Hello I am new here!

Laja25 said:
Hallo Soulthinker,

it is true that a lot of women here make bad experiences with African men, but sometimes when you hear their storys you will understand that both made mistakes and it was not only the African man who destroyed the relationship. Of course very much African men just uses the women here to get there permission to stay in Europe. That happens often and it is sad.:(

But hey I also know women who are more than 20 years together with their African husbands. This kind of relationships are not often but they are existing;)

An relationship with an poor African man is always more difficult than with a may be American African man. You will think about it all the time if he really loves you or just uses you but in the end you can not know it the time will show. My boyfriend have is permanent permission to stay since 3 years now and he is still with us so I think its a good thing;)

I never hear about the site but if you can read German check www.1001geschichte.de. This is a site for women who made bad experience with African, Arabian, Turkish or Asian men;)
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Welcome Laja.... I have a college who has been married to a Nigerian for more then 11 years now and they too have two beautiful children, both girls..


I have to add, they are stunning children, absolutely gorgeous to look at...
 
Laja25 said:
Hallo Soulthink,

it is true that a lot of women here make bad experience with African men, but sometimes when you hear their storys you will understand that both made mistakes and it was not only the African man who destroyed the relationship. Of course very much African men just uses the women here to get there permission to stay in Europe. That happens often and it is sad.:(

But hey I also know women who are more than 20 years together with their African husbands. This kind of relationships are not often but they are existing;)

An relationship with an poor African man is always mor difficult than with an may be American African man. You will think about it all the time if he really loves you or just uses you but in the end you can not know it the time will show. My boyfriend have is permanent permission to stay since 3 years now and he is still with us so I think its a good thing;)

I never hear about the site but if you can read German check www.1001geschichte.de. This is a site for women who made bad experience with African, Arabian, Turkish or Asian men;)
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A relationship between a poor man and a woman who is not necessarily poor is always difficult for the woman regardless of where the man comes from or what colour he is .
 
APPIAH said:
Arent you stereotyping here? What exactly is a lot? Why do some of you African American guys always find it so difficult to accept than an African man can date a beautiful white woman? Its like you guys are offended any time you see a hot white girl is with an African guy and think if she is into IR it must be an African American and not an African. You used an example from Black Planet to buttress your point? Really??
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ha ha ha ha ha ha And you guys wonder why I continue to laugh at these children.
 
APPIAH said:
Lawd have mercy you are very beautiful and a refreshing addition to this site. Where is naija4real make una come congratulate your broda oo he don land nice oyibo girl.:cool:
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Man mi, I just dey see wetin you write so. My broda, our people dey shine for area no be small. Abi, wetin you think? :D

I dey come ....I go come back the thread come welcome Laja25 plenty, plenty!!
 
Laja25 said:
Hallo Soulthink,

it is true that a lot of women here make bad experience with African men, but sometimes when you hear their storys you will understand that both made mistakes and it was not only the African man who destroyed the relationship. Of course very much African men just uses the women here to get there permission to stay in Europe. That happens often and it is sad.:(

But hey I also know women who are more than 20 years together with their African husbands. This kind of relationships are not often but they are existing;)

An relationship with an poor African man is always mor difficult than with an may be American African man. You will think about it all the time if he really loves you or just uses you but in the end you can not know it the time will show. My boyfriend have is permanent permission to stay since 3 years now and he is still with us so I think its a good thing;)

I never hear about the site but if you can read German check www.1001geschichte.de. This is a site for women who made bad experience with African, Arabian, Turkish or Asian men;)
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I enjoyed reading your frank and honest commentary.

Nigerians say this quite often, " London is a leveler, Apapa is the sorta out" translated, it means : outside the shores of Nigeria, there is no way to distinguish a good Nigerian from a bad Nigerian, we are all get all lumped under the same country classification. I guess it is the way things work, especially with people without local insight of a country and its people that they wish they desperately understood.

I understand the feeling that it is painful when you can't confirm for sure, especially if you have a poor boyfriend , whether he genuinely loves you. I can only wish that taking your chance was well worth it.

In the part of the country where I come from, when you already have issues (kids), the relationship is considered a success and a blessing. Now, it is irrelevant whether the mother is alien or white , what matters is the love the union between the sheets has created, and now manifests in a new life, or human being.

The best I can wish you is that I hope you found your true love and the heart of your hearts. I think with what you have and what it seems, taking your chance is well worth. And I also wish to welcome you to this site, I am also Nigerian.
 
Vielen Dank,is there another website where German women love brothers from different nationalities like Americans,Brits,etc?
 
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