southfloridagirl
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This is an unequal partnership. Polygamy most often to be found in poor and backwards societies where women benefit from sharing the finances and protection of the same husband, rather than being alone in the streets, and destitute. Each spouse gets only half the resources and attention they would otherwise get if they were the only wife.
I've had a very strongly ingrained sense of equality, fairness and justice in me for as long as I can remember even as a small child. I could never go for an arrangement like this. I find it difficult to comprehend how a woman, given options, would opt for this type of arrangement. I think this is why this is most often found in societies where women have fewer options.
Even though the women in this video are bisexual, which makes the "combined avaiable sexual resources" equal for all, the fact is that the children do not equally belong to everyone involved, because that one, folks, is as of today still a biological impossiblity (maybe one day we will splice the genes of three people together, until that day.....)
This particular unit in this video seems to be cohesive and happy, and 3 adults to 7 children is still a sane enough ratio to give the kids a decent upbriging, so I wish them the best. But it's not for me, lol.
What if one wife wants to divorce? How are the finances split up?
I've had a very strongly ingrained sense of equality, fairness and justice in me for as long as I can remember even as a small child. I could never go for an arrangement like this. I find it difficult to comprehend how a woman, given options, would opt for this type of arrangement. I think this is why this is most often found in societies where women have fewer options.
Even though the women in this video are bisexual, which makes the "combined avaiable sexual resources" equal for all, the fact is that the children do not equally belong to everyone involved, because that one, folks, is as of today still a biological impossiblity (maybe one day we will splice the genes of three people together, until that day.....)
This particular unit in this video seems to be cohesive and happy, and 3 adults to 7 children is still a sane enough ratio to give the kids a decent upbriging, so I wish them the best. But it's not for me, lol.
What if one wife wants to divorce? How are the finances split up?
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