Dude, you can cease with the name calling. I understand you're a "vet" and i'm a "newbie" but we can be civil. I am a part of quite a few forums, so i'm just as comfortable asking something here, as on other boards where i'm a "vet." Your having a "cheerleading" squad (see above poster, who I actually have felt some of her postings in my short time here) means nothing to me, so come correct.
Back to my earlier observation. Some of the terminolgy you use is quite foul, and is my reason for asking. As a black man I understand the dynamics as far as dealing with sistas are concerned, but can still remain respectful. It just seems to me that you're posting some of the things that you do because this site is frequented by white women primarily. It would play differently to another crowd, as i'm sure you're aware. Just an observation, but carry on.