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I dont fault him overly in asking her for her views but be cool about it. I get he wanted to understand but dont come to people sideways...especially outthe gate
 
goodlove said:
I dont fault him overly in asking her for her views but be cool about it. I get he wanted to understand but dont come to people sideways...especially outthe gate
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Out the gate, yes. He did not continue his dialogue with her in a hateful or disrespectful tone, she did however.
 
Cherok33 said:
Out the gate, yes. He did not continue his dialogue with her in a hateful or disrespectful tone, she did however.
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Yeah but he set the tone for that.

Start wrong it can or it will end wrong.

To me it got argumentative.


Like i stated, he shouldve left her alone.
 
goodlove said:
Yeah but he set the tone for that.

Start wrong it can or it will end wrong.

To me it got argumentative.


Like i stated, he shouldve left her alone.
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That's true, some people have a knee-jerk reaction and meaningful dialogue is a lost cause. I don't feel like he was argumentative though; I feel like he was just trying to understand why she thinks the way she does.

I probably would've never said anything because I usually avoid confrontation at all costs, most especially if they give me the impression they are ignorant from the beginning.
 
Cherok33 said:
It can just be preference or it can also be perceived as racist.

When you limit yourself to one particular race or religion because you don't like associating with a particular group of people, or you're afraid what other people will think, how your family will react, what your kids will look like

Bottom line up front is that obviously its more than just a personal preference.

As for T's dialogue w said racist girl...

I think it's fairly presumptuous to assume someone else's motives are sinister without corroborating evidence, which is what he was doing. Seeking to understand. Clearly a waste of time, however given T's intellectual and fact finding personality, he became more and more curious.

Unless they admit to being racist, you just can't know for sure.
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That wad point from the beginning. When does a black person ever get the chance to actually talk to a racist person. I was curious. Curiosity satisfied now we can move on
 
The Dark King said:
No but obesity is totally different than race. Do I really need to explain this to you or are you just shit stirring
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Let's go there.

I can already see what your going to do. Your going to pull up stats of how obesity is unhealthy with theatrical fodder when in fact not all "obese" people are unhealthy.... kinda like not all black guys are classless losers...

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4north1side2 said:
Let's go there.

I can already see what your going to do. Your going to pull up stats of how obesity is unhealthy with theatrical fodder when in fact not all "obese" people are unhealthy.... kinda like not all black guys are classless losers...

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Um no. Steph Curry is black and so is Kevin Garnett do they look a like at all?
How about Morrison Chestnut and Steve Harvey?
 
The Dark King said:
That wad point from the beginning. When does a black person ever get the chance to actually talk to a racist person. I was curious. Curiosity satisfied now we can move on
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If this was the truth, you would of asked the members of racist site, the racist forum that you've well been aware of for years.

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The Dark King said:
The same you'd think it was shitty if I said no bw
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Now u are deflecting.

Now go back and read. I said no problem with dating exclusive as long as u didnt throw groups under the bus.

Go back and read. Also go pull up a post where i said its shitty.

Now answer the question , why is it shitty and rude? show me where i said that.
 
goodlove said:
Now u are deflecting.

Now go back and read. I said no problem with dating exclusive as long as u didnt throw groups under the bus.

Go back and read. Also go pull up a post where i said its shitty.

Now answer the question , why is it shitty and rude? show me where i said that.
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Good love if you think it's shitty why do you need my opinion on it?
 
Like i stated before i would love for women to put thier preference on tgeir forehead in public so i will not waste time trying to get a date with them when i see them at the market.

Cherok33 said:
That's true, some people have a knee-jerk reaction and meaningful dialogue is a lost cause. I don't feel like he was argumentative though; I feel like he was just trying to understand why she thinks the way she does.

I probably would've never said anything because I usually avoid confrontation at all costs, most especially if they give me the impression they are ignorant from the beginning.
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goodlove said:
I didnt say it was. U said it was shitty. I said im happy she would so i wouldnt waste time.

U posted the convo and discussed it.

So why u think its shitty?
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It's shitty to openly exclude people it's poor taste usually attached to some racist bs as illustrated by that woman
 
The Dark King said:
Because I don't frequent racist site the situation came up on the dating site. I wasn't seeking it out but I think you know that.
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This isn't the first time you brought this issue up so it wouldn't be far fetched that the idea of asking why hasn't crossed your mind a few times.

I love how after she called you classless loser, you switched your game up and exhuded yourself in a better nature acting above it.

The Dark King said:
It's shitty to openly exclude people it's poor taste usually attached to some racist bs as illustrated by that woman
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Sounds like a personal problem.
 
4north1side2 said:
This isn't the first time you brought this issue up so it wouldn't be far fetched that the idea of asking why hasn't crossed your mind a few times.

I love how after she called you classless loser, you switched your game up and exhuded yourself in a better nature acting above it.



Sounds like a personal problem.
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You're definitely stirring youngin because she didn't say I was classless she said black guys were. Including you too
 
The Dark King said:
It's shitty to openly exclude people it's poor taste usually attached to some racist bs as illustrated by that woman
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So i was right. It was about race.

Thats fine in thats how u felt. Just say it. I cant blame u on how u feel. Just dont lie about it.

Feelings are some times different from right, wrong or the facts but they are feelungs and they are real.
 
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