Lying To A Woman So She'll Have Sex With You? That Could Be Rape.

Raider if a man impregnates a woman and the woman refuses to abort just because the man doesnt want to be a father she is NOT forcing him to be a father she is forcing him to be responsible and pay for child support. The man should have thought about that before he was busting a nut in the woman. No man has the right to be angry with a woman for not wanting to abort a baby after having UNPROTECTED SEX with a woman. If you have NO plans of being a father you must ALWAYS strap up. It's as simple as that.

 

exactly

 

if you are man enuff to lay with her be man enuff to accept the consequences.

wrap it up or get surgery

 

I absolutely agree men need to wrap it up but working in women's health I can't even tell you how scandalous women are. In a monogamous relationship, he's under the impression she's on BC, then she turns up pregnant. Happens every.day. Men are trapped and forced into fatherhood. Like I said, I'm all about personal responsibility but I think it's disgusting what some women get away with and I WISH there was a way to give men fairness when it comes to unplanned pregnancies.

 

we know there are scandalous women...but like u and i stated .....defend yourself. trust no one. thats what you and i stated earlier.

no different with cosigning a loan...whats your name is on that paper....its over.

thats what i keep trying to say. thats what guys and women need to be discussing on how to protect yourselves from scandalous people.

also condoms and bc are not 100%

 

So treat all our interactions like a lawyer?

 

Would you tell a woman this bs? Nope

 

Tell a woman what? That you dont want to be a father just as i am about to fuck her without condom? That would be stupid wouldn't it? This is simple if you had sex with a woman without a condom you must be prepared for the consequences. I am not talking about you being deceived by a woman that she is on the pill only to get pregnant cus that's trapping even though i think its plain stupid to be having unprotected sex when you KNOW you dont wanna be a daddy.Not even with your GF of 5 years should you have unprotected sex if you are not prepared for the consequences.

 

u cant talk man shit to a seven year old

 

Knock off the insults youngin you don't want to go there


But if a woman does get knocked up she's advised about her options even if the man wants the kid (seen it happen several times) the woman can claim it's her body and she does what she likes. If you give women complete dominion over the situation then shouldn't they have complete responsibility. Remember we're all suppose to be equal right?

 

dont make me get out of my rocker

 

again u practiced your options....u choice not to get protected. if u dont like condoms u can get a surgery and if im not mistaken there are bc pills or something for men

 

remember even if the woman was cool bc arenot a sure thing

a vasectomy is the most secure and its still not totally reliable

 

Good love my issue isn't consequences yes I get consequences but if we are trying to live lives where we are equals you can't play this game where men under no exception have to deal with the consequences of unprotected sex and women don't. If we are in agreement their body their choice then how do they get a pass on responsibility. If you are given 100% power of choice then shouldn't you have 100% power of responsibility. If a lot of women didn't have the power to trap men with unwanted pregnancies I guarantee there would be less of them.

 

Negative. Your options are condoms or sterilization.

I think it's unrealistic to expect monogamous, long term couples to use condoms just because they're not necessarily ready for kids. Birth control can be extremely effective when used correctly. I've had an IUD for the past 6 years but if for some reason I turned up pregnant and my bf was adamant about not having it, I'd have to do some soul searching to decide if I wanted to do it alone or terminate. I'd never financially stick him with a kid he didn't want. It takes TWO to make that baby, TWO should have a say in parenting it.

 

Goodlove let me guess never scratched a ch sup check lol,, my man that ain't what I'm arguing please understand that, the end result isn't the argument,, it's simply the laws are out dated the laws were written when women were still looked at as 2nd class, like I tell my co-workers quit asking me to replace the water jug we all equal here lol

 

i get that....im gonna say this ....i said this when i first got on the forum....wait for it....

women want equality in a relationship until the rent is due...then you are then man...what are you gonna do.

 

cool. condoms and vasectomy...
those are the options.

men should not put trust in a woman...shit can go wrong

again he has accept responsibility regardless....men need to understand there are consequences.

its what i ve seen. dudes join the military but ate shocked they have to go kill someone.

 

That's going a little tooo far lol. Those jugs are heavy as hell. Equality shmequality...I'm gonna need Mr Muscles to change that shit out lol. Please and thank you :freehug:

 

This we can totally agree on, no denying that for a lot of women
But I don't think we do anyone any favors by just caving. If it's unfair and unjust it should be addressed.