Age differences between partners

XXX said:
I'm in my late 20's now. There's this white chick who's been putting the moves on me (well tbh I've been putting them on her and feeling real guilty about it).

Thing is, she's 19. Now I know a lot of folks say that age is just a number, but for some reason or other it sorta bothers me.

Problem is, she's great. I mean I've spent quite some time fooling around with women - but I never felt the same spark I do as with this one. She really does make me feel all warm and fuzzy. Not like any other girl has before.

I'd hate to be the guy in his 40's who's happy to date 30-yr olds, coz then the 10-year age gap would come back to haunt me. I mean, if I date 30 yr olds when I'm 40 - why the hell shouldn't I date a 19yr old when I'm still young myself? Especially given that this one is really special in a way that others are not.


I don't know people. What do you guys think?

You ever had a serious relationship with someone where there was a (possibly considerable) age-gap? If it's right should I just say F it and go for it?
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At least she's of legal age.
 
XXX said:
I'm in my late 20's now. There's this white chick who's been putting the moves on me (well tbh I've been putting them on her and feeling real guilty about it).

Thing is, she's 19. Now I know a lot of folks say that age is just a number, but for some reason or other it sorta bothers me.

Problem is, she's great. I mean I've spent quite some time fooling around with women - but I never felt the same spark I do as with this one. She really does make me feel all warm and fuzzy. Not like any other girl has before.

I'd hate to be the guy in his 40's who's happy to date 30-yr olds, coz then the 10-year age gap would come back to haunt me. I mean, if I date 30 yr olds when I'm 40 - why the hell shouldn't I date a 19yr old when I'm still young myself? Especially given that this one is really special in a way that others are not.


I don't know people. What do you guys think?
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You're in your late 20s?

Uhm... :-?


Try it out?

I've always liked younger ladies.

Although, I couldn't imagine dating a 19 yr old girl in my late 20s but, hey, you never know.

Not that I have experienced it but, I would imagine dating someone in their thirties while you're in your fourties is much different than dating someone in their late teens and you're in your late twenties.
 
age doesn't really matter to me, as long as she's legal.

sometimes i go forward, sometimes backward...it's all about who you connect with.

I usually ask for an age later.
 
As my friends jokingly say "If there's grass on the field, play ball". MUAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!
 
pettyofficerj said:
yeah there will be ball playing alright...

up in the Pen with Bubba
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irishchick said:
F it and go for it.

It really is all about the personality click and the physical chemistry.

If you have that, then that is all you need.

I recently started dating a guy who is (gasp) 20 years older than me. I've always gone for older men but never more than 10 years older, so this is a new one for me.

We're hitting it off really well, the sex is great, it's ALL great and we're happy. Knock on wood. It's possible that marriage could be in the cards. We're having a lot of fun but don't want to rush into anything.

Anyway, good luck to you... and truly, don't worry about what other people think. Your happiness is what counts most of all.
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Thx sweetie. I think I'm starting to realise that, finally.
 
FRESH said:
She's legal :smt096
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LOL. Thx - I think.

Your story really made me laugh - tough luck brother. Remember to ask for verifiable ID next time :D:p.


Nah don't worry, I'm pretty sure she's 19.


Though I'll probably go get a medical certificate now to verify it :D.
 
Los Angeles said:
You're in your late 20s?

Uhm... :-?


Try it out?

I've always liked younger ladies.

Although, I couldn't imagine dating a 19 yr old girl in my late 20s but, hey, you never know.

Not that I have experienced it but, I would imagine dating someone in their thirties while you're in your fourties is much different than dating someone in their late teens and you're in your late twenties.
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Yeah, this is kind of the reaction I had at first. But I'm starting to get over it.

Look, it seems (or can seem to me sometimes) so damn hard to find someone you truly have a REAL thing with... that to piss it away when I do find it for something like age just seems, well, retarded.

Heck, maybe I'm just really immature :D. But I'm also getting to the point where I think life's just too darn short to go worrying about shit like this, ya know? Specially since in absolute terms, we're both still quite young. I don't wanna be having any regrets many years later saying, "she sure was great, I was such a dumbass for letting her go for her frikkin age".

Ya feel me?
 
pettyofficerj said:
age doesn't really matter to me, as long as she's legal.

sometimes i go forward, sometimes backward...it's all about who you connect with.

I usually ask for an age later.
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Wise words, my man. Wise words.


Thanks for all the replies people.

You've helped me get over my junior mid-life crisis :smt088


:D:p
 
XXX said:
Yeah, this is kind of the reaction I had at first. But I'm starting to get over it.

Look, it seems (or can seem to me sometimes) so damn hard to find someone you truly have a REAL thing with... that to piss it away when I do find it for something like age just seems, well, retarded.

Heck, maybe I'm just really immature :D. But I'm also getting to the point where I think life's just too darn short to go worrying about shit like this, ya know? Specially since in absolute terms, we're both still quite young. I don't wanna be having any regrets many years later saying, "she sure was great, I was such a dumbass for letting her go for her frikkin age".

Ya feel me?
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Most guys that show interest in me are around your age (late 20's). I guess it's because I'm more mature than some other people my age. I don't think that kind of age gap is a problem at all. As long as you're both on the same wave length then go for it. :) You're right - life is too short. Don't let her get away over something as trivial as a number. I think it's normal to worry though.
 
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Go for it Bro. You only get a few chances to experience the things that will teach you what true love is and who you are. Be patient with yourself as you learn and grow into who you'll be and above all things make sure that both of you are enjoying one another.
 
Indigenous1 said:
Go for it Bro. You only get a few chances to experience the things that will teach you what true love is and who you are. Be patient with yourself as you learn and grow into who you'll be and above all things make sure that both of you are enjoying one another.
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Yeap!!

:smt045
 
Liquid Swords said:
Most guys that show interest in me are around your age (late 20's). I guess it's because I'm more mature than some other people my age. I don't think that kind of age gap is a problem at all. As long as you're both on the same wave length then go for it. :) You're right - life is too short. Don't let her get away over something as trivial as a number. I think it's normal to worry though.
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Thank you sweetie.

I'm lovin the support here guys. I think I'm over it a lot more. Time really does make these things buzz away.
 
Indigenous1 said:
Go for it Bro. You only get a few chances to experience the things that will teach you what true love is and who you are. Be patient with yourself as you learn and grow into who you'll be and above all things make sure that both of you are enjoying one another.
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Insightful and beautiful.


Thank you my brotha :).
 
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