keeps coming up, I'll tell you this: I'm meeting a guy for coffee (though I don't drink it) on Saturday afternoon and he's originally from......











wait for it.....












wait for it......








Sierra Leone.

:p
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LOL
 
Bookworm616 said:
I've never kept the secret on this forum that I'm attracted to a wide range of guys.

I'm not going to go over my dating history with you.

But since it keeps coming up, I'll tell you this: I'm meeting a guy for coffee (though I don't drink it) on Saturday afternoon and he's originally from......











wait for it.....












wait for it......








Sierra Leone.

:p
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Good luck with that kid :)
 
Bookworm616 said:
I've never kept the secret on this forum that I'm attracted to a wide range of guys.

I'm not going to go over my dating history with you.

But since it keeps coming up, I'll tell you this: I'm meeting a guy for coffee (though I don't drink it) on Saturday afternoon and he's originally from......











wait for it.....












wait for it......








Sierra Leone.

:p
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so bookie...is he black:smt043
 
chesbaygrl7 said:
Hmmm. Trolls start some pretty good conversations.
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Are you sure the person is a troll? IMO, it's hard to tell.

If I made a thread on a forum composed of mainly BW saying "Never dated a black woman, but considering", and in my post I mention that I need some help and advice.

How do you think they would respond?
 
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