Lol you are down right hilarious sometimes. A critique is completely different than bashing. Why do you engage im discussions that you can never be objective on. And the Im proud to be a strong woman chant is way past old. If yu have to constantly saybit you doubt its true. You and SA should form a club
I so agree with this being a waste. That is why I made one post in this thread making fun of it. You cannot dictate to another person who and what traits to love. People will love who they love and on what terms. It is personal and goes down to preferences and tolerances. You cannot dictate another person's preferences or what they will tolerate so peeps need to quit trying. THE BEST relationship I have ever had.......he was not employed when it started. So I know where I stand on the issue. And I don't really care where others stand. Just do you. Just as the men here don't want others to tell us women we cannot have a preference for black men, why would they want us to heed anyone else's preference in any other area of our love life. Be your own fucking person people. Quit going to the beat of someone else's drum.
Well said bro. As a man I want to bring something to the table out of sheer pride of self. Its only common sense that two people will want to be able to take care of one another in a relationship. So I can't fault a woman on that at all. On the other hand, would I date an unemployed woman. She would really have to be someone I like and we just share so many qualities that are attractive to me, a true soul partner, not in the mood to play Captain Save A Hoe with a gold digger type.
LOL, TDK, you're reading my mind bro. If a nicca is broke he don't need to be up in a club trying to act like he popping champagne on a beer budget. Just common sense and responsibility, but some cats just don't give a fuk, they're going to do them.
:smt045 Well stated JC. Live, Love, Fight, Fuck and make the most of the time on this Earth. There is no one size that fits all, adapt and get in where you fit in. It if doesn't affect me none of my concern. Seems pretty clear cut but realities of world can muck things up.
hahahaha! there is a difference between popping champagne and playing pool, buying drinks with ya boys. the thought behind this for me is more having income while unemployed and knowing when and how to spend your money. while unemployed i don't do bottle service no, nor would i blow money on a new car or wheels(Vossen CV3 and CV5 have been on my radar) but I still have social time. different lifestyles i guess...
LOL, got that from one of those Investigation Discovery shows, Behind Mansion Walls. On that show when rich folks start going broke they do crazy shit to get at cash, no matter what. Its all about keeping up that lifestyle and appearances of it even if you have to murk your wife, husband, parent for life insurance policies and the greenbacks.
Lmao. Seriously. I laffed out loud while eating breakfast. *you sexy motherfucker* Oh, wait..wrong thread.
