Because requires less effort and doesn't require you to get someone else off too. Sometimes a man just wants to cum and go to sleep afterwards

 

Wow, just..... Wow....

 

Yup. I had the same thought.

 

So the only reason you guys masturbate is lack of a partner?
Funny how when a woman isn't in the mood no one bats an eye. I keep forgetting all we're good for is being walking dildos who pay for meals lol

 

Because she's not in the mood, just as we men arent in the mood all the time

Lol @ these women dismayed with honesty.

 

Yup.

 

If you have a gf who's not in the mood, then I get your point. But if you have a gf who would give it to you anytime, day or night, even if you just wanted head...would you still just want to take care of yourself sometimes? Honest question. I've truthfully wondered what goes through guys minds sometimes. I'm ready 24/7...I can get off just by pleasing my guy so there's no need for the "ugh I have to get her off too" mindset...but would you still find masturbation the easier route sometimes?

I guess it's just interesting to me. In two years I've never turned my guy down. Ever. If I have a headache or cramps or STRESS... sex is going to help so I'm definitely down. If he's had a long day or has a big game coming up, I'm fine just taking care of him. Because of how I am and how I try to take care of him, yes Id be offended if he's jacking off when Im home lol. If im not here and he needs to relax, have at it lol. But otherwise I feel like he should turn to me instead of his hand.

 

I can't speak for other men but I can say I really enjoy pleasing my woman and to me sex is good relationship maintenence and I like to maintain my woman's satisfaction. So I don't know how to be selfish during sex and if I'm getting off I gotta make sure she's good too and the whole process can take up to an hour and sometimes I just want a quick but then time for bed.

 

These women grow up thinking we're machines that want it every second of the day lol

 

I think all that is very gentlemanly of you. I dig it. But remember, some women truly get off on pleasing YOU. It doesn't always need to be a long drawn out thing. If you have a chick who craves you in her mouth, let it be lol. Get the hand off your dick and put it on the back of her head. No bitterness, no having her offended, no sneaking porn lol...problem solved :smt023

 

I swear the last couple of posts are hilarious but true. can't rep you though.:smt036

 

:smt043

 

Funniest shit is when you first turn down a woman for sex and you watch her reaction of her mind being blown at the fact that someone was able to turn her down then you see a billion thoughts of what's wrong racing across her face.

:smt084

 

One of which is "he must be cheating on me"

 

You got any friends or family in the NY area like you?

 

I've heard that so many damn times its not even funny.
Sad

 

That's because it could very well be true. One sign a person may be cheating is that he/she isn't in the mood for sex with their partner.

 

I don't really don't think that's true in most cases. Just like everything under the sun certain things become a little less exciting and more routine. It can't be helped. So in my case sex the first 6 times are probably gonna be way more exciting that the 60th time and as a result I'm not going to want to do it as much. Might need more of a build up

 

So if the man wanted to jack off, that's a sign that he may be cheating?

 

Just imagine Jesus watching you, giving you a pep talk on getting your jerk on. When busting a nut, you might find all your love juice in the shape of a cross.

That's when you come to find out..."Cum, my lord. Do cum."

Brutal honesty is the best policy. I like that. :mrgreen: