Black women who interracial date?

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vanilla2chai said:
What the hell does this have anything to do with black women who date white men!

And who the hell cares anyway! Date who makes you happy.

Again....live and let live people
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Porcelain Snowbird and her predecessor Lexington's sole job is to troll the net for any news of perceived wrongdoing against innocent, loving BW/WM couples especially if the dreaded, horrible Black Male is the aggressor. Conversely if anything negative is in the news about a BM/WW couple, she's equally on the case.
 
vanilla2chai said:
What the hell does this have anything to do with black women who date white men!
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She feels bad about the true things we say about black chicks, so she wants to call up the "niggers are all criminals" thing, a tactic of nazi dullards the internet over for decades now... I surprised she didn't start spouting "statistics" about blacks. that's the more typical route.

And that "loutish" insult really got to me... I'm surprised she didn't really let loose and call me a "rascal" or a "dastardly scoundrel". :smt081

Anyway, just to float a few general differences between bw/wm dating and bm/ww dating:

1. Bm/ww just want to do their thing. Bw/wm want everyone to care about what they're doing, and mount all kinds of stupid antics toward that end.

2. WW don't like bm who resent the ways of today's black woman. ("I don't want a guy who wants me because he doesn't like black women.") Wm, on the other hand, LOVE black females who are bigots against black men.

3. BM for the most part don't tolerate bigotry among ww against bw. BW on the other hand lay down with guys like mark furman, & (what's his name?) the guy who sodomized louima, and other bigots against black men. Robin is howard sterns biggest fan, and laughs heartily at his anti-black barbs..

4. Society largely tolerates any choice wm make, including black women. Soceity attacks any choice bm make, especially if it's white women.

5. Relatedly, white men who prefer nonwhite women are deemed "progessive" and applauded. black men who prefer nonblack women "have low self-esteem" and "self-hate" and are derided.

Any others? Let's hear them!
 
bushdweller said:
1. Bm/ww just want to do their thing. Bw/wm want everyone to care about what they're doing, and mount all kinds of stupid antics toward that end.

2. WW don't like bm who resent the ways of today's black woman. ("I don't want a guy who wants me because he doesn't like black women.") Wm, on the other hand, LOVE black females who are bigots against black men.

3. BM for the most part don't tolerate bigotry among ww against bw. BW on the other hand lay down with guys like mark furman, & (what's his name?) the guy who sodomized louima, and other bigots against black men. Robin is howard sterns biggest fan, and laughs heartily at his anti-black barbs..

4. Society largely tolerates any choice wm make, including black women. Soceity attacks any choice bm make, especially if it's white women.

5. Relatedly, white men who prefer nonwhite women are deemed "progessive" and applauded. black men who prefer nonblack women "have low self-esteem" and "self-hate" and are derided.

Any others? Let's hear them!
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Can't say I completely agree or completely disagree with this. I do share a lot of your observations.
 
Robin is howard sterns biggest fan, and laughs heartily at his anti-black barbs..


You're right about this. I've heard his show recently, and some of his WM guests such as Gilbert Godfried(sp?) and the other co-host Artie Lang are always use the N word and make bad comments towards black men. Robin never says a word to challenge them. She's as Riley Martin would say is a ".bojangled uncle tom"
 
Yeah, how dare Howard Stern or other white comedians make black jokes! It's not like you ever hear black comedians joke about white people. If I saw black comedians start every comedy show with 'Hey, look at all the white people in the crowd Today' and continue opening their show with white jokes, that would be one thing. But, that never happens.

It's comedy people, Howard Stern and Gilbert Gottfried make jokes about white people and especially their own Jewish heritage just as much, if not more than they make jokes toward black people. Choose your battles wisely when it comes to race issues. If you nitpick everything, it takes a lot of the impact off the true issues.
 
bushdweller said:
She feels bad about the true things we say about black chicks, so she wants to call up the "niggers are all criminals" thing, a tactic of nazi dullards the internet over for decades now... I surprised she didn't start spouting "statistics" about blacks. that's the more typical route.

And that "loutish" insult really got to me... I'm surprised she didn't really let loose and call me a "rascal" or a "dastardly scoundrel". :smt081

Anyway, just to float a few general differences between bw/wm dating and bm/ww dating:

1. Bm/ww just want to do their thing. Bw/wm want everyone to care about what they're doing, and mount all kinds of stupid antics toward that end.

2. WW don't like bm who resent the ways of today's black woman. ("I don't want a guy who wants me because he doesn't like black women.") Wm, on the other hand, LOVE black females who are bigots against black men.

3. BM for the most part don't tolerate bigotry among ww against bw. BW on the other hand lay down with guys like mark furman, & (what's his name?) the guy who sodomized louima, and other bigots against black men. Robin is howard sterns biggest fan, and laughs heartily at his anti-black barbs..

4. Society largely tolerates any choice wm make, including black women. Soceity attacks any choice bm make, especially if it's white women.

5. Relatedly, white men who prefer nonwhite women are deemed "progessive" and applauded. black men who prefer nonblack women "have low self-esteem" and "self-hate" and are derided.

Any others? Let's hear them!
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I for one am a great fan of dastardly scoundrels!
 
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okey dokey, here comes the opinion from a white guy who did and do interracial.

Well first, fyi black women are just as feminine and beautyfull as white women, and perhaps even more.
I dont understand why somebody says bw are not so good looking...said by whom? I know some Bw that just takes the breath out of you only by their beauty and most wm dont even get close. So IMO the tale that wm are more feminine and beautyfull than bw is a crock. Plain and simple.

Second I find it quite amusing that some people advertize interracial dating and then they snob wm/bw or viceversa....that is called hypocrisy, and the people who does that probably are not serious on they'r interracial dream.

Third I date whoever I want to date, and I dont give a damn what other people thinks. It's MY life, and MY happyness is MY own buisness. :drinkers:

ciao
 
jaisee said:
Yeah, how dare Howard Stern or other white comedians make black jokes! It's not like you ever hear black comedians joke about white people. If I saw black comedians start every comedy show with 'Hey, look at all the white people in the crowd Today' and continue opening their show with white jokes, that would be one thing. But, that never happens.

It's comedy people, Howard Stern and Gilbert Gottfried make jokes about white people and especially their own Jewish heritage just as much, if not more than they make jokes toward black people. Choose your battles wisely when it comes to race issues. If you nitpick everything, it takes a lot of the impact off the true issues.
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So true. Killing our credibility over stupid $hit dulls the blade. When a legitimate battle comes around the argument has worn into impotence.
 
bushdweller said:
She feels bad about the true things we say about black chicks, so she wants to call up the "niggers are all criminals" thing, a tactic of nazi dullards the internet over for decades now... I surprised she didn't start spouting "statistics" about blacks. that's the more typical route.

And that "loutish" insult really got to me... I'm surprised she didn't really let loose and call me a "rascal" or a "dastardly scoundrel". :smt081

Anyway, just to float a few general differences between bw/wm dating and bm/ww dating:

1. Bm/ww just want to do their thing. Bw/wm want everyone to care about what they're doing, and mount all kinds of stupid antics toward that end.

2. WW don't like bm who resent the ways of today's black woman. ("I don't want a guy who wants me because he doesn't like black women.") Wm, on the other hand, LOVE black females who are bigots against black men.

3. BM for the most part don't tolerate bigotry among ww against bw. BW on the other hand lay down with guys like mark furman, & (what's his name?) the guy who sodomized louima, and other bigots against black men. Robin is howard sterns biggest fan, and laughs heartily at his anti-black barbs..

4. Society largely tolerates any choice wm make, including black women. Soceity attacks any choice bm make, especially if it's white women.

5. Relatedly, white men who prefer nonwhite women are deemed "progessive" and applauded. black men who prefer nonblack women "have low self-esteem" and "self-hate" and are derided.

Any others? Let's hear them!
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Watchin it fly out the ballpark....Damn!
 
jaisee said:
Yeah, how dare Howard Stern or other white comedians make black jokes! It's not like you ever hear black comedians joke about white people. If I saw black comedians start every comedy show with 'Hey, look at all the white people in the crowd Today' and continue opening their show with white jokes, that would be one thing. But, that never happens.

It's comedy people, Howard Stern and Gilbert Gottfried make jokes about white people and especially their own Jewish heritage just as much, if not more than they make jokes toward black people. Choose your battles wisely when it comes to race issues. If you nitpick everything, it takes a lot of the impact off the true issues.
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Nicely Put jaisee!
 
hottie4life888 said:
I think we all know what attracts us to black men and vice versa, but you don't see as many couples with a white man and black woman... why do you think that is? idk... i really don't find it as daring and sexy though. do you think its maybe that black men are just more attractive than white men to women in general because they have more "man" qualities? they got that "swagga"! :smt067
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Honestly, I think that black men are more attractive to White WOMEN than black women are to WHITE MEN.
 
Archman said:
Sadly the sisters continue to make them selves unattractive prospects. .they just can't figure it out . . . With every thing from poor diet, obesity, lack of feminity, gaudy outfits to loud, vulgar, and poor communication skills. When you do stumble into a sister who has got it all together though . . . you find she has also got a bitch of an attitude together too.
So I, like so many other brothers, joined the caravan to happiness (ww) as Richard Pryor" would say long ago. It was an enormously beneficial decision that has given me many rich memories
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Co-sign 100%
 
Dmacho said:
Honestly, I think that black men are more attractive to White WOMEN than black women are to WHITE MEN.
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That may be so Dmacho, I don't know.... But if I were a WM, I would be chasing BW like nobody's business. I absolutely find BW gorgeous!!!! Just my two cents.

I have a good friend who happens to be a BW and she's told me she is looking for someone outside of her ethnicity, which I thought was very open minded of her as it will be her first IR. :)
 
Athena said:
I have a good friend who happens to be a BW and she's told me she is looking for someone outside of her ethnicity, which I thought was very open minded of her as it will be her first IR.
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Show her the way.
 
Athena said:
That may be so Dmacho, I don't know.... But if I were a WM, I would be chasing BW like nobody's business. I absolutely find BW gorgeous!!!! Just my two cents.

I have a good friend who happens to be a BW and she's told me she is looking for someone outside of her ethnicity, which I thought was very open minded of her as it will be her first IR. :)
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I find gorgeous women to be gorgeous; I rarely see gorgeous black women. I rarely see black women working out. These two factors may have something to do with each other.
 
hottie4life888 said:
I think we all know what attracts us to black men and vice versa, but you don't see as many couples with a white man and black woman... why do you think that is? idk... i really don't find it as daring and sexy though. do you think its maybe that black men are just more attractive than white men to women in general because they have more "man" qualities? they got that "swagga"! :smt067
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i can answer your question as i have been in multiple IR relationships. From my point of view as a black woman, white men who are interested in me approach me cautiously with the idea as I with them. It's not like bm/wm relationships because it's still fairly new, and for me personally mysterious in a way. The guys that I have dated have told me that initially they did not know how to approach me or if i was even interested in dating white men for that matter. But my smile and openess encourage them to pursue.
Another reason, most of my black female friends are simply "not interested" in dating white men, so they don't.
And finally, I think its either 50/50 with white men, either they are attracted to black women or they are not. Some have more preference for white women, asian women before even considering a black women. And out of that 50% that do like black women, 25% will not consider dating black women for social/economic reasons when you add in factors like race, stereotypes of the way black women portray themselves or have been portrayed in the media.
 
Where do some of y'all brothas come from? There are a bunch of good looking, intelligent black women. I think the problem has more to do with the fact that BW often have a narrower description of what they want in a man. Consequently a lot of good brothas get away from them because the metric they use to define a good man often doesn't capture a lot of good brothas.

The best example is American football. Black women (not all but some) are like Al Davis. They draft the fastest, strongest athletes that put on the best workouts at the scouting combine. They don't pay as much attention to the overall body of work of the athlete they draft and they don't study the film. White women are like Bill Belichick (or even Colts GM Bill Polian). They focus less on what the player is now and instead on what the player will become. Consequently a WW may end up with a brotha that is a 3rd rounder that is All-Pro quality and a BW ends up with a 1st rounder that has bust written all over him.

I am bored...and miss football.
 
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