Inner Beauty
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AND Kelly admitted that she was after him cause he had money and THEN she fell in love with him...smh
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AND Kelly admitted that she was after him cause he had money and THEN she fell in love with him...smh
The Dark King
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Forgot about that part. No way she could have been ride or die like they try to portray Melanie who imo is a stuck up snob who only got a pass because she went to medical school.
Now he's with Brandy who's teaching him how to be "black" the ghetto version of course. Plain sad.
Inner Beauty
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Of course not, we come in later when the money is there (sarcasm)....
I lost interest after they got canceled and moved to BET.
The Dark King
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But to be fair chicks like you are extremely rare my friend.
Inner Beauty
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Rare in what sense? Not being a golddigger?
I think a lot of women want a comfortable lifestyle, but that doesn't mean that they're going to use a guy to get it. That type of chick has a set frame of mind and that's what she's attracted to.
The Dark King
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Most are gold digger but only some are honest about it. If you see me as a way to" help" you live a certain lifestyle then you don't love me you love the lifestyle simple as that. We all want comfortable surroundings but generally men don't factor women in as help to get there and there in lies the major difference. When your feelings are affected by my pockets then there isn't much between us.
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The Dark King
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Like I said most aren't honest about it.
I often here women say they can tell a lot about a man by what he does. For example an engineer is really smart or a doctor is dedicated and a good person since they want to help people. Funny how nurses nor mechanics get a woman's juices flowing the same way. The only real difference is social status and a 100 to 150k a year. Men aren't know for their actions or what kind of people they are but by their professions. At least as far as dating is concerned. Never heard a female friend describe their bf as" Derek the guy I love hanging out with" its more like" Derek the engineer"
I get why women do it just wish they'd be more honest because they are making a lot of thses young guys jaded.
This.
I'm offended by the suggestion that alot of women are golddiggers (no matter who makes the comment). To be sure, there are some out there. But this post speaks more accurately, imo. I know I would like a guy who has a job that I'm interested in, so when he wants to talk about his day (if he does), I can listen and make intelligent conversation with him.
I won't lie - if I met a man who had all the other qualities I look for in a guy and he was loaded, I sure wouldn't mind being spoiled a bit. I've never been and I probably wouldn't handle it well. But if money is all he has going for him? Naw. I want love and friendship and fun and sexual unity. As long as we can make a comfortable living together, he enjoys his job and it's one I'm interested in, I'm happy. For me, it's more about whether he is intelligent, educated and if he is savvy with what he does earn. (And yeah, if he was a nurse, that would be ok. I like medicine so I could talk to him about his career. A mechanic, not so much. I'm not really into cars.)
I don't know any women, personally, who insist on a man with alot of money. None of my friends, aquaintances, co-workers, family, etc. Not one.