Black men bantering and women on the street! Bad approach.

Drink 40oz on the porch? You watched "Dont be a Menace..." too much......

Besides, I bet you this is not your first profile on here, you sound suspiciously the same as a recent person that we got rid of a while back. It didnt end too well....

 

JennyArt?

 

Wanna throw a "pinky swear" after that? Christ, I haven't head anyone say promise after some shit since middle school.

Pshhh...

 

FWIW, I don't think the OP is a troll.

I've been to Daytona Beach before on spring break and when we roll 10 deep checking out females, young BM run off as many women as they attract because of their approach.

Of course it's not all of us, but you're in denial if you don't believe some BM come on to women waaaayyyy too strong when approaching a female in public.
'Yo shorty lemme holla 'atcha', 'Girl let's do this',etc.
I sit back and just wonder how many women they pull with that cattle call BS. It must work for some dudes, I guess. Just isn't my style.

I think it's a worthwhile discussion to talk about how some dudes APPROACH women, and how that first initial contact kills any future opportunity with some females.

You can't roll up on a female like she's a prostitute acting like you wanna know her hourly rate.

It's funny that if someone makes the slightest generalization about BM, they are suspect.:smt013

Troll or real woman, IMO she's far from making shit up.

If you wanna get a female's phone number, DON'T roll up on her with a posse 5+ deep, or drop from jump how phat her tittays/azz are.lol

 

he he he NICE!

 

lol drink a 40 on the porch. Oh lawd. You are almost as bad as the foolish Negro who think all white women are promiscuous. Plus, who knew a woman drinking a 40 on the porch was something that a mad wanted?

 

THANKYOU!

That's exactly what I was talking about! I've always found BM to be intriguing but in my EXPERIENCE the encounters I've had have almost always been uncomfortable as described above and in my original post. I know that not all black guys are like this.. I KNOW it's a stereotype... I KNOW because I'm dating a black guy who is the most amazing person i've ever met!

My thread was to hear your guys insight on the guys on the corner! What is this ABOUT?! I also wanted to know your thoughts on this stereotype being perpetuated by BM themselves... because it is. Real talk.


Also. About the "troll" thing. You guys are bizarre.

Since I've browsed around this forum I've seen NOTHING but generalizations about black men and women. Look at the NAME of the website! I don't think i've said anything that outrageous.

This darkknight guy reminds me of some LARP nerd "knight" guarding his castle of coolness... aka this stupid forum. QUIT BEING SO DEFENSIVE ABOUT YOUR ONLINE COMMUNITY YOU WEIRDOS! Im like 4 months into a relationship with a black guy who I have found to be VERY different from me culturally. Thats why I'm on this forum.. to bullshit, and ask questions, and learn shit... because FRANKLY I'm pretty interested.

In defense of my 40ounce reference that you all decided to run wild with.. its not like I'm some malt liquor guzzling hag. I'm young, I party, I guess i'm a little bit of a tom boy in ways, say things like "word" (which is apparently only used by men) but I'm cute and fun and NOT A TROLL. Chill the fuck out.

I come in peace.

 

Psshhh, this mufucka right here.

 

THATS WHAT I THOUGHT!

Quit being a hater. Please? :grin:

 

It's ignorant, but some BM pull women like that.
I usually see it more in groups, but I would say it's a type of BM who does this, sort of a 'Black thing' indirectly but not really.

Sort of like saying organized crime is sort of an Italian thing.

You need to upgrade your chill spots!

 

SA how you been girl. Haven't seen you in awhile good to see you're still stalking me

 

Yeah. Like I said in another thread, if not a troll going out of your way to prove you're not one by acting like one = Troll.

 

Its fun being a hater.

 

I don't hang out with black men so this doesn't make any sense. Most of my friends are men yes... or BOYS rather. White boys. I get nothing but respect from them. It's when I'm alone walking to the corner mart, minding my own business, that I get these advances from BM. And it has nothing to do with the way I present myself because the incident described in my original post I really didn't look my best seein as how I was only goin to the market.

 

Question: If you are currently dating a Black man (and since you think this forum is stupid and everyone here weirdos) why don't you feel comfortable asking him the questions you are asking on this site of total strangers? Just saying..

 

Why are ANY of of us on this forum? I'm willing to be that boredom is the biggest culprit (although for many people seeking online communities it's out of loneliness and the hopes of just finally having somewhere to belong, lol).

One reason I wouldn't talk to my man about this topic is because I doubt he wants to hear about me getting cat called on the street. Seems disrespectful to discuss. Another reason I asked an online FORUM about this topic was to hear a variety of peoples perspectives and insights.. not just one.

Anyway, I don't think the forum is "stupid" at all. I said that, yes, but I think it has the potential for a lot of stereotype smashing and interesting conversations. I have yet to find that people really wanna talk about stuff, especially the men, and instead just want for this to be a BLACK MEN/WHITE WOMEN praise forum. Is that the intent?

Differences in culture and opinion are what makes life AND interracial dating interesting. Why is everyone so defensive?

 

Since you've already got your mind made up it seems about what this site is about and what goes on here and why it is people are here on this forum your reasons for wanting to still post here are what exactly since you suggest no one is providing you with the information you seem interested in getting?

 

Damn sherlock, you got it all wrong. I'm from washington state and went to private school growing up. I'm not from the "hood". I live in portland oregon now, I have 5 male roommates, a mini skate ramp in my living room, punk rock blasting at all hours, and all my buddies love me cause I can hang. I might not be the CLASSIEST broad on this forum but I can live with that.

My boyfriend doesn't care that I hang out with these cats cause he knows that I'm down for him and that there's no competition. I'm not into punk rock white boys. They're dumb.

I'm young, wild, free, and have plenty of time to mellow out and become a mans minion. Are you in the habit of controlling who your woman spends her time with? Thats odd. How about this? I think you're the troll. I think you're a WOMAN... cause you sound like a bitch.

xoxo.

 

again. boredom.

 

And that is why you can't (and probably won't) find any answers to any questions you may have and seek here. You don't really care. You're just here because . And it shows. So why should anyone here go out of their way and take you serious and answer questions or engage in serious discussion with you?