Australian women & black men

Ok I’m not trying to say I don’t believe you guys but I’m just tired of being rejected by American women I do want to be approached not all of the time. I will approach women but I’ve never gotten approached by women in the US for some reason. I can tell you I dress nice I have a good fashion taste I am not really talk I’m about 5’10” so I’m not sure if that’s a major problem for me in Australia the girls may want me taller. I don’t have a thug look but I can say I don’t look my age I am in my early 30’s some people say I can pass for a 22 year old not sure if that would be an advantage for me or not. I still think I’m
below average/ugly. Since looks/personality Australian girls judge you on that like American girls I guess? I don’t want to share my picture to you just because I’m a very private person. But the Aussie girls I have posted online yes that’s the type I’m looking for. I like Aussie white girls that get naturally dark tan. I never see them pictured with black American men online when I google but I see Aussie women that are dark skin toned pictured with white men on google pictures. Can you tell me why I can’t find it online? What I’m saying the Aussie girls won’t just go for the chocolate right away you have the looks/appearance even if you dress nice but is below average?
 
JoeCool931 said:
Ok I’m not trying to say I don’t believe you guys but I’m just tired of being rejected by American women I do want to be approached not all of the time. I will approach women but I’ve never gotten approached by women in the US for some reason. I can tell you I dress nice I have a good fashion taste I am not really talk I’m about 5’10” so I’m not sure if that’s a major problem for me in Australia the girls may want me taller. I don’t have a thug look but I can say I don’t look my age I am in my early 30’s some people say I can pass for a 22 year old not sure if that would be an advantage for me or not. I still think I’m
below average/ugly. Since looks/personality Australian girls judge you on that like American girls I guess? I don’t want to share my picture to you just because I’m a very private person. But the Aussie girls I have posted online yes that’s the type I’m looking for. I like Aussie white girls that get naturally dark tan. I never see them pictured with black American men online when I google but I see Aussie women that are dark skin toned pictured with white men on google pictures. Can you tell me why I can’t find it online? What I’m saying the Aussie girls won’t just go for the chocolate right away you have the looks/appearance even if you dress nice but is below average?
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Online isn't real life dude. The computer and the internet are just tools. Not everyone uses them the same.

Were are looking for life outside of our own planet, should we look online for that too??
 
Well maybe I should go to Australia myself and see if the white women really love the chocolate even though I do once again have low self esteem and I don’t consider myself attractive I feel like I’m below average. I feel bad because I’m not tall that’s what Aussie girls are looking for is height in a black man? 5’10” may not be good enough. I have great fashion taste and I stay in shape so I don’t know what else I need to have the Aussie girls attracted to me again my looks are just ok. I keep going to online dating sites because I have had terrible luck with American women that’s why I try to chat with foreign women.
 
JoeCool931 said:
Well maybe I should go to Australia myself and see if the white women really love the chocolate even though I do once again have low self esteem and I don’t consider myself attractive I feel like I’m below average. I feel bad because I’m not tall that’s what Aussie girls are looking for is height in a black man? 5’10” may not be good enough. I have great fashion taste and I stay in shape so I don’t know what else I need to have the Aussie girls attracted to me again my looks are just ok. I keep going to online dating sites because I have had terrible luck with American women that’s why I try to chat with foreign women.
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Ok, lots of people have said and it might sound trite, but self confidence is important, in all aspects of life, including dating, I myself struggle at times with it too. However, people can pick up a confident vibe, and those that have themselves together, will sense confidence, and that can count more than anything; looks, height status or whatever else.

Dont believe everything you see online, Hollywood, porn etc, alot of it is all fakery bull@#$&.

Just work on what you do have or can bring to the table, dont worry so much about height, not all girls are obsessed with having a super tall dude, tall like a redwood tree.

5 ft 10in is fine, for instance if she wants 6ft, this to me is almost like splitting hairs, who is going to notice a two inch difference in among crowds unless she goes around with a tape measure, we are entitled to our preferences though, and I may have a bias, since I am not tall myself, so most people being taller than me, that height is plenty tall enough to me.

Just remember, looks are subjective, and a guy can seem like the best looking, pull in the women, but if he is an @#$&, his good looks are wasted, what is most important is if he treats a woman with respect and listens to her and values her.
 
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JoeCool931 said:
Well maybe I should go to Australia myself and see if the white women really love the chocolate even though I do once again have low self esteem and I don’t consider myself attractive I feel like I’m below average. I feel bad because I’m not tall that’s what Aussie girls are looking for is height in a black man? 5’10” may not be good enough. I have great fashion taste and I stay in shape so I don’t know what else I need to have the Aussie girls attracted to me again my looks are just ok. I keep going to online dating sites because I have had terrible luck with American women that’s why I try to chat with foreign women.
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Go dude or just travel outside of the US. But like others said it's confidence and also I hate online dating which is big in the US. I don't personally do well online. Online you can't see the person's personality either.

Detachment from outcome is big. Women can smell desperation or "thirst" from miles away lol. You'll do fine and let me know your results.
 
missshyness said:
Ok, lots of people have said and it might sound trite, but self confidence is important, in all aspects of life, including dating, I myself struggle at times with it too. However, people can pick up a confident vibe, and those that have themselves together, will sense confidence, and that can count more than anything; looks, height status or whatever else.

Dont believe everything you see online, Hollywood, porn etc, alot of it is all fakery bull@#$&.

Just work on what you do have or can bring to the table, dont worry so much about height, not all girls are obsessed with having a super tall dude, tall like a redwood tree.

5 ft 10in is fine, for instance if she wants 6ft, this to me is almost like splitting hairs, who is going to notice a two inch difference in among crowds unless she goes around with a tape measure, we are entitled to our preferences though, and I may have a bias, since I am not tall myself, so most people being taller than me, that height is plenty tall enough to me.

Just remember, looks are subjective, and a guy can seem like the best looking, pull in the women, but if he is an @#$&, his good looks are wasted, what is most important is if he treats a woman with respect and listens to her and values her.
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Height is of importance to Aussie women, they are taller in general than they're American counterparts.

Saw a Aussie chick last year who was 6'1" and rocked heels. I'm 6ft but she gave me a pass cuz I'm a handsome black American.

Being in shape is important too, Aussies are serious about that gym life.
 
Ok I’m not asking for proof that it’s absolutely true but when I look up black men with Australian women on google I can’t find anything for some reason.
 
JoeCool931 said:
Can you at least answer me this what do you think about the Aussie women I posted on the forum?
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This is hands down the weirdest question You have asked so far. I’m kind of getting some sort of cuckold vibe or something from you. If that is what you are looking for, this isn’t the forum for it buddy.
 
meowkittenmeow said:
This is hands down the weirdest question You have asked so far. I’m kind of getting some sort of cuckold vibe or something from you. If that is what you are looking for, this isn’t the forum for it buddy.
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Sounds about right. I couldn't put my finger on it.
 
4north1side2 said:
Height is of importance to Aussie women, they are taller in general than they're American counterparts.

Saw a Aussie chick last year who was 6'1" and rocked heels. I'm 6ft but she gave me a pass cuz I'm a handsome black American.

Being in shape is important too, Aussies are serious about that gym life.
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Ok, but that was your experience and it must not make it absolutely universal across the whole nation of Australia, I am sure not every single woman there is 6ft or taller, but I can believe that there must be many that are taller than the average American.

Anyhow, like I said, before some here try to twist my main message to the guy, which is what I am sensing here, and I was just trying to reassure the fellow using myself as an example that not every woman he meets will be super tall and require him to be.

So before all get back on me for this, I do understand this is discussing women in Australia and I have not been there myself, so I guess I cant speak with the same authority on this as some in this thread.

I think I must bow out here, before I begin to clash with some in this thread, I did debate responding, so my bad for that.

and it is looking like the guy I just responded to was a little off as well, so my response was wasted anyways and will fall on deaf ears.

By folks.
 
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missshyness said:
Ok, but that was your experience and it must not make it absolutely universal across the whole nation of Australia, I am sure not every single woman there is 6ft or taller, but I can believe that there must be many that are taller than the average American.

Anyhow, like I said, before some here try to twist my main message to the guy, which is what I am sensing here, and I was just trying to reassure the fellow using myself as an example that not every woman he meets will be super tall and require him to be.

So before all get back on me for this, I do understand this is discussing women in Australia and I have not been there myself, so I guess I cant speak with the same authority on this as some in this thread.

I think I must bow out here, before I begin to clash with some in this thread, I did debate responding, so my bad for that.

and it is looking like the guy I just responded to was a little off as well, so my response was wasted anyways and will fall on deaf ears.

By folks.
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No doubt... Nothing to get riled up over...

Dude is 5'10" with shitty self esteem and is socially akward looking for love from Australian models, he has a better chance staying put in America playing the lottery.
 
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