It's so cheap to live here. I have an apartment 3X the size of the one in NYC WITH NO ROOM-MATES for only about 60% of what I'd paid in NYC. Water is 1/3 the cost that it is in Canada and food is way cheap, not only that, gas is a lot cheaper compared to Canada (I didn't drive in NYC- just the train). But socially, well I guess I just work too much lol.

 

lol....naw...as paraphrasing suntzu "know your terrain and adjust your game".

you need game first...you're fucked.

you are too busy feeling entitled and blaming women...sound like elliott.

now you could just stop getting mad and get back in the field.

look at it in a different manner.

 

NYC is definitely the apex of the dog-eat-dog mentality in the US. I still love the city for its variety and culture, but it's tough up there.

 

Oh shit you're selling me, hopefully the dating scene is cool. If I can't have a steady stream of gorgeous ww what's the point lol.
What about entertainment and eating out?

 

There's a ton of gorgeous ww here, but I'm not having any luck with the dating scene at all. lol I just drool over the firefighters that I see at work

 

I definitely don't need "game" I get women just fine sir. Most women I encounter like me fam, there is no shortage of suitable women for me to date.
And where do I sound entitled? I work for everything I have

 

Most women do I'm in the wrong profession. Maybe I can be a cop after I make that first million. Seriously a millionaire cop, there wouldn't be a dry panty within 100 yards of me lol

 

I'm sure you've experienced similar in Miami fam

 

If what's on that avi isn't having luck with the dating scene it has to be by choice. Or they're all gay.

 

My ex-husband is a SWAT team member and I still find those who serve sexy. I guess because I had 4 years in the military and get that mentality of service. Still serve today in a sense. Anyways, I love me a hottie "willing to serve"

 

LOL

That's a recent pic of me on the avi (although my hair is blonder now), I just don't put myself out there. But am single, and have decided I would like to date. Guess I should put a label on my forehead or something. :grin:

 

You may be too picky because I can't imagine you not getting hit on daily

 

My thoughts. Lol

 

I DON'T GET HIT ON DAILY. I've chatted dudes up, paid extra attention, laughed at their jokes. Damn, I don't know what else to do.

 

You have to give them "vibes" and twirl your hair. That's what Professor-of-dating TDK thinks I do lol

 

They're gay.

 

You know what's funny is a lot of my friends who leave here and live other places, mostly non major cities, complain about how dudes don't pull the trigger like they do here. No way you were walking around the city and not getting a dinner invitation or two lol

 

Right, in NYC, I was getting hit on just walking to work. Men were aggressive there. Guys just whistle at every female walking by, call out to her, ask for her number, etc. I wasn't special, it was just the culture.

Here, it's like crickets chirping, tumble weeds roll by. Sheesh.

 

You laugh but it's true lol
Btw I was thinking of doing an experiment to test your theory about confidence and "game"

 

Quite true, on South Beach. But I avoid that crowd like the plague. It takes some digging, but you can find alternatives if you try.