Inner Beauty
New Member
Actually, I was raised in central NJ. I moved here to work. To be honest, I'm just more traditional. I want to be a stay at home wife and mother. My mother stayed at home. I think that's what's best, but that's just my opinion. I plan on moving right back to the suburbs when I get married. Although, I'm not choosing my man strictly for his bank account, which is very common here. The man I just started dating is black and he's wonderful. I love seeing all these beautiful families and beautiful children.
I call myself (and this is solely my opinion) a modern traditional woman. I come from a traditional family too, yet I'm modern in a lot of other ways. I think people (men more so) have seen the negative connotation or the end result of what the title "provider" has turned into. They get the short end of the stick and living in LA, you see how divorces are in favor of the women. I would be scared to marry too (pre-nups are always nice in this situation). I too would love to be able to be a stay-at-home mom and raise my children knowing that theres a paycheck coming in for our family, but when you have some women who chase men in hopes of landing a lifetime income for birthing babies and sitting at home pampering yourself while the man has worked hard his whole life while you reap the benefits of HIS paycheck, this makes women who say this - look bad. I can see why some men would be jaded. As we all know, there is a big difference between a gold digger and a woman wanting a man to provide for his family. With that said, it's like what are you before having the man be the sole provider bringing to the table?









