If you have children and you want to make the BEST choices for them you would choose to live with their mother as husband wife. We all know it doesn' work out that way but we have gotten to the point where people ignore REALITY and make us reason Not-to. One makes choices that will have the greatest likelihood of success...a lot of people have figured that out yet.
the problem is that people make choices of a spouse by the process of what is between their legs , the romance and not truth