Australian women & black men

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I have not posted here in awhile I was just curious do brothas in America have a better chance of getting a white Australian woman down under compared to getting a white woman in America? I am asking because I have had a very hard time on finding love here in the US. I don’t discriminate I am open to dating all races ethnic backgrounds. Do you have to look like a black celebrity to pull off a really beautiful looking Australian woman? My type is curvy athletic at least 5’3”-6’1 and a nice natural dark tan to her when she’s out in the sun just a huge turn on. I don’t know if you can find a thick nicely built Aussie white woman or even any Aussie Asian women that are open to dating American brothas. I’ve never been to Australia before so I don’t know what type of attention I’ll receive when I go over there. I don’t if I have to be 10 exactly in terms of my appearance to go over there to get an attractive nice looking Aussie woman. I posted my picture on a forum that normally talks about black brothas and foreign women. Most of the brothas on that forum told me that I look pretty bad. And I can’t attract any women from other races or ethnicities. So that made me feel pretty bad. I am not sure what I need to do to make my looks appearance any better. I have yet to have a woman say that I am handsome or cute. So I feel that is a pretty big reason why I can’t find anyone here in America to be quite honest. I don’t know if Australia dating scene is the same as the US for brothas dating interracially. I guess I would have to find out. I have been told on this forum app I am on that I look like too nice of a guy. Which angers me and frustrates me because I know nice guys finish last. Good girls tend to like the bad guys. So I feel like I need to make myself into a bad guy to get a good girl. I am very frustrated sorry for my rant excuse me.
 
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I have not posted here in awhile I was just curious do brothas in America have a better chance of getting a white Australian woman down under compared to getting a white woman in America? I am asking because I have had a very hard time on finding love here in the US. I don’t discriminate I am open to dating all races ethnic backgrounds. Do you have to look like a black celebrity to pull off a really beautiful looking Australian woman? My type is curvy athletic at least 5’3”-6’1 and a nice natural dark tan to her when she’s out in the sun just a huge turn on. I don’t know if you can find a thick nicely built Aussie white woman or even any Aussie Asian women that are open to dating American brothas. I’ve never been to Australia before so I don’t know what type of attention I’ll receive when I go over there. I don’t if I have to be 10 exactly in terms of my appearance to go over there to get an attractive nice looking Aussie woman. I posted my picture on a forum that normally talks about black brothas and foreign women. Most of the brothas on that forum told me that I look pretty bad. And I can’t attract any women from other races or ethnicities. So that made me feel pretty bad. I am not sure what I need to do to make my looks appearance any better. I have yet to have a woman say that I am handsome or cute. So I feel that is a pretty big reason why I can’t find anyone here in America to be quite honest. I don’t know if Australia dating scene is the same as the US for brothas dating interracially. I guess I would have to find out. I have been told on this forum app I am on that I look like too nice of a guy. Which angers me and frustrates me because I know nice guys finish last. Good girls tend to like the bad guys. So I feel like I need to make myself into a bad guy to get a good girl. I am very frustrated sorry for my rant excuse me.
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I honestly couldn't tell you what the dating scene is like in Australia these days, especially since I'm not in it myself lol, most of my close friends are married kidded up.

I do have a close friend who's dating an American dude. Flights from Australia to LA are surprisingly cheap, around $1,000 return, which is actually crazy considering you can't even fly return interstate that cheap. My friend flies out a couple of times a year.

I do remember back in the day, whenever the American sailors came to Brisbane, women would flock to the city lol. It was always an interesting sight to see!

From what I've seen, American men definitely have an appeal here. And no, you absolutely don't need to look like a rapper, celebrity or model to attract a beautiful Australian woman. You do, however, need to have your shit together lol because out here women basically have to play the role of a man and woman and the women are very self reliant due to the low quality of men here.

I also think the dating landscape has shifted quite a bit, period. A lot of Australian women are underwhelmed by the local dating pool here, so being an American could actually work in your favour :). You'd certainly bring something different to the table which Australian's can appreciate.

I used to think American women were so lucky, being surrounded by so much diversity and so many beautiful Black men!! I genuinely couldn't understand how anyone could struggle to find someone over there lol. But I guess the grass always looks greener from the other side!

As for where you'd have the most luck, I'd probably suggest somewhere coastal if you're limiting yourself to a body type, the Gold Coast or Sunshine Coast in Queensland. There's a beach and fitness culture in those areas, so you might find more women who fit the physical type you're attracted to. Sydney and Melbourne would probably offer a more diverse dating pool, somewhat like New York in terms of the mix of people and cultures.

That said, if you're limiting yourself to a very specific body type or appearance, you might be narrowing your options before you've even given yourself a chance...especially out here.

You don't need to turn yourself into a bad guy to attract a good woman :). There's a massive difference between being a genuinely nice man and being someone who lacks confidence or boundaries. You can be kind, respectful and still have a strong personality.

Australians are generally pretty friendly, laid-back people and I think Americans tend to get a warm reception here, at least my American ex did lol. The biggest hurdle is probably the flight itself because, my God, it's longggg lol. Although I believe there are more direct flight options on the way, which might encourage more Americans to visit, fingers crossed :)

Ultimately, I wouldn't come here with the mindset that Australian women are necessarily easier to attract than American women. I'd come for the experience, enjoy the country, meet people naturally and see what happens. You might be pleasantly surprised!

And for what it's worth, you certainly don't need to be a 10/10 to find a beautiful woman who genuinely likes you.

Come out and see Australia for yourself! You never know who you might meet. I have high hopes for you
 
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I honestly couldn't tell you what the dating scene is like in Australia these days, especially since I'm not in it myself lol, most of my close friends are married kidded up.

I do have a close friend who's dating an American dude. Flights from Australia to LA are surprisingly cheap, around $1,000 return, which is actually crazy considering you can't even fly return interstate that cheap. My friend flies out a couple of times a year.

I do remember back in the day, whenever the American sailors came to Brisbane, women would flock to the city lol. It was always an interesting sight to see!

From what I've seen, American men definitely have an appeal here. And no, you absolutely don't need to look like a rapper, celebrity or model to attract a beautiful Australian woman. You do, however, need to have your shit together lol because out here women basically have to play the role of a man and woman and the women are very self reliant due to the low quality of men here.

I also think the dating landscape has shifted quite a bit, period. A lot of Australian women are underwhelmed by the local dating pool here, so being an American could actually work in your favour :). You'd certainly bring something different to the table which Australian's can appreciate.

I used to think American women were so lucky, being surrounded by so much diversity and so many beautiful Black men!! I genuinely couldn't understand how anyone could struggle to find someone over there lol. But I guess the grass always looks greener from the other side!

As for where you'd have the most luck, I'd probably suggest somewhere coastal if you're limiting yourself to a body type, the Gold Coast or Sunshine Coast in Queensland. There's a beach and fitness culture in those areas, so you might find more women who fit the physical type you're attracted to. Sydney and Melbourne would probably offer a more diverse dating pool, somewhat like New York in terms of the mix of people and cultures.

That said, if you're limiting yourself to a very specific body type or appearance, you might be narrowing your options before you've even given yourself a chance...especially out here.

You don't need to turn yourself into a bad guy to attract a good woman :). There's a massive difference between being a genuinely nice man and being someone who lacks confidence or boundaries. You can be kind, respectful and still have a strong personality.

Australians are generally pretty friendly, laid-back people and I think Americans tend to get a warm reception here, at least my American ex did lol. The biggest hurdle is probably the flight itself because, my God, it's longggg lol. Although I believe there are more direct flight options on the way, which might encourage more Americans to visit, fingers crossed :)

Ultimately, I wouldn't come here with the mindset that Australian women are necessarily easier to attract than American women. I'd come for the experience, enjoy the country, meet people naturally and see what happens. You might be pleasantly surprised!

And for what it's worth, you certainly don't need to be a 10/10 to find a beautiful woman who genuinely likes you.

Come out and see Australia for yourself! You never know who you might meet. I have high hopes for you
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Thank you for the kind words I really appreciate it. I never dated an Australian woman before. I have never been to Australia. When I was a lot younger I never even knew Australian women were into black men. It’s good to know that I can find a woman who is beautiful in the land down under without having 10/10 looks. The personality also counts of course I forgot to say. A pretty woman can be mean inside and I don’t want that so I have to be careful. Are their plenty of women though in Australia that don’t drink or smoke? I am not into that type of stuff. It’s just not for me. I look younger than I look too so I don’t if that’s a huge turn off for women in Australia or not. That goes for any woman no matter what country they are from. Dating in the US is just hard I just happen to be attracting women I am not attracted to and once again that’s very frustrating. You know the saying you are what you attract. Well that’s how I certainly feel. The dating apps I have gotten on here in the US are no good. Perhaps I should just give up on the online dating apps. I might have said this before but I have been trying and trying for many years and it’s just not working. I know meeting a woman in person is a lot easier. But I know it takes longer. I am sort of desperate and I know that can be a bad thing.
 
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