well stated. bottom line...u lose some u win some. the best advice i got from a woman was (i mentioned this plenty of times) take a wiman out for drinks (coffee or something). make it clear it will be short so she will not be able order a meal cause there are women will try to soak u.
Agreed. However, like the lottery... You have to be in it to win it. It sounds like the OP hasn't been putting himself outhere, and that's exactly the way I used to be. I'm thankful that I tired of missing opportunities because of shyness/fear of rejection.
Should you ever take womens advice on how to get women? Nope not really. Unless you need help with the basics like brush your teeth and comb your hair then I'm afraid everyone comes on a case by case basis men and women.
From my own experience, advice from women on how to pick up women is a bit iffy. I had gotten advice from men , but not a whole lot from women. I guess it would be fair to say that advice from women is worth listening to, but following that advice is another story. "A woman knows," is what I have been told over the years. So, I guess it's true. But like all of us, it's a different experience and perspective. I cannot ask my mother for advice because she doesn't have the proper reply. She doesn't understand my situation but she loves me and I suppose that was enough. I would ask a woman I know about certain things, but not about how to win a woman's heart.
Of course not! ...Unless she's telling you about a SPECIFIC woman whose situation she knows a lot about. ... Like hooking you up with her girlfriend or something.
:smt038 Honesty from a woman is something most BM never see. There is an entire Universe going on behind our backs.
A woman just told you...... no. Who are you to disagree? According to you "women have a nature about them" Trust Bug's nature and take heed. When a woman breaks ranks to tell you about other women...you best listen.
I stand on that you can get good advice from any level-headed person, regardless of gender. Sometimes it's good to have the perspective of both a female and male