I posted a second link showing that Will was the first to get that role. Also, it is what it is, I have been called the N word by people with black partners and or bi-racial children as much as I have by the common everyday White Power types. Keep in mind that some Actors and Actresses adopt Children like some people adopt pets.
How can you be certain Keanu was the second one offered the role and not say, Tom Cruise?? Maybe we assume that it was offered to only two people when in fact someone hasn't piped up saying she is talking about me not Will. :-? Maybe Keanu was third??