No preference. Really. I have dated all across the ethnic and cultural 'divide' all my life. Skin color shade is not a part of my dating criteria.
This. If I'm being totally honest though, I find that I gravitate towards darker bm. Not sure why that is, but the ones I end up really attracted to are always darker. I'd actually never even realized it until a friend mentioned it a few months ago.
I'm less drawn to the extremes at either end of the spectrum - prefer all the lovely shades in between. But I do gravitate towards the darker end rather than the lighter.
I really don't care! It totally depends on the skin colour of the man I'm with at the time. My man is quite dark, and yummy! But if he was light skinned, I would no doubt say exactly the same....yummy!
The color of his skin makes no difference to me. My children's father is dark skinned. My current beau is dark skinned too. I am attracted physically to all different types of men. Even a WM at work...I keep sayin "he's pretty fine for a WG" lol but for real though, eyes, build, lips...the way a man carries himself and behaves are the first things I notice.
perhaps that means you are young and completely inappropriate...it will bite you in the ass and cost you a job or a promotion at some point and then you just might wise up
Money or working my way up in a company is not on my list of priorities, I am perfectly fine flipping burgers and scrubbing toilets for a living but thanks for the concern.
This :smt036 If the attraction is there, it doesn't matter; but I do tend to go for the darker skinned bm as well.
