At my daughter's birthday party, we had a similar discussion. My Mom, who just turned 77 and is a devout Catholic, now believes that when we die, we die.
My brother-in-law stated that he believes there's an afterlife but he wishes he had proof.
I said, I've seen and experienced images of the afterlife. I know it exists, so therefore I know there is something after death. I've had too many unexplained events happen in my life for it not to be real.
I belonged to this Yahoo group several years ago and this woman was on there that claimed she could communicate with ghosts and whatnot. She said that everyone goes to Heaven and that Hell is reserved for demons. She said that even the most horrific people go to Heaven after their souls have been cleansed. She said that some souls (obviously) take longer to cleanse than others.
I know I will see my family in the afterlife and my dogs.