Having trouble finding a white woman to date

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wtarshi said:
This.

Keep your profile light and short and always have a photo. As soon as someone contacts me with no photo, I reply immediately that I'm not interested.
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4north1side2 said:
On top of all that, the whole "I don't post my pictures on a dating website for privacy reasons" excuse is so damn tired. Not posting pictures just makes you come off as sleazy, a liar and a complete bullshitter.
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I'm the same way. Whenever I get a message from a woman with no picture posted, I don't even bother to reply. If I can put myself out there for the world to see then so can she.

Satchmo said:
And he finally admitted that he was a judge (who I appeared before at times) but that only made it worse, like he was so special, that his privacy was somehow more important than everyone else's.
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Well damn :shock:
 
BH,Savannah may be a historic city but,I sincerely believe you that there are no WW there who want to date a brother. Only the ones who lived large like some atheletes who retired from sports or execs. Plus, the WW in the US are not that bold for brothers.
 
Soulthinker said:
BH,Savannah may be a historic city but,I sincerely believe you that there are no WW there who want to date a brother. Only the ones who lived large like some atheletes who retired from sports or execs. Plus, the WW in the US are not that bold for brothers.
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You shouldn't paint so broadly ST. Your personal experiences don't define the entire white female population in this country. There's plenty of women here who adore, and prefer, bm.
 
pettyofficerj said:
I'm so jealous of ur boo right now

Shit ain't fair at all

But the possibility of Thursday night football is rearing its head, so I'm starting not to give a damn

;)
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lol you're so easily distracted. My baby is ridiculously delicious! Love him more and more with each passing day :heart:
 
RaiderLL said:
You shouldn't paint so broadly ST. Your personal experiences don't define the entire white female population in this country. There's plenty of women here who adore, and prefer, bm.
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Bear in mind though that ST, like blondhunter and I, are in the south. In BH's case, you don't get more southern than Savannah, GA. Beautiful city but the state of interracial dating is definitely different down here than it is in the rest of the country.
 
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Since1980 said:
Bear in mind thought that ST, like blondhunter and I, are in the south. In BH's case, you don't get more southern than Savannah, GA. Beautiful city but the state of interracial dating is definitely different down here than it is in the rest of the country.
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That's very sad. I forget sometimes how different it is out my way. Thanks for bringing me back to reality :freehug:
 
Savannah, GA is so southern, I kept wondering if I would ever see a horse-drawn carriage loaded with those southern belles and white men in those broadcloth suits and wide brimmed hats. I was at a McDonald's at the Greyhound bus terminal there. Southern lore was all over the place.
 
archangel said:
I would be careful with overseas women. unless they are coming from germany, aussie, england, etc, they may not be financially stable. Not always but it is something to think about. Then again, It may that I have seen one too many overseas dating documentary.
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You're correct about that
 
goodlove said:
The ww i got with was due to i knew their friend who introduced us or ran in the same circle.

I never cold approached a ww. I understand your apprehension about making a move.

Also a military town is known for IR so she might be more open or use to it
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Yes! The military is good for interracial. I experienced my first when I was in the Marines. Got turned out by a white woman lmao
 
Get your self a fishing pole, proceed to the nearest Starbucks, place the hook carefully through the top and ridge of the cup. You are now ready to head to any retail center the sell uggs and or Northface and deploy your rod and bait. Done and done, white women hooked.
 
RaiderLL said:
Thank you baby :freehug:



Real talk :smt043
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I forgot to tell him...

...grab poster board, or card board, cut a ovalish hole out--I recommend the middle. Get your self a permanent marker and write a messege: Looking for an honest days pay, blonde ladies ages 18-69 looking for love should sit on my face. *trannies trying to teabag not welcome.


Real talk, stop putting so much emphasis on the whole thing... Muprhy's Law...as soon as you stop looking it will happen for you. You are trying so hard so much, you're getting a lot null results, you may have some more positive but your ratio is still off and your sensitive to that. For every website, real situ, and whatever else you find yourself approaching women with/in, you'll score one interested party for however many. Just look it as a game of numbers, enjoy it while you play it cause the chase should be fun no matter how old you say and feel.
 
I found a lot of success in Yoga classes. They're full of WW and when they see me transition from downward-facing doggystyle to 45 degree tripod salutation with no hands, it sends their second chakra into a tizzy.
 
Satchmo said:
Perhaps a big reason women immediately dismiss contact with no pic may have less to do with a looks requirement and more to do with a numbers game. When I tried online dating I quickly found the formula didn't work so well for me because, particularly with a free site, women immediately get bombarded with emails overnight. When you're employed and only have maybe 20 minutes to sift thru tons of messages and profiles, or if you're unemployed but simply not that devoted to the cause, you have to do a quick process of elimination -- you're unable - or unwilling - to take the time to check out every single person that hits you a "whatsup." So the "anonymous Joe" is the obvious instant elimination. Ask yourself this: with a blank profile - no pic and nothing much to say, what reason have you given her to respond? What exactly have you given her to base a choice to reply to you over anyone else? Even if you were the only person to contact her, if she replied could you assume it was cause she was interested? Interested in what? "whatsup" from a (literally) nobody? A nonperson? I may be delusional, but I think a less than attractive pic is better than no pic. At least a message from an unattractive person is contact from a person. With no pic and a generic profile, you get no sense of the person. It's like you're not a person, but a typed fake name on a computer screen. And I agree with the other poster that said "the privacy concerns" line is offensive (my word). I remember once a no-pic guy (I must assume it was a guy) got pissed cause I didn't respond to his messages. I responded finally something like "what reason did you give me to respond? Respond to who/what? WOPR (remember War Games)?" He replied with "because of my line of work I have to be concerned for privacy," and I was thinking "So your privacy is more important than mine?" Remember the scene from the movie Taken when the naked virgins were paraded on stage before the audience of anonymous 'important person' bidders? That's what it feels like for a girl to put herself out there and have an anonymous no-pic guy demand her attention, claiming to be in special need of 'privacy." And he finally admitted that he was a judge (who I appeared before at times) but that only made it worse, like he was so special, that his privacy was somehow more important than everyone else's. Do you think women generally like the idea of putting their pics out there on the world wide web? Of course not, but it's a risk we take to play the game. Would you have messaged her in the first place if she didn't have a profile pic? I hear ya that online dating doesn't always work out for a number of reasons, mainly I think cause it's only as good as your geographical location. When I tried online dating I didn't know about IR sites, but I did a search on whatever site it was for African American males within a hundred mile radius, and when the search returned with not a single match, I signed off forever.
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seconded:):):)
 
In the South the only brothers who could get them are those who lived large,go to major Southern University or Colleges like in the ACC or SEC football,and corporate brothers. They see the WW. Sex workers don't count in the hood. Also,on the web you never see a bold American WW on a major dating website.
 
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