Meeting and Dating Older Women...

Cas said:
Been pondering this for a while and finally thought I should ask and discuss this with people who may have been in this situation.

I am a pretty young guy(early 20s), and I have been looking at getting into the dating scene pretty soon. Now here's the thing, I have an attraction to older women. I don't know what it is, but something just draws me to older women than younger women. I just feel like I can have more of an interesting conversation and be able to hold one as well as having more serious open discussions.

But here is my issue. As mature as I consider myself to be, I feel like I am already counted out due to my age. I don't know what to do. Does anyone have any advice on this type of situation?
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Dating an older woman is like dating your mom.


now you sit there and think about that.


I have plenty of them though.

Dating an older woman is like drinking wine. It is so old it is only matter of time before it starts to be bitter and you are left with a bad taste in your mouth.

:smt081

Dating an older woman is like driving an old car. Oh sure, It is nice to drive but sooner or later you'll have to update because this car can't do what all the other newer models can do.


Dating an old woman is like having an old computer. Sure windows 95 is nice but do you actually own windows 95 .... do you !!!!!!!:smt081
 
archangel said:
Dating an older woman is like dating your mom.


now you sit there and think about that.


I have plenty of them though.

Dating an older woman is like drinking wine. It is so old it is only matter of time before it starts to be bitter and you are left with a bad taste in your mouth.

:smt081

Dating an older woman is like driving an old car. Oh sure, It is nice to drive but sooner or later you'll have to update because this car can't do what all the other newer models can do.


Dating an old woman is like having an old computer. Sure windows 95 is nice but do you actually own windows 95 .... do you !!!!!!!:smt081
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Take your shirt off
 
Confidence is key!

I am grown, w kids and even a grown man-son, so I tend to be more attracted to grown ass men. If you have your shit together, working a good job, educated, and intelligent, you can probably hold a decent conversation. If he can make me laugh...i will give him the time to exchange pleasantries with me. The better he handles himself, the more confident he appears and if I feel he is being genuine, I will feel attraction towards him.

I'm not looking for someone to take care of my kids or be the one to take care of my needs, but if he wants to be more than just a play thing, he's going to have to eventually accept those things and find a way to be part of my life comfortably.
 
archangel said:
Dating an older woman is like driving an old car. Oh sure, It is nice to drive but sooner or later you'll have to update because this car can't do what all the other newer models can do.
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Lol this does ring true for some in the sack. "I can't do this position because I have bad knees or I have back problems"
 
archangel said:
Dating an older woman is like dating your mom.


now you sit there and think about that.


I have plenty of them though.

Dating an older woman is like drinking wine. It is so old it is only matter of time before it starts to be bitter and you are left with a bad taste in your mouth.

:smt081

Dating an older woman is like driving an old car. Oh sure, It is nice to drive but sooner or later you'll have to update because this car can't do what all the other newer models can do.


Dating an old woman is like having an old computer. Sure windows 95 is nice but do you actually own windows 95 .... do you !!!!!!!:smt081
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You, too, shall be older one day. Remember these things when you're panting over a young chick and she won't even give you the time of day.
 
archangel said:
remind me again. do women tend to date men who are older than them or younger than them?

lol
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Both. You've heard of the term "cougar" I would imagine....

I've only ever dated one man older than myself and that was when I was 17. He was 19. :p
 
chesbaygrl7 said:
Both. You've heard of the term "cougar" I would imagine....

I've only ever dated one man older than myself and that was when I was 17. He was 19. :p
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small percentages of younger men and older women. It is even smaller that the relationship lasts until one is dead.


Barack and michele
bill and hillary
george and barbra
on and on and on.
 
archangel said:
small percentages of younger men and older women. It is even smaller that the relationship lasts until one is dead.


Barack and michele
bill and hillary
george and barbra
on and on and on.
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Says you. Ask the older women on here how many times they've been approached by younger men....
 
archangel said:
for sex. none of them are in a long lasting relationship with a young man aka marriage.
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Actors Gary Merrill(married to actress Bette Davis for over a decade)Alan Alda(M.A.S.H.), Tim Robbins(ex-wife Susan Sarandon), Tom Cruise(ex-wife Mimi Rodgers) Hugh Jackman, Maxwell Caulfield(Juliette Mills of the show Nanny & The Professor) and even singer Nick Cannon(Mariah Carey) are married to women a lot older than themselves. I don't think their relationships were related to, or had anything to do with sex. Sex is miniscule compared to mutual attraction and admiration.
 
Gorath said:
Actors Gary Merrill(married to actress Bette Davis for over a decade)Alan Alda(M.A.S.H.), Tim Robbins(ex-wife Susan Sarandon), Tom Cruise(ex-wife Mimi Rodgers) Hugh Jackman, Maxwell Caulfield(Juliette Mills of the show Nanny & The Professor) and even singer Nick Cannon(Mariah Carey) are married to women a lot older than themselves. I don't think their relationships were related to, or had anything to do with sex. Sex is miniscule compared to mutual attraction and admiration.
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Also John Travolta and Diane (forget her last name) who died of breast cancer, he was deeply committed to her, and the Black guy form Lost, he was or maybe still is, in a long-term R with a much older actress.
 
Bliss said:
Also John Travolta and Diane (forget her last name) who died of breast cancer, he was deeply committed to her, and the Black guy form Lost, he was or maybe still is, in a long-term R with a much older actress.
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You could include actress Stella Stevens(The Nutty Professor-Jerry Lewis version, Slaughter and others), Josephine Baker, Catherine Oxenberg(married to Casper Van Dien), Yoko Ono Lennon(John Lennon's widow), Joan Collins, Lisa Hartman(married to country-western singer Clint Black), singer Bonnie Rait, Chris Hemsworth(Thor, The Avengers). The list goes on
 
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Before I met my wife, I dated one of my professors, and it was a beautiful thing that we had. Sexy, Valerie Bertinelli look-alike.....lol.
 
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