Not taking rejection personally

Cherok33 said:
After reading all of the responses, I started to forget what I was going to say...lol

I think it's a good observation you have made about yourself...sometimes rejection from the other sex is not about you. Sometimes its more about them, how they were raised, their social background.

I have found myself attracted to a bm that didn't date ww. At first I felt some kind of way about it, and felt less than desirable. But when you think about the bigger picture, outside of yourself, you realize its not always about you.

in doing so, I think it's easier for me to approach men too. I found confidence in myself.
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good points. When meeting some, I try to see what good things I can get out of it....even if it appears I've "struck out" with the young lady....lol.

I don't agree with Dark King's statement about being "corny", but to each is own...
 
blackbrah said:
One of the things that stifles me in some situations is that I wonder if a woman will reject me because I'm not their type or is it because they are not into black guys.

Other races of women are easier to read for me. Well mostly black and Hispanic women I can read well. White women are flirty but sometimes could be feinting interest, which is irritating as hell with them. Funny thing is that my ex didn't show me much remote interest until we talked more.
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Your ex had the chance to get to know you better and she loved, what she could see.

No matter, how it ends, people that are very fast into you, will leave you with the same speed as they came into your life. But people that take the time to get to know you better, are much more serious, much more interesting, have a lot more facettes that are interesting to discover.

Rejection, of course there are many reason, why someone can reject someone else. Whether it's now the background or just that you don't fit in his/her life, because of this or that. The point is, what am I worth for that special person? If he or she is more in her career, life plans or whatever, one has to go its own way, but be sure,you don't lose anything worthful, believe me.
 
christine dubois said:
Your ex had the chance to get to know you better and she loved, what she could see.

No matter, how it ends, people that are very fast into you, will leave you with the same speed as they came into your life. But people that take the time to get to know you better, are much more serious, much more interesting, have a lot more facettes that are interesting to discover.

Rejection, of course there are many reason, why someone can reject someone else. Whether it's now the background or just that you don't fit in his/her life, because of this or that. The point is, what am I worth for that special person? If he or she is more in her career, life plans or whatever, one has to go its own way, but be sure,you don't lose anything worthful, believe me.
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I think this is more in the scope of rejection from usually cold approaches on women. I probably do a lot of cold approaches tbh.
 
I've been rejected so much that it doesn't bother me, lol. Besides, if you just hang out and get to know people as people, a woman who's interested will usually make her presence and interest known.
 
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