Aussies/in Australia. Introduce yourselves!

[karmacoma.]

lol...i think it's time you take a trip back down under as well mr coma

 

[wtarshi]

 

[minx]

well let's see if OZ is that soo '' Black Man Friendly '' ( i don't think so ) like these ladies say.
arriving in 2 weeks.

I will tell u the truth some will fall all over yr ass and others wont even notice yr there

 

[GQ Brotha]

it's a fast paced game, but it's not as great as it used to be when fights would break out every 10 minutes or so

LOL, to the Sin bin.

Used to see some matches on Fox Sports here in the U.S, now ESPN shows it once in a while.

 

[GQ Brotha]

Fabio,don't forget to take a lot of pix.

+1

 

[GQ Brotha]

I will tell u the truth some will fall all over yr ass and others wont even notice yr there

All a man can ask for minx

I often say, even if every woman on earth wanted me, its not like I could ever be with all of them.

You just want that 1 special woman in your life to share it with at the end of the day. 8)

 

[minx]

All a man can ask for minx

I often say, even if every woman on earth wanted me, its not like I could ever be with all of them.

You just want that 1 special woman in your life to share it with at the end of the day. 8)[/quote

Absolutely 100 % agreed !!

 

[Senna852]

I will tell u the truth some will fall all over yr ass and others wont even notice yr there

i can deal with that thank you! and i want to wrestle a crocodile

 

[Senna852]

Oh Fabio, there is no way I am going to let you turn into this... lol

LOL... ok it's in your hands

 

[Leksola]

Hey Fabio it depends what city you are visiting, as to what type of women you will find.

Sadly I think there are many women out here that don't do us proud. They fall over a man just because he's black and don't discriminate. Kind of sad. However if you looking for something fast then I guess it's to your advantage.

However you will also find some clubs and bars if you search a little that are just good music and a small friendly vibe.

They attract all types of people and connections just develop naturally rather than being a meat market. I was in the music kind of scene for awhile in my professional role but had the chance to connect across the board with clients. I found Melbourne has a very nice fraternity where you will find lots of lovely, beautiful and classy ladies in small bars with a nice black/white/latino/european mix.

That's just my take.

If you want something fast and dirty for the most part try Newcastle, and some trashier parts of the Gold Coast (sorry Minx!).

I'm sorry my fellow Aussie women, but we all know its true.

 

[Leksola]

I mean, you can find all types everywhere. I know we can't really generalise. But if we were to generalise see above

We travel alot as a couple, there are some places we go and my man will get asked 10 million times a night if someone can pull his hair (or they just do it anyway.. long dreadlocks). I let him take care of that himself but I'm sure many find it extremely annoying. It doesn't happen overseas.

Then again guys do that to my hair too for some reason. Maybe its an affliction we have.

 

[Leksola]

The fetishism of any race comes to a screeching halt when we realize there are good and bad in every group of people. It will always come back to the character, values and morals of the individual person, irrespective of their race or ethnicity. A good man or woman is a good man or woman because that is their makeup as an individual.

Yes, exactly. People may have a preference but going out and generalising with it is unwise. Especially when communities are small. Creates awkward moments very quickly! Good men and bad men come in all packages.

 

[APPIAH]

I hate to stereotype my own women but I'd say there are a few kinds.

I ended up on this site a very long time ago after experiencing a little bit of racial hysteria from a person about my relationship and was seeking some reassurance. Not sure why I cared at the time about some stranger's opinion, but anyway.

I never came on here to seek anything out.

In Oz I have to say that around the Universities (from studying and part time tutoring) there can be a bit of a strange and unhealthy situation that occurs where women just go for whoever 'cos he's a black guy. It's wrong and it sort of makes me feel sick. There are those men that will take advantage, of course.

The whole thing gets incestuous and weird, especially when girls are ignorant enough to believe there is not gossip in such a small community. I'm down for having fun sure but if you are out shaking your ass at whatever in a smallish place or the same clubs every night you seriously need your head checked. So there is a sleaze side where men who want something on the side can sure get it.

There is also another side. I think being Eastern european born I find similar values in some ways wiht an African man, strange but true. Then again I've been in my relationship for some time so maybe haven't played around enough to know for sure. I have also noticed in that group that these relationships/marriages seem to be fairly common between greek/eastern european/italian etc australians, provided their parents are ok with it, and can be long lasting.

I guess you can't really pick out anything specific, it's more where you go rather than who I'd say. Cities would be more common than country towns of course.

So you saying you been with an African man before (yesssss !!) um well thats good to know

 

[funkyspirit]

Welcome back FunkyS.

Welcome back

Thanks Soul and Minx *smiles*

well let's see if OZ is that soo '' Black Man Friendly '' ( i don't think so ) like these ladies say.
arriving in 2 weeks.

Hi Fabio. Two thoughts re a) interracial dating and b) the experience of racism in the Australian dating scene.

a) My perception as a woman who predominately dates African born men, is that although it might be a minority of women who date black men, you won't get negative vibes. Again, I speak from personal experience only (and skewed perspective it is but shh! *grins*), but it seems to me that interracial dating is a huge issue in the States and somewhat so in other countries, but it definitely doesn't feel like that here, at least to me. Certainly, we'll attract looks at times, but I think that's more about curiosity and the impact of a striking couple! I've never ever felt like there was a negative vibe towards us (individually or as a couple). My big disclaimer on this one is that I've never dated an African American, only African born Australians! (Which shall of course exempt me from any liability either implied or otherwise *grins cheekily*)

b) I think that of the pool of white women who date outside their race, many do so with curiosity and passion. I think there is a difference between being of "novelty value" (which may or may not feel demeaning, or conversely, satisfying, depending on your individual take on it) and a more lasting attraction. I imagine the majority of WW on this site experience the latter as opposed to the former (hence the saying, "once you go black, you never go back"!). Suffice to say, I am confident you will be approached on more than one occasion!

Argh, I've written an epic when I merely meant to comment briefly! *considers deleting post but refrains* Apologies all *blush*

 

[Leksola]

Agree with above. Being from melbourne you know what I mean about the difference between a really nice blended vibe of all kinds and just a sleazy one.

I'm not on "the market" these days but I drifted away from Aussie men because of this.

OI
OI

etc

 

[APPIAH]

I'm not saying anything too detailed about myself, not my style and would upset my guy!! In fact I better go delete those pics! I spent about 3 months a year in a country in southern africa with him and he's not a boer thats for sure

You don't always need to bang someone though to find out where your values sit, jeez! Just observations

Oh nooo not the ones in the show your pic thread leksola that pic has kept me centred today cuz im a bit hyperactive so those pics are my yoga so dont take it down pleeasse!

 

[GQ Brotha]

I mean, you can find all types everywhere. I know we can't really generalise. But if we were to generalise see above

We travel alot as a couple, there are some places we go and my man will get asked 10 million times a night if someone can pull his hair (or they just do it anyway.. long dreadlocks). I let him take care of that himself but I'm sure many find it extremely annoying. It doesn't happen overseas.

Then again guys do that to my hair too for some reason. Maybe its an affliction we have.

LOL, I can only imagine that getting really irritating, whilst you try to maintain a cheery and accommodating persona about it.

 

[GQ Brotha]

Thanks Soul and Minx *smiles*



Hi Fabio. Two thoughts re a) interracial dating and b) the experience of racism in the Australian dating scene.

a) My perception as a woman who predominately dates African born men, is that although it might be a minority of women who date black men, you won't get negative vibes. Again, I speak from personal experience only (and skewed perspective it is but shh! *grins*), but it seems to me that interracial dating is a huge issue in the States and somewhat so in other countries, but it definitely doesn't feel like that here, at least to me. Certainly, we'll attract looks at times, but I think that's more about curiosity and the impact of a striking couple! I've never ever felt like there was a negative vibe towards us (individually or as a couple). My big disclaimer on this one is that I've never dated an African American, only African born Australians! (Which shall of course exempt me from any liability either implied or otherwise *grins cheekily*)

b) I think that of the pool of white women who date outside their race, many do so with curiosity and passion. I think there is a difference between being of "novelty value" (which may or may not feel demeaning, or conversely, satisfying, depending on your individual take on it) and a more lasting attraction. I imagine the majority of WW on this site experience the latter as opposed to the former (hence the saying, "once you go black, you never go back"!). Suffice to say, I am confident you will be approached on more than one occasion!

Argh, I've written an epic when I merely meant to comment briefly! *considers deleting post but refrains* Apologies all *blush*

Very insightful funkyspirit. Nice to hear your perspective.

I've often said the most visibly powerful interracial coupling is a black man with a white woman, for obvious reasons.

I completely agree about the curiosity and passion. I remember when I went off to college and hung around white women, my personality just gelled easily with the women I spoke to. I never felt out of place, uncomfortable or like this experience isn't for me. It's just something I'm so at ease with.

 

[Senna852]

Hey Fabio it depends what city you are visiting, as to what type of women you will find.

Sadly I think there are many women out here that don't do us proud. They fall over a man just because he's black and don't discriminate. Kind of sad. However if you looking for something fast then I guess it's to your advantage.

However you will also find some clubs and bars if you search a little that are just good music and a small friendly vibe.

They attract all types of people and connections just develop naturally rather than being a meat market. I was in the music kind of scene for awhile in my professional role but had the chance to connect across the board with clients. I found Melbourne has a very nice fraternity where you will find lots of lovely, beautiful and classy ladies in small bars with a nice black/white/latino/european mix.

That's just my take.

If you want something fast and dirty for the most part try Newcastle, and some trashier parts of the Gold Coast (sorry Minx!).

I'm sorry my fellow Aussie women, but we all know its true.

Hi leskola, and thanks for talking about that with me.

actually i'm not going to visit OZ, i'm moving to brisbane!

Let's say that is funny to see how you guys describe the reception towards black guys in australia.
i 'm kind of '' can't believe '' that. in a good way.

to be honest im not looking for fast relationships, and whould be nice to know classy ladies for sure.

 

[LA]

If you want something fast and dirty for the most part try Newcastle, and some trashier parts of the Gold Coast (sorry Minx!).

I'm sorry my fellow Aussie women, but we all know its true.

Done.