What Men Should/Should Not Own.

Alinoa said:
Being a woman this is just my opinion and all...

Should own
A kind heart that is complete with a healthy dose of compassion
A sense of humor and an absolute ability to laugh at himself
Some kind of basic belief in a power larger than himself that keeps him humble
The ability to respect himself enough to look at women as more than something to fuck.

Should not own
The ability to lay his hands on a woman in anger. Ever.
The ability to think it is ok to lie and cheat and misrepresent himself
A cocky attitude toward the mother of his children...even if she can be a bitch
The wisdom to know when it's appropriate to indulge in his child like nature and when it's time to get up and handle his business
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I'm sorry, but isn't that a good trait to have?
 
APPIAH said:
You have gotta be kidding about the mother of your baby part unless she is still married to the father of her baby. If baby mama is an ex and is being a total bitch i would not be nice because i have low tolerance for bitches.
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So are you saying that if she's a bitch, it's ok to slap her around? I understood Alinoa to say that he shouldn't put his hands on her in anger even if she's a bitch.
 
chesbaygrl7 said:
So are you saying that if she's a bitch, it's ok to slap her around? I understood Alinoa to say that he shouldn't put his hands on her in anger even if she's a bitch.
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I think you sometimes overanalyze statements and come up with wrong assumptions. She said men should not have a cocky attitude to their baby mama even if she is a bitch. When did having a cocky attitude, and in my case i said i wont be nice to a bitch, become equal to laying hands on her? Let me ask you this question if the father of your child is acting like a jerk which is equivalent to a woman who is a bitch, would you give him a hug and tap him on the back especially if he is an ex?
 
APPIAH said:
I think you sometimes overanalyze statements and come up with wrong assumptions. She said men should not have a cocky attitude to their baby mama even if she is a bitch. When did having a cocky attitude, and in my case i said i wont be nice to a bitch, become equal to laying hands on her? Let me ask you this question if the father of your child is acting like a jerk which is equivalent to a woman who is a bitch, would you give him a hug and tap him on the back especially if he is an ex?
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You got me - I read it wrong. Sorry! :oops:
 
APPIAH said:
She said men should not have a cocky attitude to their baby mama even if she is a bitch.
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Sometimes the words I use and what I mean come out not reflective of what I'm trying to express..
My point is that a man should always at the very least have respect for the mother of his children. Just like a woman should always have respect for the father of her babies.

In my particular case..what that means is that my ex and I don't get along and I gave up long ago trying to maintain a working relationship with him for the sake of our kids. I get no respect or consideration when it comes to the things I want for my children. He constantly treats me like I'm less than him and is rude and condescending toward me on those few and far between attempts at doing something that resembles co-parenting. I am NEVER a bitch to him for ANY OTHER REASON than his parenting style. Like when he buys my 16 yr booze or lets her boyfriend move in or she disappears for 2 days at a time and he don't know where the fuck she is. Then yes, I AM a bitch of class A scale. Toward him.
 
The Black DeNiro said:
LOL That's funny.
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:yawinkle:

christine dubois said:
This one?

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LOL. Those are even worse. :rolleyes:


Sin Mari said:
No. They don't.
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They really don't, but sometimes what's inside them is an effective distraction. :smt047


Alinoa said:
Sometimes the words I use and what I mean come out not reflective of what I'm trying to express..
My point is that a man should always at the very least have respect for the mother of his children. Just like a woman should always have respect for the father of her babies.

In my particular case..what that means is that my ex and I don't get along and I gave up long ago trying to maintain a working relationship with him for the sake of our kids. I get no respect or consideration when it comes to the things I want for my children. He constantly treats me like I'm less than him and is rude and condescending toward me on those few and far between attempts at doing something that resembles co-parenting. I am NEVER a bitch to him for ANY OTHER REASON than his parenting style. Like when he buys my 16 yr booze or lets her boyfriend move in or she disappears for 2 days at a time and he don't know where the fuck she is. Then yes, I AM a bitch of class A scale. Toward him.
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:smt023
 
And I'm not exactly sure this even relates to the tighty-whitey thingie...but boo wears boxer briefs.

Oh, dear lord.

Where is my God now? Yum.
 
Alinoa said:
Sometimes the words I use and what I mean come out not reflective of what I'm trying to express..
My point is that a man should always at the very least have respect for the mother of his children. Just like a woman should always have respect for the father of her babies.

In my particular case..what that means is that my ex and I don't get along and I gave up long ago trying to maintain a working relationship with him for the sake of our kids. I get no respect or consideration when it comes to the things I want for my children. He constantly treats me like I'm less than him and is rude and condescending toward me on those few and far between attempts at doing something that resembles co-parenting. I am NEVER a bitch to him for ANY OTHER REASON than his parenting style. Like when he buys my 16 yr booze or lets her boyfriend move in or she disappears for 2 days at a time and he don't know where the fuck she is. Then yes, I AM a bitch of class A scale. Toward him.
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Thankfully you said in your particular case because for a moment i thought you were trying to say it was a general rule to be nice to your baby mama even if she was being a bitch.
 
That just happens to be my case is all.
Tons of daddy's out there could care less about the mother of their babies...

I often find myself quite feed up with ex's behavior in general..but I know full well that if it weren't for him I wouldn't have the awesome kids I have. And he is a full fledged dick.
Unfortunately, being a dick, be cant extend the same courtesy. That's what I'm talking about.

And I'm fully done trying to justify my position. Everyone's free to be whatever they want to anyone else whether they deserve it or not. If you wanna be a dick don't be surprised if your ex is a bitch.
 
Alinoa said:
That just happens to be my case is all.
Tons of daddy's out there could care less about the mother of their babies...

I often find myself quite feed up with ex's behavior in general..but I know full well that if it weren't for him I wouldn't have the awesome kids I have. And he is a full fledged dick.
Unfortunately, being a dick, be cant extend the same courtesy. That's what I'm talking about.

And I'm fully done trying to justify my position. Everyone's free to be whatever they want to anyone else whether they deserve it or not. If you wanna be a dick don't be surprised if your ex is a bitch.
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Is this still about what men should and should not own??? Anyway.
 
Have to disagree on the bolded one, Christine. I love a tasteful diamond stud in one ear. I agree with the watch, though. And BM carry off the whole watch thing so well, especially if it's gold or SS. The contrast with their skin is so sexy. I notice alot of BM seem to wear a dressier watch, while WM seem to prefer sports watches. I guess that's why BM do it better, imo. :D

christine dubois said:
Should own:

tool set
a high quality shaving cream
facial cream
12 pairs of underwear (at least)
hiking boots
tailored suit
monogram on the shirts
watch
male handbag (yes I know, I am the only one here)

Should not:

Hummer
Star Wars memorabilia (grow up)
More than one video game system
diamond jewelry, neither as a ring, nor as an earring
big gold chains
a pic of his dick in his cellular phone
a book with notes of his sex partners

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pettyofficerj said:
Granny panties are so big and cover everything

male briefs don't...if anything they show more than boxers

how can you compare the two
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I was joking, but the comparison is that women tend to make the same comments about them that men do about granny panties.

My guess is that they're comfy & supportive, but they aren't the most appealing to look at. TBH though, if I'm in a personal situation where I'm with a man in his underwear, I'm not thinking about what he's wearing because there's a strong likelihood he won't be wearing them for long. ;)

Tighty whities aren't my favorite, but I don't hate 'em. Boxer briefs are my favorite, & I like boxers too. Speedos, thongs & g-strings are the worst IMO.
 
Tamstrong said:
I was joking, but the comparison is that women tend to make the same comments about them that men do about granny panties.

My guess is that they're comfy & supportive, but they aren't the most appealing to look at. TBH though, if I'm in a personal situation where I'm with a man in his underwear, I'm not thinking about what he's wearing because there's a strong likelihood he won't be wearing them for long. ;)

Tighty whities aren't my favorite, but I don't hate 'em. Boxer briefs are my favorite, & I like boxers too. Speedos, thongs & g-strings are the worst IMO.
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but thongs look great on women to us, lol
 
pettyofficerj said:
but thongs look great on women to us, lol
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Lol...yeah, I think the design works better with the female anatomy. I don't mind a man wanting to show off a nice bootay...I always appreciate that quality in a man, but a thong is not the best way to do that. Men's thong designs tend to be pretty scary.
 
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