Black Men: Yall ever think a WW you talk to will NOT be into you...

The Dark Knight said:
Ice T is the lucky one? Dude is an internationally known actor worth millions. Um yeah you have that backwards my friend.
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That's not what he was "fixing"...he just corrected the post by putting the right name. The post he quoted originally said "Ice Cube". lol The sentiment about who the lucky one is came from someone else.
 
saintaugusta said:
Black men automatically assume I will like them because I have a big ass.

I'm like "my ass does not decide who I date."

Otherwise I would not "seem" like the type who dates black men. Not sure what that "type" is exactly - seems based on some nasty stereotypes (which are all too often true, unfortunately - at least where I live).
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REALLY?? Wow !! You really feel Black men are that shallow :smt043
 
saintaugusta said:
Black men automatically assume I will like them because I have a big ass.

I'm like "my ass does not decide who I date."

Otherwise I would not "seem" like the type who dates black men. Not sure what that "type" is exactly - seems based on some nasty stereotypes (which are all too often true, unfortunately - at least where I live).
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pettyofficerj said:
That's usually a sign :D

Either that or the body flirting

The way a woman carries herself in your presence says a lot
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pettyofficerj said:
I know I am

No ass, Im not interested

Not just that flat and wide ass either...I'm talking about bubble from the side pose, straight donkey joint
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D. White said:
REALLY?? Wow !! You really feel Black men are that shallow :smt043
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OOOHHH yes....Its about to get good here my friends
 
Interesting thread!

I had a BM who walked into my classroom (I was sitting behind a desk) that made eye contact and I knew instantly where I was spending the rest of my course. I learned a lot that had nothing to do with the program I was in! ;)

So it definitely wasn't my butt. And it definitely wasn't the talk. I always prided myself on being "color-blind" so it wasn't even the fact that he was black, there was just a very real electric shock that ran between us. (I found out later how different a BM can be and am no longer "color-blind". Now I look for black everywhere!)

I think no matter what color anyone is though, the interest is in their eyes and body language. If you make a real connection with someone, they could stand there and just look at you and you wouldn't think it strange or be upset with them. Just be yourself and don't worry, you will find out soon enough whether you are their "type" - and if you aren't, there are lots of us out there who would love to meet you!

I never thought of a BM as a type, and mostly I still don't, I just have a special spot in my heart because of one very wonderful BM.
 
pettyofficerj said:
From my experience...ww with hips ass and thighs loved bm

Most girls that tried to give me the goodie goodies had thick ole juicy booties
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saintaugusta said:
Are you saying that it's a sign that a woman likes black men if she has a big ass, petty?

Why would you assume that? Just curious.

Not sure why any particular body part would indicate someone's preferences...

I do agree with the "how she carries herself" part to a degree, but I always carry myself with pride, no matter who I am walking by - I know what you mean though, it's a very subtle switch...
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The Dark Knight said:
Focus on thick ww and/or ones who are very mature and you shouldn't have a problem. Can't go wrong with the foreigners either or a chick with a couple of kids. Plenty of options my friend but I think a lot of it depends on where you are in your life and how close to a major city you are. The bigger the city the more the options.
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i can see that there. where there is more people and diversity then u will have more IR. also lets be honest the bros do like hippy women
 
A WW with nice curves like a 36C-25-37 is a big prize for a brother. It does take a lot of confidence to get such a dish.
 
It depends on the location for me. I'm not far from DC and a lot of WW are the "I'm not into black guys" type. But I visit a friend at Christopher Newport University, and WW love BM over there
 
Man of Steel said:
It depends on the location for me. I'm not far from DC and a lot of WW are the "I'm not into black guys" type. But I visit a friend at Christopher Newport University, and WW love BM over there
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Sounds like peer-group groupthink. I work in government and legislative staffers are (and I know this is a generalization) often serious climbers and careerists and thus, EXTREMELY image-conscious. DC's conservative white male-dominated atmosphere (and this attitude is also prevalent in the Dems, to a slightly lesser degree) is EXTREMELY IR-averse. Thus, ww are not too excited about wearing their interest (if they have any) in bm on their sleeve. But if I had a dollar for every girl who didn't "usually do this type of thing" that I had been with, I'd be taking everyone on a Caribbean cruise aboard the wwbm.com yacht that I had purchased with the proceeds.
 
when & where can I sign up for your cruise? ;)
orejon4 said:
Sounds like peer-group groupthink. I work in government and legislative staffers are (and I know this is a generalization) often serious climbers and careerists and thus, EXTREMELY image-conscious. DC's conservative white male-dominated atmosphere (and this attitude is also prevalent in the Dems, to a slightly lesser degree) is EXTREMELY IR-averse. Thus, ww are not too excited about wearing their interest (if they have any) in bm on their sleeve. But if I had a dollar for every girl who didn't "usually do this type of thing" that I had been with, I'd be taking everyone on a Caribbean cruise aboard the wwbm.com yacht that I had purchased with the proceeds.
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orejon4 said:
Sounds like peer-group groupthink. I work in government and legislative staffers are (and I know this is a generalization) often serious climbers and careerists and thus, EXTREMELY image-conscious. DC's conservative white male-dominated atmosphere (and this attitude is also prevalent in the Dems, to a slightly lesser degree) is EXTREMELY IR-averse. Thus, ww are not too excited about wearing their interest (if they have any) in bm on their sleeve. But if I had a dollar for every girl who didn't "usually do this type of thing" that I had been with, I'd be taking everyone on a Caribbean cruise aboard the wwbm.com yacht that I had purchased with the proceeds.
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that makes a lot of sense...and I'd like to be part of that cruise as well haha
 
blackbrah said:
What I mean do you wonder if certain WW or any woman for that matter does not and would not see you as their "type"? I hope I'm explaining it right. I get a good bit of signals from women in my day to day but not the ones I generally want.

Then some that I really want but I wonder if I'm their "type". Like the business woman or other types. How can I fight this mentality man? I get into my head too much and I know I'm attractive its not that. Just being dumb.
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once you start 'knowing' your every woman's type no matter whether she is trailer or corporate you'll be good.

someone mentioned it earlier, confidence is key!
 
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