https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u8P68EBvquQ Not sure if this topic has been brought up before but I came across this video online from Pop Trigger, a news channel I watch alot on YouTube where the women (all attractive white women in their late 20's to mid 30's) said sex shouldn't last more than 3 to 7 minutes. I was like HUHHHH!!!????? I thought women wanted sex to last LONGER because it takes AT LEAST 30 minutes for them to orgasm and if the guy cant last long enough to make her finish she will think he is lame. Women please answer this for me. Is this a thing where early in a relationship you are just discovering what makes your partner get off so it may take longer (also at this stage you are still trying to impress your partner with how long you can last and all your "fancy tricks") and later on in the relationship or marriage if you have been together for many years and its just a matter of the sex becoming a boring chore to get through and just go through the motions..?? How long do you want sex to last? Does it just depend on the woman and how good/attractive the guy is? If he is average looking and average in bed do you just wanna get it over with but if he is Brad Pitt or Tyson Beckford lookin' dude you want an epic rough all nighter? I am confused... ...P.S. This does not include 5 to 10 minutes (or longer) of foreplay/oral. I just mean pure penetration and all the different sex positions until both partners orgasm.
It said the consensus of Sex Therapists said 3-7 was adequate 7-13 mins is desirable. Then the ones on the show are saying the "quicker the better". And how they are upset about how they are coming up with ways for men to be lasting longer and how they have so many other things to do they don't want 30+ mins. They just want to "get it over with". WOW! Ok what comes to my mind is they must be having really bad sex! The better it is, the more I want it. I'm all for the marathoner.
Love this. It's all about the couple...as long as both enjoy themselves it doesn't really matter how long it takes.
Word. And in the words of Holly Robinson Peete, "Get your own damn beer, l'm watching the game". Nah, l'm a great host..beer for eryyone! :drinkers: