step by step What bothers me about older men, and now it would be men my age, I suppose, is that many of them (certainly not all) aren't willing to invest time in the discovery and that nre that occurs when the discovery is mutually cool. They provide a resume, and while that may impress a younger woman, it is a turn off for me too. I'm not saying that stable and responsible don't matter, of course it does, but I really enjoy the whole process. :freehug:
I don't want anyone taking care of me either, but at the same time I do not want to take care of a man. Unique, I am looking for the same stuff, but I don't necessarily believe you can't find those qualities in a younger man. All depends on the person......