Theres this german chick at my work who i currently have it pretty bad over

the funny thing is she moved into my office/floor nearly a year ago and ive always thought she was a nice enough pretty girl and that was it

but the other day i was standing in the corridor talking with a colleague and she was walking past and she looked at my colleague then completely ignored me

Now ive been ignored by women in the past :smt083 but this seemed different im a big tall guy so its hard not to notice me and the way she ignored me was so deliberate and planned there's got to be more to it

either she ignored me because she's not interested :smt009 or she did it because she is interested and is just shy trying to hide it

a few weeks ago i did catch her looking at me and she looked straight down to the floor with a small grin when i caught her and there have been other times when i could see her looking at me from the corner of my eye but then again is that just me imagining it now i am interested in her

lol to think a few weeks ago i had no interest in this girl and now because she so blatantly ignored my existence i cant get her out my head and not knowing why she did it is driving me mad

i dont even know her name lol but know shes german as all the guys refer to her as the "german ting"

im glad i dont know her name as well gives me an excuse to talk to her and adds to the mystery

 

You should approach her and start a conversation with her

 

I definitely agree, you should talk to her. Stop with the games, and approach her. Moat of the time, women want a man to approach them, and she is giving you small, subtle signals.

 

BDL,take their advice and you may get some progress.

 

Just stand before her, drop your pants and sing this song to her while wiggling your ding dong to her face...

[YOUTUBE]tIMWudFLsaY[/YOUTUBE]​

 

White women are not scary, so approach the frau/ fraulein.

 

but why?

it's 2012, get with the program

8)

 

Ask her to recommend some good shizer films and see where it goes from there.

 

this is true. However, this chick clearly is waiting for him to approach her.

 

tbh when women approach me directly, i automatically put them into hoe zone

that's just me (it's like I can't fathom a woman liking me for who I am, versus them just going after any guy they see)

i guess i work with too many old school women. this one lady told me to avoid women who are forward like that, because that means they're fast and loose.

she's like 60+ tho, so I kinda take her advice and add a little adjustment for the times

back in her heyday, she probably had arranged marriages and shit

 

Ignore

 

Do you really think so I'm hoping it is but she is so hard to read her face gives nothing away half the time

The key is what she meant by the blatant ignore and cause this is at work I need to be extra careful I do not want to be ridiculed or gossiped about if it flops

I don't get it?

 

Just be discreet. Stand near her when she is alone and start a conversation. Then at the end ask her out for coffee or whatever. Or keep wondering.........if you don't act. Only one way to find out. :smt042

 

Yes. You should approach her don't try to read her faces anymore, just make small talk and let her know you are interested in an acceptable way. Just don't give it all away too quickly, have to be smooth about it. If you let her onto you and how you've noticed her from jump, she may be turned off.

F the haters...who cares if people talk. Be confident and step up to her. She may be ignoring you because she thinks YOU are the one not interested.

 

dear god no lool

 

Somebody has to make the first move, if I followed this belief that would mean that over half the women I have been with were hoes. :smt107

 

I think as a woman, especially now, if you are interested in meeting someone you should make it known in a ladylike, respectable way. As long as she isn't throwing herself at you, I don't feel like a woman should be generalized this way. Exactly what Stizz said...someone has to make the first move. If you want something, you should pursue it.

 

Nonchalance

 

Sounds like we are in agreement, and who is Stizz? I said that lol

 

So I was walking down the hallway of my hotel and these 2 attractive ladies walk past me, one asks how you doing and I reply good and you. (I'm lying, I'm mad as fuck at the time) She says you look good....you want a drink? I say fuck yeah! They invite me to their room for drinks and one of they girl's is having a birthday party.

I sit down and the woman is all over me from the jump lol. I say how you doing? She replies I'm doing you! I'm like what lol? I'm doing you tonight baby. haha Nothing happened tho..... :smt093 a combination of bullshit popped off but we all went out later that night and had a ball.

These days I don't get at any woman unless they give off super obvious signs they are into me. Dating has been so much better letting the woman choose me instead of playing bullshit games.