Black Men: Yall ever think a WW you talk to will NOT be into you...

blacknerd33 said:
i never dated a ww before im attracted to them but im nervous
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You need to retrofit your mind bruh. You will be rejected, you will get evil looks, maybe worse, but you have to go after what YOU WANT in this life. Seek and ye shall find. Nowhere is this truer for men than with women.
 
Av8rdrew said:
You need to retrofit your mind bruh. You will be rejected, you will get evil looks, maybe worse, but you have to go after what YOU WANT in this life. Seek and ye shall find. Nowhere is this truer for men than with women.
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I've had a few who flat out said they didn't date bm

Doesn't really matter in the long run tho
 
pettyofficerj said:
I've had a few who flat out said they didn't date bm
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That's what grinds my gears. If you don't like BM then ok, you don't have to wear it like a hat though. Some chicks out here take any friendly gesture as a BM trying to get in those panties, first thing they always say is how disgusting BM are to them. A bunch of Paris Hiltons I tell you.
 
Resurrected Fear said:
That's what grinds my gears. If you don't like BM then ok, you don't have to wear it like a hat though. Some chicks out here take any friendly gesture as a BM trying to get in those panties, first thing they always say is how disgusting BM are to them. A bunch of Paris Hiltons I tell you.
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Wouldn't be disgusting if it were Will Smith hitting on them
 
The Dark King said:
Wouldn't be disgusting if it were Will Smith hitting on them
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exactly

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Resurrected Fear said:
That's what grinds my gears. If you don't like BM then ok, you don't have to wear it like a hat though. Some chicks out here take any friendly gesture as a BM trying to get in those panties, first thing they always say is how disgusting BM are to them. A bunch of Paris Hiltons I tell you.
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I have a Mexican friend who says "blah blah, I only date white boys". Funny enough her ex (she had kids with) is Mexican also. I think something really bad happened to a point where she has to proclaim her preference to everyone.

Not just me who noticed it, but a few of my other colleagues.
 
Resurrected Fear said:
That's what grinds my gears. If you don't like BM then ok, you don't have to wear it like a hat though. Some chicks out here take any friendly gesture as a BM trying to get in those panties, first thing they always say is how disgusting BM are to them. A bunch of Paris Hiltons I tell you.
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Where are you from? I think the region does factor in. I work with prim n' proper ginger who is ALWAYS complimenting me on something. She's married, too! She makes me feel awkward too because she glances at my crotch whenever I step over to her cubicle. For most men, it isn't awkward, but for the brothas who work in corporate America, you think.."here we go again."
 
intermilan09 said:
Where are you from? I think the region does factor in. I work with prim n' proper ginger who is ALWAYS complimenting me on something. She's married, too! She makes me feel awkward too because she glances at my crotch whenever I step over to her cubicle. For most men, it isn't awkward, but for the brothas who work in corporate America, you think.."here we go again."
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Point me her direction then. :mrgreen:
 
intermilan09 said:
Where are you from? I think the region does factor in. I work with prim n' proper ginger who is ALWAYS complimenting me on something. She's married, too! She makes me feel awkward too because she glances at my crotch whenever I step over to her cubicle. For most men, it isn't awkward, but for the brothas who work in corporate America, you think.."here we go again."
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I recall a tragic, but true story about a black man working his way up the ladder for a major corporation. He was doing very well. He was a friendly, happy-go-lucky sort that everyone liked and respected on and off the job. He was dating a white woman who happened to be a single mother of two. She would sometimes pick him up from work. What we didn't know was that she was seperated from her husband. One guy I worked with advised that he leave this woman alone. But, the guy simply said that he was in love with her. Well, a couple of months go by and suddenly, we heard some news about an incident involving a gun. There was a confrontation at the man's girlfriend's home. Her husband came in for a visit and the husband met his wife's boyfriend. Both men were strong. The husband was a wrestler from Russia. The black exec was armed with a 9mm pistol, which he shot the man as he was coming for him out of self defense. The husband was shot in the legs. The black exec was arrested. He ended up being fired from the corporation. Talk about a reversal of fortune.
 
Cannondale said:
What up, Bruh. The best way to fight this mentality is to change your mindset and thought process. Instead of ASKING yourself "am I her type??," TELL yourself "I have qualities that women find attractive."

Mind you, this is NOT telling you to think you're the greatest man in the world, you're better than everybody, or that ALL women should like you. Just the opposite actually.

In actuality, there are many women who just won't like you for whatever reason, and dwelling on this fact of life is a waste of time. Instead, work on the qualities that women of all races and economic backgrounds look for in a mate:

Sense of humor;
Financial Stability;
Good listener;
Physical attractiveness;
Self confidence (not conceit);
Independent;
Etc.

Ask any woman and she'll tell you she likes many things on this list when looking for a man. If you have some/many of these qualities then you won't have to worry if you're their type. If anything, she'll start to wonder if she's YOUR type...
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Truth. I so need to esteem this more in my day to day.
 
Gorath said:
I recall a tragic, but true story about a black man working his way up the ladder for a major corporation. He was doing very well. He was a friendly, happy-go-lucky sort that everyone liked and respected on and off the job. He was dating a white woman who happened to be a single mother of two. She would sometimes pick him up from work. What we didn't know was that she was seperated from her husband. One guy I worked with advised that he leave this woman alone. But, the guy simply said that he was in love with her. Well, a couple of months go by and suddenly, we heard some news about an incident involving a gun. There was a confrontation at the man's girlfriend's home. Her husband came in for a visit and the husband met his wife's boyfriend. Both men were strong. The husband was a wrestler from Russia. The black exec was armed with a 9mm pistol, which he shot the man as he was coming for him out of self defense. The husband was shot in the legs. The black exec was arrested. He ended up being fired from the corporation. Talk about a reversal of fortune.
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1. never mess with a married woman

2. dont get your romance where you get your finance
 
goodlove said:
1. never mess with a married woman

2. dont get your romance where you get your finance
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The late, great Rudy Ray Moore once said in the film Petey Wheatstraw: The Devil's Son-In-Law, "Romance without finance is a damned nuisance."

It was a shocking event. Some people like the thrill. In his perspective, he was viewed as the woman's hero and I guess he indulged her regardless of the risks.
 
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