BM/WW Celebrity Families with children

GirlieGirl74 said:
I really worry about some of the men on this board that think every woman is only after them for what they have. The sad thing is that they may be meeting great women that they are either passing on because they think she is 'too good to be true' or they run the women off because a good woman is only going to stay to try and prove herself for so long. I venture to say that most of us have been hurt by the opposite sex, but how long do you plan to punish everyone else for another person's mistake?
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i dont knw about the guys on here, but i'll kill to have a "too good to be true" women in my life,and keep her till we die old together hand in hand ready to meet god, amen ;)
 
JordanC said:
GZ how about a cute baby to warm your heart and make you less moody??

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oh just so adorable,,,, I want one ..... I am all clucky and my heart melts when I see bubs......
 
Malik True said:
XOXO
I cut and pasted a comment below from the link you posted. Very interesting. Posted yesterday



THIS IS REALLY BUGGIN THE FUGG OUTTA BV'S BW!!!
Now don't call me a troll cause I'm finna tell you the truth now...and I'mma break it down so it will forever be broke so putcha 3D glasses on cause here it comes....

There are many factors to why this ir explosion is happening but one of the major ones is the disharmony between sexes of both WW/WM AND BW/BM.


WM for decades now have marginalized their WW. This is why the feminist movement gained momentum. They had to fight to vote.. just like Black people. Their place was in the kitchen and were treated like children to be seen but not heard.

Now enter in the BM , who too has been marginalized by BW for many years now...

You ain't got no money...

you ain't got no job = you ain't shyt!!

why you can't be more like the WM etc.... (a mantra unfortunately for many BW).

There are striking simularities between how both the WW and BM have been treated by their opposite counterparts.

Going back to slavery, BW and WM were allies. After the WM would make the BW submit to sex with him in the big house, he'd send her back to the outhouse to tell the BM what chores the WM wanted him to perform the next day. The WM needed the BW to help keep the BM in line.

And to this day, this still goes on. Many WM in power will still pass over a qualified BM for a job and give it to the BW cause he can kill three birds with one stone. Have a woman and a Black in the workplace at the same time and put power in the hands of the BW over the BM in their own household. Knowing at the end of the day she will have little respect for him.

Meanwhile, we all know how through the years a BM could be killed for even looking at a WW.

In turn, WW were ostracized from their own White communities for even considering being with a BM. You know the saying, "you want what you can't have". Well this statement was probably invented to describe the taboo nature of a WW/BM relationship.

Now, let's get back to the WW/WM....

WM's financial situation for the most part through history was not the problem for WW...They were well taken care of financially (a situation opposite of the BW), many just lacked one thing from WM...LOVE.

This is the part BW don't seem to understand. Most WW don't care about a BM's financial status...something BW hold so dear. He can be that "bummy corner thug black man" cause she knows she's gonna get the love she lacks from the WM.

As BM are known for their physical attributes, we can give "love" to a woman like no other man on earth.

Not just the dyck either...

I'm a BM and I'm comfortable enough in my manhood to say BM are the coolest people I've ever met. We got game, rhythm, swagger and definitely the "it" factor many non Blacks males are intimidated by. And these are the things BW have taken for granted...it's always been there for her unabated...till now.

Just as the WW has gotten fed up with the WM's mistreatment of her. Many BM are just as fed up with how the BW has been mistreating him.

Not all mind you..but many...and judging by the number of threads like this...it must be growing.

You wonder why you can see a nice looking BM with a fat outta shape WW and be as happy as all outdoors? It's the treatment factor.The same BM a BW would consider broke as a joke, busted and disgusted...a WW sees an entirely different thing. Yeah many are on that "mandingo" tip and just want to fulfill a fantasy. However, many see a man that's gonna treat her way different than a WM.

On top of that, BW want to be catered to by a BM...while WW want to cater to the BM and put him on a pedestal (something BW seem to have a problem doing) and something ironically WW were trained to do by the WM

...Now there's also the factor of rebellion. Many WW are rebelling against the WM for his mistreatment of her...and what would piss him off more than to see her with a BM....not much (I knew a WW who only dated BM cause her parents were in the kkk)..

So in a sense, the roles have reversed now and many WW/BM are allies against the same oppressive nature of their own counterparts.

A solution IMO would be for BW to be able to adopt traits that would suit the BM more (especially if you value him enough to write all these threads on the subject).

Work with a brotha, lose the ego and attitude (if possible)...be able to be checked sometimes if the intentions are right. see a BM that has aspirations and goals in life, help him out...wipe the boogaz out his nose...don't be so judgmental...your gender does outnumber his 20 to 1 in some states..act like it..these WW are...A GOOD BM will appreciate it and return the favor many folds.

Cause the specific answer to your question may scare YOU...BM are meeting WW EVERYWHERE!!!

BACK TO THE FAMILIES.....
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we should be friends, no,...... ALLIES!, (well im new here and i dont knw how to send a friends request) :smt009
 
SxEfever34 said:
we should be friends, no,...... ALLIES!, (well im new here and i dont knw how to send a friends request) :smt009
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Dude, you are responding to posts that are months, almost a year old. Malik True did not write that, a poster on Blackvoices did.
 
quantumblack said:
I have to agree, British girls tend to go for attitude rather than looks. I've been in London my whole life and I've seen more average BM with hot WW, than hot BM and hot WW. It's to do with the British mentality, we don't celebrate excess or flashy behaviour. So a good looking guy with plenty of money can put a lot of women off. They want a down to earth type of guy.
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make wanna go to the uk now
 
It's like the 1980's all over again and this new kind of crack epidemic is spreading.

Bokeem doin the damn thing. That's whassup.:smt023
 
pettyofficerj said:
Don't let anyone find out she's Spanish, or they'll get the post deleted :p

funny thing tho is that people I know from England consider Spanish people white
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Indigenous Spaniards from Europe are "White" (ie SPANISH), new world descendants who are often called "Spanish" by some in the U.S context (because they speak the language) vary in admixture among the old and new world populations. The threshold for White has been fairly liberal in this thread as it relates to this aforementioned population. Eyeballing, I'll say his lady is more Euro, less mestizo.
 
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xoxo said:
Indigenous Spaniards from Europe are "White" (ie SPANISH), new world descendants who are often called "Spanish" by some in the U.S context (because they speak the language) vary in admixture among the old and new world populations. The threshold for White has been fairly liberal in this thread as it relates to this aforementioned population. Eyeballing, I'll say his lady is more Euro, less mestizo.
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I agree.

Usually when I hear someone call someone Spanish, they're usually from NY or FL and they're talking about PRs, Dominicans or Cubans. Out in the West, we call them Latinos.
 
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