Cheaters

RaiderLL said:
Fuck. No.

I'm far from perfect but I'd never keep a man who cheats on me. If he wants to see other people we can have that conversation. But a man cheating on me? I'll be out before he even realizes I know he's shady. Raider doesn't share :cool:
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Fuck. Yeah. You better keep him.
 
RaiderLL said:
Lol. You know how I am...if someone fucks me over, I'm done. I'd have no problem walking if my partner cheated. There's a million fish in the sea and I want one who only puts his junk in me :smt058
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Lol. I know. I was being sarcastic with my post in this thread...
 
If a woman cheated on me, she is gone. If I cheated, I am gone the moment my lips make contact with hers and vice-versa. Cheating is about satisfying needs within and outside of one's self. It is selfish as it is cruel.
 
This happened to me once, and only once from a Puerto Rican woman when I was in my 20's so I know the pain of cheatin'. Her vagina must be paved with gold. She would have been gone with yesterday's trash, "Kicked to the curb" if it was me. Especially the amount of times she cheated, she should have given up the first time since she was no good at getting caught. *L*
 
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Negus said:
This happened to me once, and only once from a Puerto Rican woman when I was in my 20's so I know the pain of cheatin'. Her vagina must must be paved with gold. She would have been gone with yesterday's trash, "Kicked to the curb" if it was me. Especially the amount of times she cheated, she should have given up the first time since she was no good at getting caught. *L*
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I think people stay because of the fear of being alone.
 
In there particular situation, she's done. I understand she's probably frustrated from answering the same questions, but that's what it takes and she doesn't sound willing to participate in that phase of rebuilding. Moreover, she has been filling her gap(s) [pun intended] repeatedly, she found her way to be happy. That guy needs to move on clearly. If he was to stay, the
Only way is if he fucks her mother, sister(s) & best friend(s).

There's never a general answer, it's situational.
 
goodlove said:
I think people stay because of the fear of being alone.
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Absolutely. My little sister is notorious for staying with men who cheat (and worse) because she simply can't be alone. So very sad. Usually (always?) a result of self esteem issues, on some level. My little sister is gorgeous, has a crazy fucking body and is genuinely the sweetest person you'll ever meet...yet she puts up with shit that no one should have to deal with all because she fears being alone. :(

Her and I are night and day in that respect. I'd rather be alone than to just be a number in dudes starting line up.
 
RaiderLL said:
Absolutely. My little sister is notorious for staying with men who cheat (and worse) because she simply can't be alone. So very sad. Usually (always?) a result of self esteem issues, on some level. My little sister is gorgeous, has a crazy fucking body and is genuinely the sweetest person you'll ever meet...yet she puts up with shit that no one should have to deal with all because she fears being alone. :(

Her and I are night and day in that respect. I'd rather be alone than to just be a number in dudes starting line up.
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Well you are definitely a great cheerleader of her, I'm mean I think you should ask her if you can post her picture lol If she has a great f'ing body and she resembles what I remember you to look like, well damn...

Oh and I'm sorry she makes poor relationship choices, I would never be one of those ;)
 
RaiderLL said:
Absolutely. My little sister is notorious for staying with men who cheat (and worse) because she simply can't be alone. So very sad. Usually (always?) a result of self esteem issues, on some level. My little sister is gorgeous, has a crazy fucking body and is genuinely the sweetest person you'll ever meet...yet she puts up with shit that no one should have to deal with all because she fears being alone. :(

Her and I are night and day in that respect. I'd rather be alone than to just be a number in dudes starting line up.
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Yeah i wonder if people think when their spouse or bf/gf cheat its their fault
 
FRESH said:
Well you are definitely a great cheerleader of her, I'm mean I think you should ask her if you can post her picture lol If she has a great f'ing body and she resembles what I remember you to look like, well damn...

Oh and I'm sorry she makes poor relationship choices, I would never be one of those ;)
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Haha I'm taking her shopping this weekend. Maybe I'll post a selfie of us. She's adorable. She's got blue eyes, mine are green and she's a little thinner than me...but she still has that booty ;) She's the whole package, inside and out.

She's a sweetheart and deserves so much better. I can't get her to understand that tho. And I'm sure you wouldn't be a poor relationship choice ;)

goodlove said:
Yeah i wonder if people think when their spouse or bf/gf cheat its their fault
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Maybe. Or maybe it's just like you said earlier...a far of being alone. Some people ignore the cheating that's right under their nose because they don't want to lose the relationship. Crazy.
 
RaiderLL said:
Haha I'm taking her shopping this weekend. Maybe I'll post a selfie of us. She's adorable. She's got blue eyes, mine are green and she's a little thinner than me...but she still has that booty ;) She's the whole package, inside and out.

She's a sweetheart and deserves so much better. I can't get her to understand that tho. And I'm sure you wouldn't be a poor relationship choice ;)



Maybe. Or maybe it's just like you said earlier...a far of being alone. Some people ignore the cheating that's right under their nose because they don't want to lose the relationship. Crazy.
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Or they just dont want to believe it
 
RaiderLL said:
Haha I'm taking her shopping this weekend. Maybe I'll post a selfie of us. She's adorable. She's got blue eyes, mine are green and she's a little thinner than me...but she still has that booty ;) She's the whole package, inside and out.

She's a sweetheart and deserves so much better. I can't get her to understand that tho. And I'm sure you wouldn't be a poor relationship choice ;)
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Sounds fab all around.

Don't get me wrong Raider, I love to see your pictures too, but you've been taken in my absence of the boards.
 
If I was in a monogamous relationship and she cheated I would: A) drop that cheating ass bitch and get a new woman or B) tell her to polish up them ho heels and make us some money. There's no trying to work things out.
 
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