DR. DREW's Lifechangers: I'm Black and Refuse to Date My Race

chesbaygrl7 said:
This discord between BM and BW is really disconcerting. You don't see that amongst white people. At least I don't. I don't date BM because I dislike WM. I don't throw WM under the bus just because I prefer to date BM. And I would certainly not fault a WM if he chose to date a BW. If that's what he's attracted to, so be it.

I think too many BW (from my experience with my BW friends), push BM away with their attitude and then get angry when they turn to women of other races. They want to be treated like a queen but expect to be able to act like a diva. Few men, black or white, want that. (And that's not to say WW don't do that too - I've known a few of them as well, but it seems more prevalent with BW.) That's not meant to offend anyone, just my observation.

As for Deena in the Kim K clip, her problem was jealousy, plain and simple. I have to hand it to her, though, that she admitted it.
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ive seen it quite often, even had wm telling me i shouldnt date bm when they have addmited to having sex with bw, i dont complain about who wm date, so i dont know why some of them love to tell me i cant like bm
 
LA said:
I can't believe Dr. Drew stooped to such low levels.


At least in Jerry Springer the people are truly ignorant. They aren't actors.
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Tell me about it bro.

A couple of Youtube degenerates being exploited, Crazybrah and Oreowriter. W.T.F. :smt043:smt043:smt043

All they need to do is add that character Jaylove from youtube and its a wrap for their minstrel act.
 
MissWacy said:
ive seen it quite often, even had wm telling me i shouldnt date bm when they have addmited to having sex with bw, i dont complain about who wm date, so i dont know why some of them love to tell me i cant like bm
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You will always find those clowns in the world. I can picture you in your English accent telling them to "piss off bloody wanker" :)
 
jaisee said:
Man, not to tug at my own dick or anything.... just to prove a point. By most peoples standards..... I'm successful. I drive a 2010 luxury car, I have seen many different countries and continue to do so. I own stock, and have savings.,. etc.,. etc.,.

I meet this beautiful sista at a speed dating event. She's very intelligent, carried herself well and was in school studying medicine. So, naturally I figure we'd be a good match

I took her to this restaurant, 3030 Ocean. It's the kind of place that, between a bottle of wine, appetizers, meals and dessert you expect to spend $150 - $200 for two. Anyway, long story short.... we had a good first date, laughed, conversation flowed easy, everything. A couple of days later, we're on the phone and she's telling me that I'm a really nice guy, BUT she's looking for a corporate thug. In other words, if I took her to Churches Chicken and for conversation whispered in her ear "wait till you see this dick" me and her would probably be fuckin right now.
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Wow, the saying less is more couldn't ring truer in this case. With young women, being a gentlemen is less than commendable these days.


BigBrotherWise said:
I was having a conversation with a friend of mine about that very thing. Now bear in mind, this dude actually has the appearance of "looking thuggish", but in reality, he's a cool, easy-going guy that DO get lucky a lot. However, he told me that a lot of (black) women like to go for those people who do fit contrary to what they say they want.

He even called out this one girl and asked her why. She's a very nice person, but like most people, her choices in men are generally in "dangerous waters" and her reason is that she just like those kind of people, all the while being aware of that sort of personality doesn't benefit her success-wise.

It's baffling how people like to contradict themselves a lot.
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The irony these very same chicks will be crawling to your feet....

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Eye of Ra said:
Jordie Drew you slipping on the detective work. Whut up with dat? :p
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She is American living in UK. :confused: One parent is orignially from US and other from UK.

She grew up in Orlando, Florida and moved to UK. She has said numerous times.

You better watch out. You'll get DK all fired up thinking she is foreign born and he will try to bump off her BF. :smt043
 
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JordanC said:
She is American living in UK. :confused: One parent is orignially from US and other from UK.

She grew up in Orlando, Florida and moved to UK. She has said numerous times.

You better watch out. You'll get DK all fired up thinking she is foreign born and he will try to bump off her BF. :smt043
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Mmmm hmmmmmm lol
 
JordanC said:
She is American living in UK. :confused: One parent is orignially from US and other from UK.

She grew up in Orlando, Florida and moved to UK. She has said numerous times.

You better watch out. You'll get DK all fired up thinking she is foreign born and he will try to bump off her BF. :smt043
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She has the UK accent going though. American dudes hear it and "raised in Florida" automatically will go out the window. Just sayin'......:yawinkle:
 
jaisee said:
Man, not to tug at my own dick or anything.... just to prove a point. By most peoples standards..... I'm successful. I drive a 2010 luxury car, I have seen many different countries and continue to do so. I own stock, and have savings.,. etc.,. etc.,.

I meet this beautiful sista at a speed dating event. She's very intelligent, carried herself well and was in school studying medicine. So, naturally I figure we'd be a good match

I took her to this restaurant, 3030 Ocean. It's the kind of place that, between a bottle of wine, appetizers, meals and dessert you expect to spend $150 - $200 for two. Anyway, long story short.... we had a good first date, laughed, conversation flowed easy, everything. A couple of days later, we're on the phone and she's telling me that I'm a really nice guy, BUT she's looking for a corporate thug. In other words, if I took her to Churches Chicken and for conversation whispered in her ear "wait till you see this dick" me and her would probably be fuckin right now.
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I hate to tell you bro....you started on the wrong foot by taking her out some place that nice. I had to learn that too. trial and error. take em some place simple. like out for ice cream or coffee. the reasons are
1) women will not feel pressured. she will feel like you expect something
2) you will not feel pressured. damn i put all this money out and got fly and shit. yada yada yada.
3) you will not feel like you invested something and got nothing in return. hate to say it like that but its the truth.
4) the less the better. example: like I stated take her out for ice cream or just drinks (local tavern where thats all they do is knock back a few)/coffee (starbucks or barnes and nobles. barnes and nobles would be nice because you can get a cake and coffee and will not spend alot)

this way you can be relax and really talk your talk. I had to learn ...have to talk about that in a more secret environment so they will not know whats going on....stay away from the arguments.

it sound like to me she (the BW) was saying you came off too nice ...meaning you arent aggressive enough. Its hard to explain but its like this. just tell her /woman what you expect and they can take it or leave (say it in a respectable manner of course) or
it could mean that you came across as a guy that isnt a take charge type of dude. I will give you an example. I remember I had asked a girl out and this is how i did it. mind you I thought we had good convo over the phone: " hey, would you like to go out to dinner saturday?" she stated naw...blah blah blah.

mistake 1) I didnt set her up rite. I didnt ask what her schedule was for this weekend in an earlier part of the convo. that way I will know if I had a green light.

Mistake 2) I asked. you should never ask sorta speak. you should instruct. "how about this...we go out for drinks and then afterwards we will go from there." yeah its asking but at the sametime its a little agressive and take charge. another way of doing it which is probably better "hey , Im going to the bar tomorrow ..you can come if you like." this way it seems like you are inviting her..no harm no foul and it comes across you are fitting her in on your time.

mistake number 3 never ask a woman out on a saturday until you have been smashing it for awhile. its best to ask her sunday thru thursday. if on saturday do it in the afternoon (which is still bad because most women get their hair done on that day to do whatever that nite)

as far as the intruction theory ...a black woman told me that. it worked for me. I will have to tell you the story behind that one day.

remember its not what you say ...its how you say it. Im still learning that fucking rule

just my two fucked up cents.remember always do what comfortable for you LOL




LA said:
I can't believe Dr. Drew stooped to such low levels.


At least in Jerry Springer the people are truly ignorant. They aren't actors.
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ratings bro...ratings. Drew is a intellectual and Im believing that ratings are not popping for him
 
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goodlove said:
I hate to tell you bro....you started on the wrong foot by taking her out some place that nice. I had to learn that too. trial and error. take em some place simple. like out for ice cream or coffee. the reasons are
1) women will not feel pressured. she will feel like you expect something
2) you will not feel pressured. damn i put all this money out and got fly and shit. yada yada yada.
3) you will not feel like you invested something and got nothing in return. hate to say it like that but its the truth.
4) the less the better. example: like I stated take her out for ice cream or just drinks (local tavern where thats all they do is knock back a few)/coffee (starbucks or barnes and nobles. barnes and nobles would be nice because you can get a cake and coffee and will not spend alot)

this way you can be relax and really talk your talk. I had to learn ...have to talk about that in a more secret environment so they will not know whats going on....stay away from the arguments.

it sound like to me she (the BW) was saying you came off too nice ...meaning you arent aggressive enough. Its hard to explain but its like this. just tell her /woman what you expect and they can take it or leave (say it in a respectable manner of course) or
it could mean that you came across as a guy that isnt a take charge type of dude. I will give you an example. I remember I had asked a girl out and this is how i did it. mind you I thought we had good convo over the phone: " hey, would you like to go out to dinner saturday?" she stated naw...blah blah blah.

mistake 1) I didnt set her up rite. I didnt ask what her schedule was for this weekend in an earlier part of the convo. that way I will know if I had a green light.

Mistake 2) I asked. you should never ask sorta speak. you should instruct. "how about this...we go out for drinks and then afterwards we will go from there." yeah its asking but at the sametime its a little agressive and take charge. another way of doing it which is probably better "hey , Im going to the bar tomorrow ..you can come if you like." this way it seems like you are inviting her..no harm no foul and it comes across you are fitting her in on your time.

mistake number 3 never ask a woman out on a saturday until you have been smashing it for awhile. its best to ask her sunday thru thursday. if on saturday do it in the afternoon (which is still bad because most women get their hair done on that day to do whatever that nite)

as far as the intruction theory ...a black woman told me that. it worked for me. I will have to tell you the story behind that one day.

remember its not what you say ...its how you say it. Im still learning that fucking rule

just my two fucked up cents.remember always do what comfortable for you LOL






ratings bro...ratings. Drew is a intellectual and Im believing that ratings are not popping for him
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Good points.
 
I don't know if Deena exclusively dates WM, but to listen to her talk and not know she's a comic actress, you might think she would NEVER date a WM and that's simply not the case.
In that ambush Kim K vid, she even said that the love of her life that broke her heart was a White guy(!!).

Again, proving the adage that the ones who scream the loudest are frontin' the hardest.

I will give Deena props though, her body is bangin'.:cool:
But I bet she's almost crazy.

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andreboba said:
I don't know if Deena exclusively dates WM, but to listen to her talk and not know she's a comic actress, you might think she would NEVER date a WM and that's simply not the case.
In that ambush Kim K vid, she even said that the love of her life that broke her heart was a White guy(!!).

Again, proving the adage that the ones who scream the loudest are frontin' the hardest.

I will give Deena props though, her body is bangin'.:cool:
But I bet she's almost crazy.

[YOUTUBE]dF5-AE84uUM[/YOUTUBE]
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lol. I would have to listen to the vid later.
 
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