Average Girls Need To Stay In Their Lane

Pfffftttttt if the men bothered to read a woman's dating profile and responded because they match the criteria the woman was after, then fine. If I say in my profile that I am seeking a long lasting relationship that will end in marriage and the man contacting is not interested in that but still contacts me, is that him being honest and genuine?

Dating profiles create the categories for you to fill in so you can quickly see if you are after the same thing. If you have the same wants then read their little blurb which gives you more information. I know if I see a handsome face, click his profile and see for example that his age cut off is 40, I move on because I don't want to waste his time or mine.


As for the special comment....laughable. We all know that I am special
Reading a profile is fine...as long as the site allows a guy to read them.
 
To me, a classy man is respectful and sees a woman as a person, not a place simply to deposit his penis. He recognizes that she has a personality, talents, an intellect, etc. and seeks to get to know HER, not just her vagina. He's not going to lead with the sexual foot if he's seriously interested in making a good impression.

I don't search women's profiles online, but I've been told by enough guys that there are plenty of women online who, by their profile or pix, make it plain that they are seeking something casual. So why bother with someone who makes it plain that she is not?! (Yeah, I know: the challenge. Challenge, schmallenge.)

As for being straight up and to the point, if that's the route he chooses to take and he tells me up front what he is seeking - in a respectful way - and I tell him I'm not on the same page, then he needs to say "Thanks for your time" and leave me alone instead of trying to cajole me into seeing things his way. I'm ok with that. That's being classy as well.

Preach mama!
 
Co-schnizzle!

But you know, guys are so taxed by having to write “waddup gurl, you hot!” or clicking the flirt button that sends the message “I’d like to get to know you. Please send me an email.” We can’t expect them to do that AND read any or all of our profile!

Or you can understand it's not all guys just some guys
 
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