i think that s all just the wrong way looking it. it s possible to get sex from a women without lying. point is- you will not get it from every woman if you are honest. so since getting, sex from any woman approached is the goal, some guys may prefer to lie then to leave a woman a choice. (my point)
But why lie? If I want the dick and only the dick, I tell the man that is all I want. There are tons of women so be truthful and if she rejects you then go to another woman. Don't lead her on to think there could be more.
i guess it s because they want that particular one and it makes things easier for them. i prefer an honest man over a liar all time of the day. i might not like the fact of him wanting to have sex with me only, but i like to choose if i m ok with that still if my interest goes deeper or not.
Exactly. I choose just sex sometimes, but I like having the choice instead of thinking we might go somewhere.
Most men lie because only very few get the just sex option. For most women I'm right for relationships but oddly not good enough for casual sex.
Or maybe you're too good for casual sex. When I just want sex...I'm not going to fuck the relationship-worthy dude because I don't want to be sucked into those kinds of feelings. I've seen a few women here who've spoken about going through times where they were just not interested in a relationship...they just wanted sex. We're human it happens! When those times hit, I'm looking for something casual not something that I could for see myself falling for. Just throwing out there that maybe it's far from you not being good enough...may be just the opposite.
Lol you have any idea how backwards that sounds to a guy? Some dude who isn't worthy of you gets to have immediate no strings attached sex with you but I get the privilege of paying for your meals and entertainment before I have sex with you? Some prize lol
Call me old fashioned, but I don't do casual sex. That's what my vibrator is for... LOL @ TDK - that is kinda f'd up. Privileges of paying for your ebtertaient before getting sex. Ass backwards...
Pretty much. That's why I say not good enough for casual sex. My own fault though just gotta up my status and weight lol
i would agree on this. apart from that on a general note, situation is not getting better if on the one side men would like women to be more open to the "only sex thing" but then on the other hand are more then fast to call a woman a slut if she s open for exactly this. just look at that other thread where it was discussed about the number of sexpartners someone had before. if i see what some guys think what is appropriate for a woman, ... no comment. we live far from equality. if men want sex only, they shouldnt pass judgement on women taking the same right. if they want to messure with different weights- pls go see a prostitute. i hear cherokee, too. it s not oldfashion, it s a personal decision i think. i m not the ONS type either. (not saying any of you other women is) but this is just for the reason that i care to know the person i deal with, must have sympathy for them and a minimum level of trust before i agree in sex only. with that basal FWB can work perfect. consensual respect is a must.
Good God, man. Really? You're like a freaking broken record with this shit. You've NEVER been out with a woman who has said, "I'm going to pay for this date" or "I want to pay for my half"? Come on.
I absolutely agree with all of that. I've never had a ons...not my cup of tea. When I'm not wanting a relationship I default to my fwbs. I don't put much stock in "numbers" but I'm absolutely respectful of my body and who gets access to it. At the end of the day, that's what matters to me. Fwbs works very well for me when I'm not wanting anything serious. I know the guy, I adore the guy and I already know we mesh sexually.
