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Well that's the thing its not abusive, abuse implies something you don't want to happen and that's not what's happening. And truthfully that's fine for you and you can do whatever you want. And like I said earlier context is everything. There are so many sexual things that happen between two people who love each other under a different context can be considered abuse.
Yep everyone has their own boundaries.
I also think that when certain lines get blurred during sex, it becomes much easier for them to become blurred outside of sex play.
All that can be well and good too, until people get upset about things or break up and suddenly it all shifts. I don't think some things are worth putting yourself at risk over.