Attraction to Black Men = Perversion?

[whikle]

lolz....



that avi btw...amazeballs!!!!

I was like :smt118

Now that is the shape I love on a woman right there.

You's makin' me blush :smt053 :smt058

LOL, I didn't want to be generic by naming the usual hotspots.

I love the looks of those farm fresh raised white girls from the rural areas.

Sheep sheering, collie dog having, horse riding, cowboy hat, short shorts wearing girls.

GQ, you know your stuff! I could show you the outback, introduce you to a few country girls

 

[wtarshi]

LOL, I didn't want to be generic by naming the usual hotspots.

I love the looks of those farm fresh raised white girls from the rural areas.

Sheep sheering, collie dog having, horse riding, cowboy hat, short shorts wearing girls.



I was like :smt118

Now that is the shape I love on a woman right there.

hmmmm.....well the girls round my way are the beach going, bather wearing, tan getting type. they do wear short shorts and cowboy hats and have dogs


and yes, whikley be like :smt118

 

[The Dark King]

Just make sure you don't come in Spring... all that pollen in the air 'n all... :smt006

Good one smart ass lol

 

[GQ Brotha]

You's makin' me blush :smt053 :smt058


GQ, you know your stuff! I could show you the outback, introduce you to a few country girls

I aim to please babe.

Would welcome being shown the outback by a native.

hmmmm.....well the girls round my way are the beach going, bather wearing, tan getting type. they do wear short shorts and cowboy hats and have dogs


and yes, whikley be like :smt118

Yum, sounds good to me.

Whiks has us fellas around here drooling.

 

[Be-you-tiful86]

Excellent point.
Would leave rep if i could,but have to spread it around first

Attraction to anyone is going to raise questions. Especially to those people who are either not in a relationship, or their curiosity stems from jealousy. Or, they are hiding the fact that they are attracted to you and do not know how to express it. I often got questioned as to what women I am attracted to years ago. I tell them and simply state the type of women I am attracted to and the conversation ends there. There is no shame in one's attraction to a person. No one has the right to judge a person for it.

 

[RestlessRita]

If loving black men makes me a "pervert", then I'm happy to be one!!:freehug:

 

[Bug]

I've had a few stupid questions over the years, mainly from people that I wouldn't really call friends just mere acquaintances.

No ones ever really upset me with anything and I haven't really had those kind of questions/enquiries for yonks now.

I remember a co worker making a joke once, it wasn't really bad, we shared the cost of large bag of Jelly Babies from this company that sold to people at work.
Anyway we opened the bag and he said "I'll have all the white ones as you don't like those ones" then chuckled.
It really fucked me off to tell the truth and he could tell so he apologised, but still, I was pretty miffed.

 

[GQ Brotha]

If loving black men makes me a "pervert", then I'm happy to be one!!:freehug:

:smt043:smt043:smt043

 

[Gorath]

I've had a few stupid questions over the years, mainly from people that I wouldn't really call friends just mere acquaintances.

No ones ever really upset me with anything and I haven't really had those kind of questions/enquiries for yonks now.

I remember a co worker making a joke once, it wasn't really bad, we shared the cost of large bag of Jelly Babies from this company that sold to people at work.
Anyway we opened the bag and he said "I'll have all the white ones as you don't like those ones" then chuckled.
It really fucked me off to tell the truth and he could tell so he apologised, but still, I was pretty miffed.

Jelly Babies. I haven't heard about those since watching Tom Baker's Doctor ate them on Dr. Who. Brings back memories. I thought that they did not exist then or today but they existed on that show.

 

[Bug]

Jelly Babies. I haven't heard about those since watching Tom Baker's Doctor ate them on Dr. Who. Brings back memories. I thought that they did not exist then or today but they existed on that show.

You don't have Jelly Babies in the US

Well they're real and always have been lol

 

[Gorath]

You don't have Jelly Babies in the US

Well they're real and always have been lol

No. We don't have Jelly Babies here. But we do have Ju Ju Fruits, Ike & Mikes, Good & Plenty, Dots, Gummi Bears and Twizzlers.

 

[andreboba]

What's offensive is when people assume the only thing you two could have in common is JUST sex.

 

[samson1701]

I've gotten the same dumb questions. "Does she buy you things white girls got money" "white girls love giving head they never say no" "white girls let you get away with whatever you want you lucky" and my favorite "I guess you had a bad relationship with your mama huh"
The stupidity knows no bounds, its not ignorance it's stupidity, it's 2014 this shit ain't new ir taboo any more you just have a lot of assholes who refuse to get pas their own hang ups that they apply to everyone else.

Glad to see you posting Whik

Yep, I've gotten all of those. Let's not forget about the ole' " You like white girls? You must hate yourself " ...lol

But, real talk. Over the years, I've noticed many WW who dated only BB are actually racists themselves. They only date the stereotype. They're not interested in any other types of black male. Then, when they get played, they claim BM can't be trusted. Then, they find a white guy who has the good traits that they should have been looking for in a brotha'.

Either that, or they tear through brothers during what I call their "sexcapades years" but when it's time to settle down and get serious, only WM will do.

Of course, I'm in my 40's. There may not be as much of that anymore now that IR dating is much more common place.

 

[MilkandCoffee]

Yep, I've gotten all of those. Let's not forget about the ole' " You like white girls? You must hate yourself " ...lol

But, real talk. Over the years, I've noticed many WW who dated only BB are actually racists themselves. They only date the stereotype. They're not interested in any other types of black male. Then, when they get played, they claim BM can't be trusted. Then, they find a white guy who has the good traits that they should have been looking for in a brotha'.

Either that, or they tear through brothers during what I call their "sexcapades years" but when it's time to settle down and get serious, only WM will do.

Of course, I'm in my 40's. There may not be as much of that anymore now that IR dating is much more common place.

That reminds me of what Alex said in Orange is the New Black.

 

[4north1side2]

Yep, I've gotten all of those. Let's not forget about the ole' " You like white girls? You must hate yourself " ...lol

But, real talk. Over the years, I've noticed many WW who dated only BB are actually racists themselves. They only date the stereotype. They're not interested in any other types of black male. Then, when they get played, they claim BM can't be trusted. Then, they find a white guy who has the good traits that they should have been looking for in a brotha'.

Either that, or they tear through brothers during what I call their "sexcapades years" but when it's time to settle down and get serious, only WM will do.

Of course, I'm in my 40's. There may not be as much of that anymore now that IR dating is much more common place.

Real talk I've witnessed this on a couple of occasions reading Plenty of Fish profiles over the years. I actually think it's hilarious espcially when these women who are adamant about "No black guys" then follow it up with "Yes my baby is mixed, if that's a problem then keep it moving"

Yeah that'll rake the white guys in.

 

[Ol'Skool Classic]

Yep, I've gotten all of those. Let's not forget about the ole' " You like white girls? You must hate yourself " ...lol

But, real talk. Over the years, I've noticed many WW who dated only BB are actually racists themselves. They only date the stereotype. They're not interested in any other types of black male. Then, when they get played, they claim BM can't be trusted. Then, they find a white guy who has the good traits that they should have been looking for in a brotha'.

Either that, or they tear through brothers during what I call their "sexcapades years" but when it's time to settle down and get serious, only WM will do.

Of course, I'm in my 40's. There may not be as much of that anymore now that IR dating is much more common place.

Yep. I've seen my fair share of this kind of thing back in the days when I was single. My wife use to have a friend from her college days who was all into dating black men only, but they were always the thug/bad boy types & of course consistently had all kinds of drama going on when she dated someone for an extended period of time because of this. When she hit her mid thirties & decided she was ready to settle down & start a family, she went out and found the most milquetoast white guy she could possibly find to marry & have kids with. My wife was always saying if that particular friend ever got married it wouldn't be to any black man based on the knuckleheads she was always with & if she did marry a black man it would be some ol' Jerry Springer Show type bullshit & drama always going on in the relationship.

 

[southfloridagirl]

Yep. I've seen my fair share of this kind of thing back in the days when I was single. My wife use to have a friend from her college days who was all into dating black men only, but they were always the thug/bad boy types & of course consistently had all kinds of drama going on when she dated someone for an extended period of time because of this. When she hit her mid thirties & decided she was ready to settle down & start a family, she went out and found the most milquetoast white guy she could possibly find to marry & have kids with. My wife was always saying if that particular friend ever got married it wouldn't be to any black man based on the knuckleheads she was always with & if she did marry a black man it would be some ol' Jerry Springer Show type bullshit & drama always going on in the relationship.

That's the wrong way to go about it. I much prefer the route I took: Marry an insecure white man. Divorce him several years later when he becomes intolerable. Find black men by accident. Learn to weed out the thugs. And finally be able to say, "Where have you been all my life????!!!!"

 

[Ol'Skool Classic]

That's the wrong way to go about it. I much prefer the route I took: Marry an insecure white man. Divorce him several years later when he becomes intolerable. Find black men by accident. Learn to weed out the thugs. And finally be able to say, "Where have you been all my life????!!!!"

I've also known some black men who rolled that way as well, but they were always specifically looking to date white women who only wanted black men for sex and partying. They spent their single years partying & doing all the freaky things they ever wanted to do with white women, but didn't want anything to do with any white women when it came to settling down & having a family however. All married black women.

 

[Peach State Scholar]

That's the wrong way to go about it. I much prefer the route I took: Marry an insecure white man. Divorce him several years later when he becomes intolerable. Find black men by accident. Learn to weed out the thugs. And finally be able to say, "Where have you been all my life????!!!!"

:smt043:smt043:smt043

I have to ask, though, how did you find black men by accident?

 

[southfloridagirl]

I've also known some black men who rolled that way as well, but they were always specifically looking to date white women who only wanted black men for sex and partying. They spent their single years partying & doing all the freaky things they ever wanted to do with white women, but didn't want anything to do with any white women when it came to settling down & having a family however. All married black women.

IF I ever marry again, it's going to be a black man. After experiencing a black man, a white man is no longer worth my trouble of trying to sustain something real with. If I get hurt by a black man, at least I'll be able to say I knew not to make the exact same mistake twice. White men are so damn insecure. Intimidated by me. Because I am tall, and I am very bright. Height and intelligence in a woman will have many men running for the hills super fast. I never imagined myself as the strong one in a relationship, but apparently I am. I'm an alpha. I need an alpha; most white men don't fit that bill, when they find themselves in my presence. And ironically I am the one that ends up getting hurt. Done with that sh**, so done with it.... Black men not only physically superior, but also no insecurity issues that I've come across. Perhaps the two might have something to do with each other.... Jealous men are a big turn off to me, after what my ex put me through.