I have to agree with the others and say to let her go. If she were older and out on her own, she might be able to put her foot down, but she doesn't have a leg to stand on yet. It seems like it's not worth going through the hassle of it. Although, you might find it exciting cause maybe there's a thrill, but like you said, they're crazy and you don't know what comes with whatever "crazy" they are.
Dude no pussy is worth being whacked for. Do you want a visit from her cousin Vinnie and her uncle Tony Two Fingers at midnight?(Damn i gotta stop watching these Soprano DVDs).
FH,it reminds me of that Howard Beach insident where one of the Italian men who made that brother die on the highway had a Black girlfriend.
LOL!! I dated a WW in college whose parents the first time they met me, invited me to come visit for the summer!! Either find a different woman, or ignore her parents.
I would leave that girl and find one whose parents will welcome you. More importantly one who is proud to have you as her man.
^ Agreed. When my aunt found out I had a new man, she asked my mom what color he was. Strange question, as the past boyfriends were all white. My mom's answer to my aunt? "I don't care if he's purple. If he can look after my daughter, he's a keeper", lol. If she's worth it, ignore the parents. If not, find someone that has a more welcoming family.
I can understand willing to put up with something like that during your teenage years but you're a 25 year old man? You shouldn't even be asking this question. Respect yourself and walk away. Her being Italian is a red flag, but at 20 years old there's no way that girl is going to get serious with you anytime soon while she's under her racist family's thumb. That's if she wanted to get serious anyway. And believe me there are plenty of white girls who love to get a taste of the "black experience" knowing good and well in the end they're going to end up with some white guy. And there's nothing really wrong with that. But I don't like to see Black men getting strung along if they don't know what the deal is.
Yeah he has an album coming "Life is Good", but I don't know when. His first single is called "Nasty", you should check it out(it's the 99 Nas all over again).
No i haven't met the parents yet. But they're blue collar Italians from the Bronx so i might have to take her word on this one.
The things i never understand is, why do Italians hate black people so much? I think of that scene from Jungle Fever where the father beats the girl when she finds out she's dating Wesley and saying stuff like he's be okay if it was a jew or irishman or child molester. Somethings off about italians (some not all) than even the most racist hillbilly. And the funny thing is, Italian men looooovvvveee sistas. Sabrinas brother has even dated black girls. And all the young ones do is copy ghetto black culture. Shits hilarious if it isn't so fucking sad.
Dude, italian guys do not love black girls they just wanna fuck a black girl to get it out of their system and i have a feeling these italians view the black girls as just some piece of ass. Italian women are the curviest women in Europe with their dark skin and dark hair and tha appeals to their men and they see the curvier sistas and it ignites their desire so i kinda understand their fascination with black women.
well stated appiah. as you noticed italian, black, white and other races view "their" women as properties that should not be invaded but yet they treat em like shit.
