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Are you a web junkie
http://mobile.nytimes.com/2014/01/20/opinion/chinas-web-junkies.html?referrer=

Compulsive Internet use has been categorized as a mental health issue in many countries, including the United States, but China was among the first to label “Internet addiction” a clinical disorder.

In this Op-Doc video, we show the inner workings of a rehabilitation center where Chinese teenagers are “deprogrammed.” The Internet Addiction Treatment Center, in Daxing, a suburb of Beijing, was established in 2004. It was one of the first of its kind – and there are now hundreds of treatment programs throughout China and South Korea.
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Do you go crazy if you havent been on the net?

Can u go a full day without tv or any electronic device ?
 
In this day and age, who isn'? The internet is the way of life now and there isn't no going back unless the Sun explodes.
 
agnosticlady said:
In this day and age, who isn'? The internet is the way of life now and there isn't no going back unless the Sun explodes.
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No doubt. They were saying on the news this morning that people are losing social skills cause they are on the net or in the home playing video games all the time
 
goodlove said:
No doubt. They were saying on the news this morning that people are losing social skills cause they are on the net or in the home playing video games all the time
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Do you really believe that? How does one gouge lack of social skills.... Sounds like your typical media sensationalism....
 
agnosticlady said:
Do you really believe that? How does one gouge lack of social skills.... Sounds like your typical media sensationalism....
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Uuuh. I can see it. Grown ass people can barely talk to each other properly.

Guys are scared to approach a woman at a store but quick to hit date sites.
 
goodlove said:
Uuuh. I can see it. Grown ass people can barely talk to each other properly.

Guys are scared to approach a woman at a store but quick to hit date sites.
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What exactly do you mean by "grown ass people can barely talk to each other properly"? That's a very broad statement.

Guys afraid of approaching women isn't a problem or anything new either....
 
goodlove said:
Uuuh. I can see it. Grown ass people can barely talk to each other properly.

Guys are scared to approach a woman at a store but quick to hit date sites.
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Grown people don't have an issue communicating. Ignorant people do. That's the difference. The Internet isnt to blame for the abundance for idiots, it just makes them more apparent. And I agree with the previous poster, men's discomfort with approaching women irl is far from new.
 
RaiderLL said:
Grown people don't have an issue communicating. Ignorant people do. That's the difference. The Internet isnt to blame for the abundance for idiots, it just makes them more apparent. And I agree with the previous poster, men's discomfort with approaching women irl is far from new.
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My thoughts as well...
 
RaiderLL said:
Grown people don't have an issue communicating. Ignorant people do. That's the difference. The Internet isnt to blame for the abundance for idiots, it just makes them more apparent. And I agree with the previous poster, men's discomfort with approaching women irl is far from new.
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Well stated.

Too many people can hide behind a computer but may not be able to build personal one on one relationships. Better stated not able to do it face to face.

Online dating should be supplementary.

Also kids arent going outside as much. You build socials playing with other kids playing outside.
 
goodlove said:
Well stated.

Too many people can hide behind a computer but may not be able to build personal one on one relationships. Better stated not able to do it face to face.

Online dating should be supplementary.

Also kids arent going outside as much. You build socials playing with other kids playing outside.
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Idk, online dating has brought together quite a few marriages in my circle of friends, fam and acquaintances. Seems to work for many! Allowing people who may otherwise never have met, to come together.

As for the children thing...that's on the parents. There are, unfortunately, too many people who take a back seat approach to parenting. Lack of engagement and true participation in our kids lives. So sad. I can appreciate working hard to give my kids everything I can, but it should never replace my actual existence in their lives. Children don't raise themselves, they need guidance and healthy examples to mirror. If mom/dad is on their tush all night watching tv, chances are junior's doing the same.
 
Oh i agree on both.

The web is a good supplement to dating but shouldbt be the only method. I just got one myself vut dudes need to work on their social skills.

You see woman in the parking lot thats when u need to break into that parking lot pimping.

"Hey gurl. Get with this playa from the himalayas"


RaiderLL said:
Idk, online dating has brought together quite a few marriages in my circle of friends, fam and acquaintances. Seems to work for many! Allowing people who may otherwise never have met, to come together.

As for the children thing...that's on the parents. There are, unfortunately, too many people who take a back seat approach to parenting. Lack of engagement and true participation in our kids lives. So sad. I can appreciate working hard to give my kids everything I can, but it should never replace my actual existence in their lives. Children don't raise themselves, they need guidance and healthy examples to mirror. If mom/dad is on their tush all night watching tv, chances are junior's doing the same.
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Oh the parent thing is spot on. Thats just lazy parenting.

Its ok for them to play video games but man come on.

RaiderLL said:
Idk, online dating has brought together quite a few marriages in my circle of friends, fam and acquaintances. Seems to work for many! Allowing people who may otherwise never have met, to come together.

As for the children thing...that's on the parents. There are, unfortunately, too many people who take a back seat approach to parenting. Lack of engagement and true participation in our kids lives. So sad. I can appreciate working hard to give my kids everything I can, but it should never replace my actual existence in their lives. Children don't raise themselves, they need guidance and healthy examples to mirror. If mom/dad is on their tush all night watching tv, chances are junior's doing the same.
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A cell phone,lap top,or a tablet is no substitute for a woman. They are just a stepping stone. The young must realize that if there was a natural disaster or a web disaster they would had to communicate face to face.
 
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