Gotta tell you some bad news: most women are turned off by "really big" as well, especially those of us who spend several hours a week in the gym to look good and stay healthy. So if you want a physical attractive woman, maybe you should consider working on your on physique first.
Just because a person is big, doesn't mean they are only allowed to be attracted to big. What they're attracted to doesn't correspond to their own body. What they can attract is a different story. But even then, there are thin guys who like BBW/SSBBW's and there are thin women who like big guys.
Definitely true! Wanted to rep you but need to spread it around first. There are slim or athletic men who date and feel attracted to larger women. Certainly there are slim or sporty women who also feel attracted to and date bigger men. Actually I know one female who does,and she says,she feels more protected by someone larger,plus considers it more cuddly than being with a slim person or gym rat.
You guys only contribute to the problem. He's obviously not ok with being big since one it yields no positive results for him. He's over thirty.and has never had a gf and his type are non bbw types so.obviously what he's been doing isn't working. Something obviously needs to.change in order for him to get what he wants. Btw real interesting that you addressed me but not Unique
The thread is titled your what is your type, not what can you get. Ches is scared of potential hurting her friends feelings and often does this.
You're right but dude sounds like he's crying out for some help and guidance. This isn't simply just bs convo for him
She is not scared to hurt my feelings. We speak offsite and know each other well enough to exchange opinions without getting hurt. She knows that she won't hurt my feelings with having a different opinion. And I gotta agree with TDK. The guy sounds like he needs/wants some advice.
If she wasn't scared she would of addressed you like TDK being you two virtually said the same thing. End of discussion.
2 years ago I was 40 lbs heavier than I am now,too. I was not too happy with my weight and my life generally, still had men interested though,so I know it is possible. It depends on if you run into someone whose type you happen to be or whether maybe you make up for imperfections by having other desired traits. However finally got myself to put the effort that was needed to attack the problems I saw and am happier with myself now.
