Would you date someone who has never dated interracially?

Discussion in 'The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men' started by Inner Beauty, Dec 21, 2011.

  1. nocturnalmission

    nocturnalmission New Member


    :smt023 Tam, I think you put it right on the money!
     
  2. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member


    Thank you kindly, gentlemen. ;)
     
  3. newblackman88

    newblackman88 Member

    I would prefer to date a woman who has been in an IR relationship but then again I don't have much dating experience myself so it wouldn't really matter to me either other way as long as their is an attraction there thats all that matters
     
  4. bmanz

    bmanz Member

    Doesnt matter to me at all. Have a totally open minded approach because I know that each individual is different.
     
  5. MiraiMi

    MiraiMi New Member

    Wow. After reading all these I guess it's weird that I'm always the first BM that who ever is interested in me has ever been with...

    Hmm, that sounded weird.
     
  6. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    This.
     
  7. Jase

    Jase Active Member

    Possibly but I'd take it slow. It would just be easier with someone who has some experience with IR. Plus they're more likely to be somewhat racially aware. I just don't want to have deal with teaching Race 101 to a racially clueless WW. Less of a chance of dealing with that if they know the deal already.
     
  8. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

    yes of course I would. It would mean that they are open to new things (love openminded females)

    Also, some of you talk about interracial dating like its dating another life form or species from a different galaxy or something lol. Its not really THAT hard.
     
  9. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    Not a problem for me. There's a first time for everything. lol
     
  10. JordanC

    JordanC Well-Known Member

    Exactly.

    Even if you date someone of your own race you can have hurdles to overcome. Religion, politics,jobs, location, station in life etc etc. I don't think dating IR is seriously that much harder unless you are weak minded and listen to all the negative people in life in genera,l who say this can't be done or that can't be done. If you do you have more issues than trying to date IR. A person who likes them self and has good self esteem can go pretty far in life.
     
  11. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Finally something we can agree on :smt023

    Merry Christmas:smt114
     
  12. christine dubois

    christine dubois Well-Known Member

    agree and I think, with a good self esteem, the family and friends trust your decision and your choice, anyway. And if not, like you say, we are grown-ups, we can handle our life, ourselves
     
  13. JordanC

    JordanC Well-Known Member

    Thx. Hope you had good one too. :)
     
  14. MilkandCoffee

    MilkandCoffee Well-Known Member

    Hey I think this will be a good place for me to make my first post.
    Anyways I think you should give anyone a chance I've dated women (mainly asian and latina) who have never dated interracially. Most of the time the relationship is a bit strained but as time goes on most women get used to it. I would argue that most of my interracial relationships were with first timers.
     
  15. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    Co-co sign!!!!
     
  16. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    I actually prefer to date someone who has never dated interracially.
     
  17. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    gawwwwwwd I have said OFTEN on this site. Every and over again.

    If I could figure out this dumb ass rep system I'd rep you!
     
  18. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    Did not read the whole thread. I would PREFER someone who has dated interracially before, but it is not a requirement. Everyone has to start somewhere right?
     
  19. lueche

    lueche New Member

    IR dating

    IR dating is so hot. i like to do it all the time here in New york. it gives me a chance to know how other ethnic group survive in the big apple. i have alot tell me Nassau Community College class when we are writing term paper's on ethnic girls in my city.:smt038:)
     
  20. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    I think you're the first person I recall saying you prefer it. Just out of curiosity, may I ask why?
     

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